I know there are situations to think about and to take into considerationbut most of the time NOPE
Yes... Virgin men are usually less exposed to hook up cultures... And I'm not someone who do hook ups either.. So we're good. And I can really hope that I'll be his first and last.
But here's the thing though. Be careful who you get yourself involved with. Just because they are virgins not all of them share the same values and desires as you. They will sometimes waiting it out if it means that they still get something in the end of it. Remember it is about the person's intent. I have met plenty of Virgin Hunters as well as I had met virgins who were not compatible with me because they did not share the same values. And trust me when I say, just because you have similar beliefs, it doesn't always mean you were equally yoked.
Virgin hunters? First time hearing this..
Yeah I'm sorry to tell you. But the most I can say on it is educate you want it. Virgin Hunters is exactly what the term means. They are they are Hunters who are hunting virgins. These are people who actively seek out virgin simply because of the benefits of what they feel a virgin can give them. They are not concerned about her welfare, their only concern but what they can gain. You can pretty much consider it the male equivalent of a gold digger. Except, did not go digging for money, there gold digging for sex. And sadly I come to find out there are even virgin men who are the same. I had to learn this sadly around your age many years ago. I don't know if the term has changed much now or not. But that's exactly what they're called. If a man really loved and cared about a woman, sex would not be a priority. They are not married to you to make that a priority in the first place. Their goal at that point is to love and to value you for you. Because they cannot find themselves Living Without You, then their reason to be with you is because of what you can benefit them sexually. That's why I always tell people be it if it's a man or woman. Particularly women. If a woman did not understand or concern about sex, she would not be dating you in the first place or want to be married. That's what I tell men all the time. And yet their focus is getting just that.
Educate you on it*
I see.. Yes I'm so agree with you 💕
That's why you got to be careful with them. Their goal is to basically deflower you. They are not looking to wait for marriage to have sex. Even if they do, they go so basically to do the same thing. They just wait until marriage to control you with it. That's why a lot of women don't want to wait for marriage now because they don't see the point. The problem is that they're not doing themselves any favors if they're having sex inside of marriage anyway. Also, some of the girls already know what kind of guys they are. But because they're so desperate to change the guy, instead of getting a person that's already shares those values that is the reason why they end up with it end up. The same with men.
Yeah I just want a guy who's willing to settle with me not for a short time.. And that shows how much he loves me. I must see the commitment tho.. I need to test him before that and actually evaluate his personality. Might want to study psychology 😂🙈
You're welcome. Just be careful out there.
Oh you definitely want to study up on all of that. Definitely learn all that you can before you make those decisions. But I tell you now. If they are not a friend to you, if the relationship isn't natural, 9 out of 10 times it's exactly that. A man has to see you as a friend and not look at you any other way. If he's unable to do that then that's exactly what he's looking for.
Don't you have any faith with God hooking u up with a good man?
Wait, what? It's not about hooking up anyting. It should never be about that. It should be about do you have a rational and logical reason to be involved with a person sexually in the first place. It's about all you called to mash all you're not called to marriage. You don't just get married or be involved with anybody if you have no personal business being in it. Not only are you supposed to be representing the things of God, you supposed to set an example of God. Remember would Jesus have said. There are those that are called to marriage. And there's those that are not. And then there are those that make themselves eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom. It's not a personal desire of yours to marry, it is not a sin to not get married. But as long as I'm not fornicating outside of marriage, then I'm fine. And plus God had already said that if I don't want to, I don't have to. It's my choice the same as a choice of everybody else. From what I've been through my entire life so far, I was not told by anybody or should I say regarding that that I was called to marriage. I have more than enough people to try to basically force that on me because that's what they think that I should do. But there are plenty of other people who I can see definitely desires that, but they don't feel the same way of telling them that. And from what I am seeing in this world alone be if a man is supposed to be a God or not, no way. I say for myself definitely I cannot handle marriage and I cannot handle the responsibilities of it. I don't want enough trauma and dealing with people and Men especially be online or offline have done enough to me as it is. God knows why and I'm leaving it at that. All I know is I am well aware that God is really not happy with those who did what they did.
I find it really sad that a lot of people do not put the same amount of respect for God when it comes to this. People are too busy asking God to supposedly hook them up with somebody and that is not what that's for. People really need to put their focus on God. The two concerned with worldly things and then not concerned about spiritual things. Many people are asking for spouses and they haven't think about what will make them grow first in their singleness before they are ready to be looking for a permanent partner. And from what I am seeing with a lot of men is claiming to be interested, their focus is not on the Lord. Their focus is simply trying to get somebody sexually. My priority is God. My priority is getting my salvation in order. My priority is not a man.
