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- If the choices are simply "yes" or "no," then the answer is "yes." But the real answer is "maybe." I am 66 years old. Suppose that I meet a woman who is 57 years old and her number is 7. Is that number a deal breaker?
1. What if she had 6 partners when she was in her teens and early 20's, then met and married her husband? She was always faithful to him. He died two years ago. She has dated very little since his death and has not had any sexual partners sine her husband died. Is she a serious minded woman who takes relationships seriously? If we have a sexual relationship, will it be just a casual encounter or will she treated it as an expression of love in a committed relationship?
2. What if she married her high school sweetheart, the man to whom she gave her virginity and they were married until he died two years ago. She was always faithful to him. She didn't date for a year after his death, then she started dating and kinda "went crazy," having 6 sexual partners in the last year. Is she a serious minded woman who takes relationships seriously? If we have a sexual relationship, will it be just a casual encounter or will she treated it as an expression of love in a committed relationship?
If you are looking for a significant long term relationship, the most important thing to know about a partner is his or her attitude about sex now. For them, is sex a recreational activity, fun just for the sake of fun, or is it an act of love between two committed partners? If they had a wild time in their past but you sincerely believe that they have changed their ways and are now ready for love and commitment, then the past number is not too relevant. If they had a wild time and it was more recent, that makes it more probable that they may still have that wild, recreational sex attitude. So. . . it depends.1|01|0Is this still revelant?
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- Definitely matters.
Definitely don't want to be married to someone that's already shared intimate experiences with other guys, as it's no longer going to be a big deal to her, when she has one with me.
The people saying ''it shouldn't matter, don't judge me'' (LOL), are saying that because they are simply insecure about their own past.
As for why guys aren't judged, that's up to females. If females aren't going to critique men that sleep around, but than complain that men aren't been judged, than that's on them to start doing that.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- If it's just for sex, no..
If people are just randomly casually hooking up I don't think they really care about that, as long as STD test and condoms,
If it's for a relationship, yes..
It's not the how many, as much as the how...
I personally wouldn't want a relationship with someone who had a history of having multiple partners where they were playing em all at once.
Or someone that has a history of cheating.
Or someone that had knocked up multiple people and either convinced them to abort or have multiple baby momma's..
How you treat/treated other people in the past can definitely be a reflexion on your character, how trustworthy or how reliable, responsible of a person you are...0|10|0Is this still revelant? - If it didn't matter I wouldn't be a virgin to this very day. It sure as hell matters. If a guy didn't care about mine I would know that's a red flag. Because that usually means he's going to attract women that I'm not only incompatible with him but it's probably going to use him, or he's going to need to treat me. Either way I'm not going to be foolish enough to find out. And while I am not biased thinking that all good men of virgins and all bad men are not. I also look at the person's character. A non-virgin has never been my ideal. But he thinks there's nothing wrong with it that's where the problem comes in.1|50|0Is this still revelant?
Yes... Virgin men are usually less exposed to hook up cultures... And I'm not someone who do hook ups either.. So we're good. And I can really hope that I'll be his first and last.
But here's the thing though. Be careful who you get yourself involved with. Just because they are virgins not all of them share the same values and desires as you. They will sometimes waiting it out if it means that they still get something in the end of it. Remember it is about the person's intent. I have met plenty of Virgin Hunters as well as I had met virgins who were not compatible with me because they did not share the same values. And trust me when I say, just because you have similar beliefs, it doesn't always mean you were equally yoked.
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Yeah I'm sorry to tell you. But the most I can say on it is educate you want it. Virgin Hunters is exactly what the term means. They are they are Hunters who are hunting virgins. These are people who actively seek out virgin simply because of the benefits of what they feel a virgin can give them. They are not concerned about her welfare, their only concern but what they can gain. You can pretty much consider it the male equivalent of a gold digger. Except, did not go digging for money, there gold digging for sex. And sadly I come to find out there are even virgin men who are the same. I had to learn this sadly around your age many years ago. I don't know if the term has changed much now or not. But that's exactly what they're called.
