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I brought up sex and his face turned red and his jaw dropped. Did I turn him on or freak him out?

I’m 24 and married. This guy is 29 and single and so fucking FINE. We are both nurses. So I’ve been working with this guy for about a year. I see him for about an hour 2 days a week. He is always super friendly and chatty. One day I walked in and he complimented me on my scent TWICE and in that moment and since I just feel this STRONG sexual energy when I see him like panties soaked, craving his hands anywhere on my body... desire. I’m not sure if he’s doing something to make me feel this way or if it’s just me. Fast forward to now 6 months later and we were in our small office together chatting it up laughing and I’m turned around prepping meds when he brings up swinger and I say “yea I’ve told my husband I’m open to it when we eventually get bored with each other” he turns around red in the face jaw dropped and I just stood there and like smiled my ass off because honestly when he brought up sex all my mind could see was him fucking me on the desk. So anyway now I’m scared that I misread the situation. Did I turn him on or freak him out?
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Superb Opinion

  • There is an element of lol there.

    however if your married you are getting very close to crossing the rubicon,

    you are giving him very clear come on ( or cum on ) signals.

    slightly different if you were on about your husband open to swinging, however borderline cheating on this one.

    getting wet n horny is one thing, acting on it is another.

    I imagine he is really confused lol, he likely has hots for you, a lot of guys see married women as safe flirting, as they don’t do anything, you just called his bluff lol.

    • Lol thanks for the thoughtful response. At this point I’m undecided if I’ll act on any of this but i do worry it’s going to far because I find myself wishing he would touch me.

    • Yes I know the feeling, had similar when in Air Force, both single but I was their superior and the sexual feeling was a right mare lol.

    • It’s so intense 😫

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Either he was shocked cause you don’t seem the type to swing or he was pleasantly surprised and it made him turn red.
    Also it’s normal to find others attractive whilst married, but you should really be careful as you’re starting to dread dangerous water here by having thoughts about sex with him.
    Maybe try not to talk about sexual topics with him as it might be leading y’all both in that direction. Just a thought. And going home to take out that sexual frustration is a good thing. Especially if you forget about the dude and only think about your husband.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Talk to your husband about it, you said he was open to such things, you decide your action after his response accordingly.

    Do NOT violate his trust

    If he isn't open to sharing you and you really wanna do it, just divorce him and ruin a nice marriage

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You said you were already married? And you're gonna fuck some other guy? Seriously?

  • This is all just so wrong and you certainly don’t want to commit adultery

  • I think you turned him on and you surprised him too.

  • Yup you definitely turned him on!!! Lol i know i would be!!

    • Lol how do I proceed? I see him again in a couple days and I’m tired of beating around the bush.

    • Add me

  • Shush

    • 🤣🤣 helppp meeee

    • Don't marry someone and then get all wet over someone else

    • 👌🏻 noted

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  • U’d cheat on ur husband?

  • So you're married and you're going to fuck a co worker? You're obviously a person of high morals.

  • Go for it

  • MGTOW

  • ok so you're a piece of shit who can't be trusted

  • Just get down and suck him

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • That's why my husband doesn't want me to work away from home.
    You're proving him right.

    • It’s human nature 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Yes, it's dangerous for a marriage because once people get close to cheating it's very easy to lose control. Nature does take over and it causes all kinds of pain and problems.

  • Both. But he shouldn't be surprised, all nurses are hoes.

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