My priority is glorifying the lord. Then to save as many souls as I can in Jesus's name , then to exploit demons with the lords help. I'm not at all attracted to the things of this world either. The world is nothing but a dung heap.
@DjaayYou have to remember something. You have to consider your salvation first. It is not you to save many Souls. It is through Jesus who can. You have to have the power to do so, because if you do not have the power and authority to do so, then you're just playing with spiritual things you should not be playing with. There is a reason why some people are given certain abilities and certain gifts and there are others who do not have it. It does not mean you don't pursue it, but it is all about your intent. These are very serious times and time is running out. Jesus is definitely coming soon and he's coming much sooner than people actually think. If one is not prepared to do what they got to do and being that glorified bodies, that is it. That's why I tell people if you are not called for marriage and it's not really that important focus on the Lord before it is too late.
We have to be extremely careful of these things because people desire these things so much that that's why Satan finds a way to control people as well as utilize people to make you fall into sin if not be distracted. We cannot afford to be distracted. If that person is not elevating your life spiritually and help keep you focus on the things of God, that person is a distraction.
Seek God in all things first for you must be a vessel willing to serve the Lord. Stay diligent and be steadfast in him. Whether one receives a spouse in this life or not what matters is that you are with the Lord most high God.
I do know the GOD of the Bible. I will assure you of that.
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Yeah I would take that virgin girl over any of these hoes any day
@TruthBringer I am a woman and I do think a woman should be less sexually experienced than a man. I hate all this feminist ( pro-hoe) bullshit. I do not say every non virgin is a hoe. I am not a virgin myself, but a guy is the one who should take the lead. For exemple when I had sex for the very first time it was with a man older than me, with so much more experience. If he was a virgin too... well, blind leading the blind. I am a woman who embraces old fashioned values. A woman should be kind, sensitive... a man should be masculine and protective.
Very well said! by the way, of course a woman who happens not to be a virgin is not by definition a hoe. What her lifestyle is and how many casual sexual partners she had is what defines her to be a hoe (at least in the eyes of the general). But yeah I agree, men should take the lead. There is a huge difference in dynamics between a sexually experienced man getting with a virgin in comparison with a sexually experience woman getting with a virginal man. The latter is more often than not disasterous. And this is something that so many people here don't like to admit
@TruthBringer thank you! Bringing the truth as always ;-)
Correct - it isn't so much a number question as it is the 'can you remain loyal and will you ENJOY it' question.I've had my share of mistakes, based on crap parental/social circle advice - but I can tell you promiscuity is a complete waste of time.Nothing like waking up next to someone who you know is... not so much unconditoonally, on the sense you could abuse it, but naturally/organically/biologically yours, in the sense you like to hug them, hear them breathe and feel at rest/calm and joyful that wsy/about it.
If someone passes the 5 mark, think about it, both options are bad: If the individual fucked 5+ people on hook ups, it means that he/she doesn't take sex seriously;and if its from 5+ different relationships, i mean, are you trying to be the next mistake?
@AFellowWeeb i dont even want someone whos been with five if im being honest. I just said a handful to sum it up
@DizzyDesii same here
@AFellowWeeb hopefully no more than 3
Funny. I agree. Been with... 40+. 3 relationships. Well, some month or two long ones. Only one was a one night stand (and it was the least satisfying experience)Woukd have, now 25 years since the first one - then, and now - swapped it all for one loving, skin and soul touching/close, relationship.Could have even divorced with grownup kids now, like Bill and Melinda Gates!
when did I say men are allowed to sleep with who ever they want?but we all know women are bigger whores then men so you women will always be the target and if men must restrain themselves SO DO WOMENand also men don't get to let out their true emotions while you women dohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wV6axt4TCI
Oh shut the fuck up. This question wasn't exactly worded for both genders was it? No it was deliberately only about women.Men on average sleep with more people than women do so don't come at me with the women are bigger whores bullshit. I'm all for men showing their true emotions but this has absolutely nothing to do with that 😂
so you are ok with men just going around and raping girls?
No of course not this isn't about that? What the fuck
@ blue Anon virgin.You seriously being practicing hard to be such a cockwomble
YOUR WORDS NOT MINE(I'm all for men showing their true emotions)if men let out their true emotions you will be just like that female duckif men run on how they feel this is what will happen YOU READY FOR THAT
You really have such little faith in your own gender? You're admitting to being a rapist then?