If a man really loved and cared about a woman, sex would not be a priority. They are not married to you to make that a priority in the first place. Their goal at that point is to love and to value you for you. Because they cannot find themselves Living Without You, then their reason to be with you is because of what you can benefit them sexually. That's why I always tell people be it if it's a man or woman. Particularly women. If a woman did not understand or concern about sex, she would not be dating you in the first place or want to be married. That's what I tell men all the time. And yet their focus is getting just that.That's why you got to be careful with them. Their goal is to basically deflower you. They are not looking to wait for marriage to have sex. Even if they do, they go so basically to do the same thing. They just wait until marriage to control you with it. That's why a lot of women don't want to wait for marriage now because they don't see the point. The problem is that they're not doing themselves any favors if they're having sex inside of marriage anyway. Also, some of the girls already know what kind of guys they are. But because they're so desperate to change the guy, instead of getting a person that's already shares those values that is the reason why they end up with it end up. The same with men.
Yeah I just want a guy who's willing to settle with me not for a short time.. And that shows how much he loves me. I must see the commitment tho.. I need to test him before that and actually evaluate his personality. Might want to study psychology đđ
Oh you definitely want to study up on all of that. Definitely learn all that you can before you make those decisions. But I tell you now. If they are not a friend to you, if the relationship isn't natural, 9 out of 10 times it's exactly that. A man has to see you as a friend and not look at you any other way. If he's unable to do that then that's exactly what he's looking for.
Wait, what? It's not about hooking up anyting. It should never be about that. It should be about do you have a rational and logical reason to be involved with a person sexually in the first place. It's about all you called to mash all you're not called to marriage. You don't just get married or be involved with anybody if you have no personal business being in it. Not only are you supposed to be representing the things of God, you supposed to set an example of God. Remember would Jesus have said. There are those that are called to marriage. And there's those that are not. And then there are those that make themselves eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom. It's not a personal desire of yours to marry, it is not a sin to not get married. But as long as I'm not fornicating outside of marriage, then I'm fine. And plus God had already said that if I don't want to, I don't have to. It's my choice the same as a choice of everybody else. From what I've been through my entire life so far, I was not told by anybody or should I say regarding that that I was called to marriage. I have more than enough people to try to basically force that on me because that's what they think that I should do. But there are plenty of other people who I can see definitely desires that, but they don't feel the same way of telling them that. And from what I am seeing in this world alone be if a man is supposed to be a God or not, no way. I say for myself definitely I cannot handle marriage and I cannot handle the responsibilities of it. I don't want enough trauma and dealing with people and Men especially be online or offline have done enough to me as it is. God knows why and I'm leaving it at that. All I know is I am well aware that God is really not happy with those who did what they did.
I find it really sad that a lot of people do not put the same amount of respect for God when it comes to this. People are too busy asking God to supposedly hook them up with somebody and that is not what that's for. People really need to put their focus on God. The two concerned with worldly things and then not concerned about spiritual things. Many people are asking for spouses and they haven't think about what will make them grow first in their singleness before they are ready to be looking for a permanent partner. And from what I am seeing with a lot of men is claiming to be interested, their focus is not on the Lord. Their focus is simply trying to get somebody sexually. My priority is God. My priority is getting my salvation in order. My priority is not a man.
My priority is glorifying the lord. Then to save as many souls as I can in Jesus's name , then to exploit demons with the lords help. I'm not at all attracted to the things of this world either. The world is nothing but a dung heap.
@Djaay
You have to remember something. You have to consider your salvation first. It is not you to save many Souls. It is through Jesus who can. You have to have the power to do so, because if you do not have the power and authority to do so, then you're just playing with spiritual things you should not be playing with. There is a reason why some people are given certain abilities and certain gifts and there are others who do not have it. It does not mean you don't pursue it, but it is all about your intent. These are very serious times and time is running out. Jesus is definitely coming soon and he's coming much sooner than people actually think. If one is not prepared to do what they got to do and being that glorified bodies, that is it. That's why I tell people if you are not called for marriage and it's not really that important focus on the Lord before it is too late.We have to be extremely careful of these things because people desire these things so much that that's why Satan finds a way to control people as well as utilize people to make you fall into sin if not be distracted. We cannot afford to be distracted. If that person is not elevating your life spiritually and help keep you focus on the things of God, that person is a distraction.