NOOOOO !!!I don't have faith in either of the GENDERS MEN OR WOMENbased off what I have seen in life most of you are SHIT !!!and yes you make a world with just feelings and I promise most of these men will rape and no I have not raped CAUSE I DON'T RUN ON FEELINGS
Your math is off how can men sleep with more partners “on average” when there’s roughly the same amount of people on this earth unless a lot of men are having more gay encounters than women that’s impossible also if you’re going to cite a study those are not reliable women tend to divide by 3 as men tend to multiply it by 3 (sexual encounters) as for sexual history mattering it does matter for the man and the woman but it literally shouldn’t bother you if you don’t want to date a gentleman that has values then don’t it’s as simple as that 🤷🏽♂️ Just like if that same gentleman with values has no intention of dating you he too should not care what you do with your life or body since it shouldn’t effect him
😐 I can't handle the stupidity in that comment 😂😂 wow you really thought you did something there...
I think the most pressing question here is what on earth is a cockwomble.
@Levin www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=CockwombleA UK Forces term that entered mainstream use
@Levin Don't mind the neutred male feminist who is simping into the graces of women calling others "cockwombles" simply for voicing their preferences and opinions.
@Smashingdoozy Both gender's sexual history matters. The shoe comparison is nothing more than an analogy and you know it. No point in going too deep into matters simply because a thread has been opened which makes you feel spoken to. In the end, yes sexual history matters and studies have pointed to that.
I was simply expressing my opinion because in reality it's men who care more about this than women. Some stupid ego thing.
You're correct about men caring more than women about this matter. Did you ever ask yourself why? Or do you just brush it aside as "stupid ego" without actually wanting to understand the male perspective? If you're genuinely interested in knowing, I would be happy to explain the biological reason behind this and what studies say about the consequences of having a multiple sexual partners. But then again, if you truly were interested, you would have done your own research.
I've already read your studies 🙂
Great! My Take only describes the effects, not the biological explanation behind it. Although they aren't very far off from each other. In the end, a guy's sexual history matters aswel. The question is whether it matters just as much or not. Looking from a biological point of view, women are more affected by sleeping around than men.
Sure but having multiple sex partners ≠ sleeping around. The issue really lies in the relationship aspect, there tends to be more mentally damaging issues when it comes to sex in terms of one time things/one night stands. Women are especially affected because of our need of an emotional connection. But then again the root issue of sleeping around/ engaging in one night stands isn't as simple as people being "whores" right? It all in the end comes down to how a person was raised. A person with childhood trauma is more likely to experiment sexually, with drugs, with alcohol, more likely to have a tendency to take risks.
Often people who do have multiple partners happen to have slept around. Don't forget we live in the sexual free west. Does that mean people with multiple partners must have slept around? Of course not. Like you said, you can still stack on bodies through relationships. And even then, it’s still stacking up bodies. Despite having had a good connection with those previous partners. Whether viewing a person as a “whore” for sleeping around is a personal matter and varies from person to person. Even though this is caused by childhood trauma is reason enough for many people to next that person as they carry too much ‘baggage’. So yes, those who sleep around often do have underlying issues which causes them to act impulsively and engage into promiscuity. Still more than enough reason for many ‘clean’ people to next them. And I honestly think it’s justified.
@loves2learn. Spoken like a girl with a lot of drunken hookups.
@loves2learn Yeah and that connection and chemistry is often non-existent with people who have a high body count. No wonder those with higher numbers of sexual partners contribute to the statistics of most highest divorce rates and overall lesser happiness. The reason why people said "yes" is because th answer is YES. And studies point out to that.
People evidently think we are merchandise lmfao religious conservative brainwashing at its finest!! 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Ohhh @KrakenAttackin and @TruthBringer. I should have expected you two to come out of the woodwork. Do you two process what you read or are you just utter morons. I HAVE ONLY HAD SEX WITH ONE MAN. Yet I’m still outraged by the judgement of others. GTFO my thread.
Lovely how you immediately resorted to ad hominems while also neglecting the fact I didn't even attack you personally. Goes to show the insecurity and lack of intellectual capacity to come with a productive counter argument, to begin with. My comment wasn't about you personally, but do stick to your feelz, sweetheart.
Ugh. I’m over it.
EIGHT blue haters are you kidding me? Ughhhhhhhh
@loves2learn just ignore those 1" inch baby dick incel virgin beta losers lmfao
To a degree... everyone needs to be safe and not just some promiscuous addict
@shalt we weren’t even talking about addiction. Simply talking about number of sex partners, which, in fact, does not define a person.
Also how does that whole analogy work anyway? Like if you had one partner but had sex 1000000000 times vs you had multiple partners and only had sex 5 times? Lmfao
@vald9inches good point. I prolly have had awd 10000000 times lmfao
Wow!! They said someone with a high body count can't have a connection. I guess the preachers who use to be pimps, don't count. Or the priest who did before they took the vow. Gotta love double standards. Lol
@Mehzmeh it’s worse than that. They think men can have high body counts but not women.
And that is very sad!!
@Mehzmeh but the studies and the research and the evidence! Lmao
Totally, like what if he's once tried being bi or had a bi-curious moment with another man, you know? Thoughts?
Worse still if he lies that he has.
Overall we should all just wait till marriage. It's the best way to avoid all these complications to be honest
And avoid child bearing and or diseases or both. So true.
@paolaa988. What exactly is "your worth"?
I believe having worth is being the best person you can be, having that self love, having a kind heart, doing good deeds for people, staying true to yourself and recognizing your character all is part of your worth as an individual. Self confidence, awareness.
Studies have shown that it does matter. The reason why you "don't see" the important reason is because you clearly haven't done your research on this topic. The consequences go beyond just STD's.
@TruthBringer You are wasting your breath. It is not rational for these women to refute that a high cock-count lowers their value, but here they are.
@KrakenAttackin Yeah you're right. Too bad many of them will find out the hard way and by the time it happens, it will be too late...
@TruthBringer You can stick that study in your dirty ass after you remove TruthBringer from it! At 37 had more dick in me than you two morons could count yet very happily married now for 7 years and 3 kids. Mark doesn't know, never asked about my past sex before him and I've never asked him about his carousing around before I came into his life.
Hahahah and you think I would take word of someone who had gangbangs. Of course you don't like the studies because they debunk every snowflake mindset you have. Men who end up with promiscuous women are usually low value men who take what they can get (low hanging fruit). I've never witnessed a self-respecting man wife up a woman who had been dicked down by half the town, let alone have gangbangs
No self respecting woman would want a non virgin man. Non virgin men are trash. So trash men belong to streets aka to trash
I agree... as for the woman also.
What... lol who hurt you
No i am just reacting on hypocritical male hoes. Lol are you triggered or why do make such pointless reply?
Wanting a virgin guy make me hurt? How? Lol just because i am not into damaged goods aka non virgin aka male hoes? Tf.
There are virgin guys.. lol , but you wouldn't want them.. as you sould want an experienced guy
No lol. Wtf i only prefere virgin guys but their personality should be "virgin" too lol. Some virgin guys would date anyone to have sex which is toxic since he use the person for sex. Statistically speaking virgin men aka men with no/fewer bodycount least likely will cheat on you. Experienced men should date experienced women
You are still a virgin? We can pm if you wanns?
We can maintain our figure
Yeah I didn't get your point
Interesting downvotes but no comments...
Actually, studies have shown that those with lesser partners are less likely to have lower overall happiness and lead more meaningful relationships. With that in mind, I would conclude that yes, having a lower body count DOES make you a better partner. This is generally speaking of course. Every individual should be assessed accordingly.
@TruthBringer yeah because these kind of people would only focus their mental energy and sexual energy on that one person...
You can't miss something that you never had
Isn't that a bit hypocritical though?
I'm a virgin... I don't have one
Can't really care about a sexual history that doesn't exist
It's only an analogy and it does matter not just for STI's but also many other factors (as studies have shown)
If you think that's a valid analogy then you believe that a woman is equal in value to a shoe. Otherwise it's not a valid analogy. What studies?
It is a valid analogy because it brings forth the fundamental idea to how th eworld looks at promiscuity. So yes, it is valid. And here I will provide the sources: Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters ↗
It doesn't matter how the world looks at anything. It matters how the person looks at it. How do you know the studies are valid? Are there sources at the bottom of the studies too, it just said that studies had shown and I want proof and also the first link wouldn't open.
Bet you haven't even looked at them. How do I know they are valid? Because they have sourced the data
I did look but didn't see sources or any content to the first link.