Seek God in all things first for you must be a vessel willing to serve the Lord. Stay diligent and be steadfast in him. Whether one receives a spouse in this life or not what matters is that you are with the Lord most high God.
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3875- The truth?
I depends on the partner.
Some people don't care... some do.
Some people treat sex as more intimate and special that you do with one person or a select few and want partners that have the same view and have the same background.
There is no all encompassing answer.
Overall, it is probably best to link up people that have the same values and views.
If there views don't line up and their values and histories clash... they just aren't a good fit... best to just move on.0|00|0 
Anonymous4 dWell I think slutshame is almost something non existent and media wants to show you the opposite. The worst kind of shaming is virgin shaming ( for boys and girls). My best friend was a virgin until her middle 20s. She was pretty just not into dating. Other girls were constantly moking her. Guys didn't. Never treated her like a national treasure just cuz She was a virgin, but never been mean to her. Girls constantly virgin shamed her. Hoes are everywhere and we like them. Its the virgin or good boys/girls we shame0|42|0- Opinion Owner3 d
@TruthBringer I am a woman and I do think a woman should be less sexually experienced than a man. I hate all this feminist ( pro-hoe) bullshit. I do not say every non virgin is a hoe. I am not a virgin myself, but a guy is the one who should take the lead. For exemple when I had sex for the very first time it was with a man older than me, with so much more experience. If he was a virgin too... well, blind leading the blind. I am a woman who embraces old fashioned values. A woman should be kind, sensitive... a man should be masculine and protective.
Very well said! by the way, of course a woman who happens not to be a virgin is not by definition a hoe. What her lifestyle is and how many casual sexual partners she had is what defines her to be a hoe (at least in the eyes of the general). But yeah I agree, men should take the lead. There is a huge difference in dynamics between a sexually experienced man getting with a virgin in comparison with a sexually experience woman getting with a virginal man. The latter is more often than not disasterous. And this is something that so many people here don't like to admit
- The shoe meme is a great example. To me, it matters. I dont want someone whos been with more than a handful of people. Iâll feel they dont take sex or relationships seriously and jump into bed too quickly with the person. Plus its like do they truly love themselves? If you love something, you tell others how much you love it but you dont give that thing you love away to everyone else. It should be only to those who truly matter2|51|1
Correct - it isn't so much a number question as it is the 'can you remain loyal and will you ENJOY it' question.
I've had my share of mistakes, based on crap parental/social circle advice - but I can tell you promiscuity is a complete waste of time.
Nothing like waking up next to someone who you know is... not so much unconditoonally, on the sense you could abuse it, but naturally/organically/biologically yours, in the sense you like to hug them, hear them breathe and feel at rest/calm and joyful that wsy/about it.- Show All Show Less
If someone passes the 5 mark, think about it, both options are bad:
If the individual fucked 5+ people on hook ups, it means that he/she doesn't take sex seriously;
and if its from 5+ different relationships, i mean, are you trying to be the next mistake?@AFellowWeeb i dont even want someone whos been with five if im being honest. I just said a handful to sum it up
Funny. I agree. Been with... 40+. 3 relationships. Well, some month or two long ones. Only one was a one night stand (and it was the least satisfying experience)
Woukd have, now 25 years since the first one - then, and now - swapped it all for one loving, skin and soul touching/close, relationship.
Could have even divorced with grownup kids now, like Bill and Melinda Gates!
- FFS! How many times is this "Body count" question, in various words, going to get asked? This must be the 20th time this month. Why are you turkey pot pies so interested in how many times a person has been fucked? What? you get off hearing how some girls are Ho's and put out for anybody who asks? And girls, do you think saying you have been through 30 guys makes you look like a role model for "Virgins of America Fan Club"? Surely there must be other questions that haven't been asked 1,000 time before.
Stop asking me how many guys I fucked!! 1|00|0 - The answer is an absolute YES. Well.. if you're planning on having a long term relationship that is. What I find amusing is that only those who are fuilty of having a rich sexual history get mad at analogies like this one. Typical damage control attempt to soothe the cognitive dissonance because they don't like the fact that people generally care about someone's sexual history.
I've made a Take on this which dives deeper and debunks anyone's claim that it "doesn't matter":Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters0|10|0 - Comparing a person to shoes is just 🤦🏻ââď¸
Also why does only a woman's sexual history matter? Why do guys get a free pass to fuck whoever they want when women get shamed for sleeping with 1 person.5|73|7
Asker4 dwhen did I say men are allowed to sleep with who ever they want?
but we all know women are bigger whores then men
so you women will always be the target
and if men must restrain themselves SO DO WOMEN
and also men don't get to let out their true emotions
while you women do
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wV6axt4TCIOh shut the fuck up. This question wasn't exactly worded for both genders was it? No it was deliberately only about women.
Men on average sleep with more people than women do so don't come at me with the women are bigger whores bullshit.
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You really have such little faith in your own gender? You're admitting to being a rapist then?
Your math is off how can men sleep with more partners âon averageâ when thereâs roughly the same amount of people on this earth unless a lot of men are having more gay encounters than women thatâs impossible also if youâre going to cite a study those are not reliable women tend to divide by 3 as men tend to multiply it by 3 (sexual encounters) as for sexual history mattering it does matter for the man and the woman but it literally shouldnât bother you if you donât want to date a gentleman that has values then donât itâs as simple as that đ¤ˇđ˝ââď¸ Just like if that same gentleman with values has no intention of dating you he too should not care what you do with your life or body since it shouldnât effect him
đ I can't handle the stupidity in that comment đđ wow you really thought you did something there...
@Levin www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cockwomble
A UK Forces term that entered mainstream use@Levin Don't mind the neutred male feminist who is simping into the graces of women calling others "cockwombles" simply for voicing their preferences and opinions.
@Smashingdoozy Both gender's sexual history matters. The shoe comparison is nothing more than an analogy and you know it. No point in going too deep into matters simply because a thread has been opened which makes you feel spoken to. In the end, yes sexual history matters and studies have pointed to that.
I was simply expressing my opinion because in reality it's men who care more about this than women. Some stupid ego thing.
You're correct about men caring more than women about this matter. Did you ever ask yourself why? Or do you just brush it aside as "stupid ego" without actually wanting to understand the male perspective? If you're genuinely interested in knowing, I would be happy to explain the biological reason behind this and what studies say about the consequences of having a multiple sexual partners. But then again, if you truly were interested, you would have done your own research.
Great! My Take only describes the effects, not the biological explanation behind it. Although they aren't very far off from each other. In the end, a guy's sexual history matters aswel. The question is whether it matters just as much or not. Looking from a biological point of view, women are more affected by sleeping around than men.
Sure but having multiple sex partners â sleeping around. The issue really lies in the relationship aspect, there tends to be more mentally damaging issues when it comes to sex in terms of one time things/one night stands. Women are especially affected because of our need of an emotional connection. But then again the root issue of sleeping around/ engaging in one night stands isn't as simple as people being "whores" right? It all in the end comes down to how a person was raised. A person with childhood trauma is more likely to experiment sexually, with drugs, with alcohol, more likely to have a tendency to take risks.
Often people who do have multiple partners happen to have slept around. Don't forget we live in the sexual free west. Does that mean people with multiple partners must have slept around? Of course not. Like you said, you can still stack on bodies through relationships. And even then, itâs still stacking up bodies. Despite having had a good connection with those previous partners.
Whether viewing a person as a âwhoreâ for sleeping around is a personal matter and varies from person to person. Even though this is caused by childhood trauma is reason enough for many people to next that person as they carry too much âbaggageâ. So yes, those who sleep around often do have underlying issues which causes them to act impulsively and engage into promiscuity. Still more than enough reason for many âcleanâ people to next them. And I honestly think itâs justified.
- It matters to a point. If it a girl has slept with a large number of guys, it speaks to her priorities and values, which may be inconsistent with what I'm looking for in a relationship. In the case of values, the context of those sexual partners and her age matters (the older you are, the higher the threshold for too many sexual partners). A high number of sexual partners also increases the chances of STIs, meaning I'm more reluctant to take her at her word before getting physically intimate.0|00|0
- To an extent, like I'd say I'd at least care enough to know.
Like if they've got a history of cheating, homewrecking, any kind of STDS or sexual abuse, I'd rather it be brought to the surface.
I myself am a virgin and whilst I'd prefer someone who's also a virgin, I don't think I'd care too much if a woman has slept around with other single people, whilst she was single herself.0|00|0 - In a pair of shoes... YES
In personal relationships, ... well at first,... maybe you want to know the "whys, and how many's".
But really, does it even matter... if you're just going to be jumping from one to another?
But if you're ready to make a relationship into the future, ... maybe that "practice" will benefit you now.0|00|0 - How typical of someone with that kind of profile picture to describe everything in terms of economics.
Some boomer shit, that is.
It's different for different women. Some women are changed by their sexual history and obnoxiously make it their entire personality. Others remain just as individual as they were when they were virgins.
It's all about finding a woman with some goddamn integrity.0|00|0 - Yes. I can imagine there are gonna be a lot of future damaged relationships and future break ups whenever it comes clean a man or men who've had bi-curious moments or bisexual flings but realise later on they are straight. Will a woman be unimpressed, hmm. 🤔🤔🤔1|10|0
- I canât believe so many people said yes. No! Your chemistry and connection is what matters.2|82|10
@loves2learn Yeah and that connection and chemistry is often non-existent with people who have a high body count. No wonder those with higher numbers of sexual partners contribute to the statistics of most highest divorce rates and overall lesser happiness. The reason why people said "yes" is because th answer is YES. And studies point out to that.
People evidently think we are merchandise lmfao religious conservative brainwashing at its finest!! đ¤Śđťââď¸đ¤Śđťââď¸
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Ohhh @KrakenAttackin and @TruthBringer. I should have expected you two to come out of the woodwork.
Do you two process what you read or are you just utter morons. I HAVE ONLY HAD SEX WITH ONE MAN.
Yet Iâm still outraged by the judgement of others. GTFO my thread.Lovely how you immediately resorted to ad hominems while also neglecting the fact I didn't even attack you personally. Goes to show the insecurity and lack of intellectual capacity to come with a productive counter argument, to begin with. My comment wasn't about you personally, but do stick to your feelz, sweetheart.
@shalt we werenât even talking about addiction. Simply talking about number of sex partners, which, in fact, does not define a person.
Also how does that whole analogy work anyway? Like if you had one partner but had sex 1000000000 times vs you had multiple partners and only had sex 5 times? Lmfao
Wow!! They said someone with a high body count can't have a connection. I guess the preachers who use to be pimps, don't count. Or the priest who did before they took the vow. Gotta love double standards. Lol
@Mehzmeh itâs worse than that. They think men can have high body counts but not women.
- Anonymous4 dI can see why it doesnât matter to others, but my sexual history matters to me. And I also care about a guys sexual history. I wouldnât wanna be with a man who had multiple partners while I didnât. Menâs sexual history matters too. Period.3|50|0
Totally, like what if he's once tried being bi or had a bi-curious moment with another man, you know? Thoughts?
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Overall we should all just wait till marriage. It's the best way to avoid all these complications to be honest
- Depends how soon they grow out if it. If a girl makes a bunch of bad decisions but comes to her senses in her early 20s, well fair enough, sheâs learning. If a girl doesnât wake up till sheâs late 20s or 30s then I really wouldnât trust them to change their promiscuous ways0|00|0
- i don't care how many guys she fucks with in the past, as long as she ain't carry stds over. It's how she behave when being with me is more important. If she behave like a 12 year old kid she still gets a high chance of getting the fuck off.0|00|0
- Not sure it's a binary question. Different people will have different values and expectations. Some people will only want virgins, other will be happy if partner was ex prostitute who has slept with 10k plus.
I've never really asked my partners their history. I know some of it, not all. I was a late bloomer, was a virgin till 35 so inexperienced and I have explained my history to partners as it affects the way I interact with them compared with an average 35 yr old.2|00|0 - I am not confusing this with body count. A person's total history matters. Did they serve time in prison, spent time in drug rehab, had a bad credit score, been married multiple times. All these things make that person who they are. Sexual history is also significant. This does not mean that if somebody has a huge sexual history that they are not dateable or incapable of change.2|00|0
- Yes. As a woman of high self-esteem and self-respect, confidence, I have a relatively low count. I don't sleep around to feel special about myself. Not when I attract attention from very affluent men dressing and acting respectfully.
So yes it does matter. To me, it says he isn't some loser that's been passed around because nobody was interested in keeping him.1|00|0 - If you were buying pre used condoms, then the shoe would fit. But, that argument is inconsequential!
Cocks and coochies aren't shoes, they heal and have their own environments! So saying that matters is just incredibly shortsighted, arrogant and selfish.2|21|0 - History and doomed to repeat it.
We are built from our experiences.
Some other quote from somewhere about past, now and future.
My sexual history matters to me even though I haven't had sex. It will affect any relationship in the future?0|00|0 - As the shoe comparison represents, do you want to put your "foot" in a "shoe" that's been worn? Personally, one or two people isn't that bad depending on the timeframe. Five people is pushing it. Sexual history does matter because lots of partners can lead to disease, if you've had a lot of partners your current partner may also believe you are going to leave eventually and just want him/her for sex.0|00|0
- It doesn't matter to me as long as I know she's a good person and honest and communicative with me. It wouldn't degrade her at all, she's a human and not an object. Humans are sexual beings and I understand that we have sexual urges and needs so one person might need more sex partners than someone else with a lower sex drive. In the end it doesn't matter to me. What matters to me is her and her alone.0|01|1
- I think I get your question you're referring your sexual self to shoes 👟
So many rubbers so little time
You like being tied
Seeking soul (sole) mate
Tongue & groove
Wow 🤯1|20|1 - Only in terms of experience for new relationships. As a human being, how many people you plowed or got plowed by is irrelevant.0|00|0
- It matters if you sleep with one person to the next and you just set yourself short. Im not pure at all. I've had sex before but i dont go around fucking one guy then a next i have some boundaries and im learning my worth.0|31|0
I believe having worth is being the best person you can be, having that self love, having a kind heart, doing good deeds for people, staying true to yourself and recognizing your character all is part of your worth as an individual. Self confidence, awareness.
- Men's don't... Women's do.
There is an evolutionary reason for this.
The Breakdown of "Why is it ok for a guy to sleep around and not ok for a girl".1|00|0 - The human body is not a pair of shoes, anyone who needs that explained to them shouldnât be allowed to have sex.2|11|3
- No I do not see any important reason why past sexual history should matter, barring any STD's etc that you may be keeping secret.1|11|7
Studies have shown that it does matter. The reason why you "don't see" the important reason is because you clearly haven't done your research on this topic. The consequences go beyond just STD's.
@TruthBringer You are wasting your breath. It is not rational for these women to refute that a high cock-count lowers their value, but here they are.
@KrakenAttackin Yeah you're right. Too bad many of them will find out the hard way and by the time it happens, it will be too late...
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@TruthBringer You can stick that study in your dirty ass after you remove TruthBringer from it! At 37 had more dick in me than you two morons could count yet very happily married now for 7 years and 3 kids. Mark doesn't know, never asked about my past sex before him and I've never asked him about his carousing around before I came into his life.
Hahahah and you think I would take word of someone who had gangbangs. Of course you don't like the studies because they debunk every snowflake mindset you have. Men who end up with promiscuous women are usually low value men who take what they can get (low hanging fruit). I've never witnessed a self-respecting man wife up a woman who had been dicked down by half the town, let alone have gangbangs
- It depends on jow promiscuous you were. If it indicates a lack of impulse control and emotional problems that persist, itâs very relevant0|00|0
- Tf. Why it is always the woman who get judged while nobody judge a fucking male whore. So since nobody judge men for this, i will do it. Yeah non virgin men are like second hand dildo aka second hand goods. So i dont want to have the trash of other women and so i want a new fresh young one.0|10|1
No self respecting woman would want a non virgin man. Non virgin men are trash. So trash men belong to streets aka to trash
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No i am just reacting on hypocritical male hoes. Lol are you triggered or why do make such pointless reply?
Wanting a virgin guy make me hurt? How? Lol just because i am not into damaged goods aka non virgin aka male hoes? Tf.
There are virgin guys.. lol , but you wouldn't want them.. as you sould want an experienced guy
No lol. Wtf i only prefere virgin guys but their personality should be "virgin" too lol. Some virgin guys would date anyone to have sex which is toxic since he use the person for sex. Statistically speaking virgin men aka men with no/fewer bodycount least likely will cheat on you. Experienced men should date experienced women
- My girlfriend was a virgin and its the best sex of my life. The last girl i was with was a stripper and onlyfans girl and very experienced and it was technically great but the connection was not there like my current girlfriend. Sexual history matters.0|11|0
- Not as much as current judgement does.
Everyone has a past.0|00|0 - Ofcourse it does! I wouldn't want a Virgin who've never experimented and doesn't know what he or she likes.0|00|0
- Your sexual history doesn't matter at all. What matters is the here and now as well as the chemistry/connection you have with your partner.0|00|0
- It doesn't occupy my mind, so no it doesn't matter to me. Also, a shoe and a human being are at least a little different.0|00|0
- If someone else lived in the house before me id still buy it. Maybe they built a pool, now the property value goes up0|00|0
- I said yes but it depends on so many things for me.
If you've been with 100 girls/guys and have tested clean for disease and haven't slept with people I know that would cause an awkward moment then maybe doesn't matter as much...1|41|1 - It does within limits. Having less partners doesn't mean you're a better partner than someone with more partners.1|21|0
Actually, studies have shown that those with lesser partners are less likely to have lower overall happiness and lead more meaningful relationships. With that in mind, I would conclude that yes, having a lower body count DOES make you a better partner. This is generally speaking of course. Every individual should be assessed accordingly.
@TruthBringer yeah because these kind of people would only focus their mental energy and sexual energy on that one person...
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- Does MY sexual history matter to me? Not in the slightest as of now. But does a partners matter to me? Absolutely.1|41|0
- Iâd say it doesnât as long as you didnât drag anything that can affect another persons life into the equation. (STDs)3|00|0
- If your going to drink a soda, would you rather open the bottle yourself or drink from a bottle that was opened by someone else and has had 50 dicks stuck in it?0|00|0
- It matters, but slut shaming is a pretty shitty thing to do. I've had partners that have slept with many people and a couple that were virgins. It matters, but you shouldn't shame people for having sex.0|01|0
- Of course she could be into gang bangs 10 guys on one girl0|00|0
- Value no, maybe it can be a tell tell sign of inconsistent relationships but as for making someone a less valuable human being no1|31|0
- You're comparing women to shoes. It only matters if you have an STI.3|12|3
It's only an analogy and it does matter not just for STI's but also many other factors (as studies have shown)
If you think that's a valid analogy then you believe that a woman is equal in value to a shoe. Otherwise it's not a valid analogy. What studies?
It is a valid analogy because it brings forth the fundamental idea to how th eworld looks at promiscuity. So yes, it is valid. And here I will provide the sources: Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters â
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It doesn't matter how the world looks at anything. It matters how the person looks at it. How do you know the studies are valid? Are there sources at the bottom of the studies too, it just said that studies had shown and I want proof and also the first link wouldn't open.
Bet you haven't even looked at them. How do I know they are valid? Because they have sourced the data
I've sent you a link to a Take of mine and it explains everything. It also includes the research I speak of. Well 1 of the many researches at least.
Also, it doesn't matter if people are lying about how many people have slept with or anything because society is telling him that they need to lie society is the problem not the people. On either count, men lying to raise it and women lying to lower it is just because of society so what we need to find out is why society is thinking that way and that is what really matters. Also your arguments about addicts going back to addiction is because addiction is a lifelong problem and your body's always wanting it even after you're not abusing the substance because you were addicted to it and your body still wants it.
Same goes with promiscuity. Someone who has been living a promiscuous lifestyle would fall right back in. at least the odds of that happening are significantly higher than someone who hasn't been living that lifestyle. And that's where the addiction example comes into play
Oh and yes it matters very much whether someone lies about their sexual past. Especially for men that's something that is important. Men of value and self-respect don't want to wife up a woman who has slept with half the town and is lying about it
- It only does matter when the police has a file about it :)1|10|0
- but only to me, i think like everything Esperance helps1|30|2
- of course it matters. cause everything in your history took part in shaping who you are today. however a "quantitative" approach (how many partners you had) can not tell anything about the quality of those relations.1|00|0
- I don't really care if you're a virgin or have done it a thousand times with a hundred men. The most significant thing for me is that she wants to be with me. The rest is just details.0|01|0
- Yeah, I wouldn't wanna date someone with zero to little sexual experience.0|00|0
- Nope, not one bit. And those that think that it does can suck their own dick.3|13|1
You aren't even willing to consider other people and their opinions. That makes you a bigot.
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Why? Because she won't cowtow to the male dominate opinion? In this society, men can sleep around with a bunch of females. And still be considered a decent person. But if a female does it. Then she is a used shoe. And that's because society has been brain washed by, religious inslavers. Aka, all religions. To say a woman who sleeps around is a whore. Or not fit to be a partner. But most "religious leaders". Were bigger whores in there younger day's. Hell, most of them still are. But you want to call her a bigot for her opinions. And yet, you saying that makes you a bigot.
Awwww. Somebody feelings got hurt when I, talked about religion. And I, know more about this than you think. Apparently, you created this so so can troll people. Lol
How am I, the definition of "religious"? And no I am not atheist. I am a human being. Aka, I am spiritual, or religious. I don't believe in anything. Because I, don't trust anything.
Good luck trolling people. Smh. I can't believe I, fell for it. Lol. I am not going to reply anymore. I am not going let people like you get me in a battle of wits. Or knowledge. Have a good day.First of all, thank you @Mehzmeh for coming to my defense. Also, his claims about religion have some truth to them.
Major religions around the world do have clauses about a woman's sexual purity. That gets translated into a woman's "body count" being reflected into "her worth."Wow!! Talk about fairy tales. I guess you believe in a guy who can travel the earth and give all good kids toy's. Lol.
You probably believe the earth is flat as well. Or, that we are on the heads of giant elephants holding up the planet. LolAnd only a piece of shit calls a female a whore or a bitch.
What kind of man are you? I bet if someone called your sister, mother, or daughter that. You would be ready to kill. But I, guess it's okay since it's on the internet. And you can cyber bully her. That is not okay.Well we're Samoan so our way of disapline is of our own culture.
The father said.. Sup boi u wrote dis... yea dad.. come hea (slapped him one ) fuk wrong wit u.. next time u talk , don't just talk... think and feel (from da heart) before u talk. Then my son told him to get dressed and to go work wit me today... dad no pay him either. So that's kinda the lesson there- Asker2 d
@Mehzmeh
this is why atheist are stupid
HE DOES NOT EVEN KNOW
THERE IS A GIANT SNAKE CIRCLING THE EARTH
he has no idea that when he dies
he will be put inside the snake to be tortured
ATHEIST AND THEIR IMAGINARY BELIEFS
idiots need to be killed
ohh and here is the snake circling the earth dumb ass lol
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NT1_MEb0Rjg&t=9s Smh. When I die I die. That's it. Wow!! You believe what ever you want to. I appreciate that you called me a dumb ass. That was the best insult ever.
Bahahahahaha. And I, guess your life is better. Nice!! And this is why people don't like people who think they are more holly than anyone else.
So, keep believing your fairy tales. And I, will live my life to the fullest. I bring substance to the world because I am not under a spell. Have a nice life.
- Sleep around all you want, but I expect you to protect yourself and therefore me.0|00|0
- she's either a slut or a virgin. There is no middle ground.0|00|0
- It matters in a sense of did u practice safe sex or sketchy sex.2|10|0
- Whether it matters or not is irrelevant, look at your own sexual history and find someome with that same history, arguing over this is like political arvuments, they lead nowhere0|00|1
- Anonymous4 dIt does.
I've definitely had my fun. Even I understand that it's wrong for me to expect some guy who worked his whole life and only had a few girlfriends to marry me.
People who have lived promiscuous lives should stick to dating other promiscuous people.1|21|0 - I think it matters, yes.
Will it define "my value" by itself? no, I do not think so.3|00|0 - Tel me you thoughts about owning a car thatâs had 20-30 owners. Vs a car thatâs had only 2 previous owners0|21|0
- The type of people would be more concerning then the numbers of people.0|00|0
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