I've sent you a link to a Take of mine and it explains everything. It also includes the research I speak of. Well 1 of the many researches at least.
Also, it doesn't matter if people are lying about how many people have slept with or anything because society is telling him that they need to lie society is the problem not the people. On either count, men lying to raise it and women lying to lower it is just because of society so what we need to find out is why society is thinking that way and that is what really matters. Also your arguments about addicts going back to addiction is because addiction is a lifelong problem and your body's always wanting it even after you're not abusing the substance because you were addicted to it and your body still wants it.
Same goes with promiscuity. Someone who has been living a promiscuous lifestyle would fall right back in. at least the odds of that happening are significantly higher than someone who hasn't been living that lifestyle. And that's where the addiction example comes into play
Oh and yes it matters very much whether someone lies about their sexual past. Especially for men that's something that is important. Men of value and self-respect don't want to wife up a woman who has slept with half the town and is lying about it
So a car with 150,000 miles is "experienced"?
You aren't even willing to consider other people and their opinions. That makes you a bigot.
@BruceJender who says this is an opinion lol
Why? Because she won't cowtow to the male dominate opinion? In this society, men can sleep around with a bunch of females. And still be considered a decent person. But if a female does it. Then she is a used shoe. And that's because society has been brain washed by, religious inslavers. Aka, all religions. To say a woman who sleeps around is a whore. Or not fit to be a partner. But most "religious leaders". Were bigger whores in there younger day's. Hell, most of them still are. But you want to call her a bigot for her opinions. And yet, you saying that makes you a bigot.
@Mehzmeh so they were brained washed by religion?HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH you are an atheist aren't you? you are the definition of religious stop talking you have no idea what you are saying
Awwww. Somebody feelings got hurt when I, talked about religion. And I, know more about this than you think. Apparently, you created this so so can troll people. LolHow am I, the definition of "religious"? And no I am not atheist. I am a human being. Aka, I am spiritual, or religious. I don't believe in anything. Because I, don't trust anything. Good luck trolling people. Smh. I can't believe I, fell for it. Lol. I am not going to reply anymore. I am not going let people like you get me in a battle of wits. Or knowledge. Have a good day.
@Mehzmeh since you are so smartyou know about the giant snake circling the earth where atheist go when they diehave you seen it?
First of all, thank you @Mehzmeh for coming to my defense. Also, his claims about religion have some truth to them.Major religions around the world do have clauses about a woman's sexual purity. That gets translated into a woman's "body count" being reflected into "her worth."
Wow!! Talk about fairy tales. I guess you believe in a guy who can travel the earth and give all good kids toy's. Lol. You probably believe the earth is flat as well. Or, that we are on the heads of giant elephants holding up the planet. Lol
And @samtheDandDgirl. You are so welcome.
Only a narrsistic sexist white bitch talks like this
Whore* not white... tf
And only a piece of shit calls a female a whore or a bitch. What kind of man are you? I bet if someone called your sister, mother, or daughter that. You would be ready to kill. But I, guess it's okay since it's on the internet. And you can cyber bully her. That is not okay.
SamtheDnDgirl... I'm sorry , my grandson wrote this when I was busy... just disregard.
If that is the case. My apologies for coming at you like that @Djaay
@Djaay Well in that case. Thank you.
Yes... he's only 11. His dad went slap him one for that tho. @Mehzmeh... no worries
@Djaay Now, I curious what his dad said to the boy.
Well we're Samoan so our way of disapline is of our own culture. The father said.. Sup boi u wrote dis... yea dad.. come hea (slapped him one ) fuk wrong wit u.. next time u talk , don't just talk... think and feel (from da heart) before u talk. Then my son told him to get dressed and to go work wit me today... dad no pay him either. So that's kinda the lesson there
@Mehzmeh this is why atheist are stupid HE DOES NOT EVEN KNOW THERE IS A GIANT SNAKE CIRCLING THE EARTH he has no idea that when he dies he will be put inside the snake to be torturedATHEIST AND THEIR IMAGINARY BELIEFSidiots need to be killed ohh and here is the snake circling the earth dumb ass lolhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NT1_MEb0Rjg&t=9s
Smh. When I die I die. That's it. Wow!! You believe what ever you want to. I appreciate that you called me a dumb ass. That was the best insult ever.
@Mehzmeh shut up you atheist piece of garbage your life has no valuekill yourself and get off my GODS earthGlory to the king above the dome
Bahahahahaha. And I, guess your life is better. Nice!! And this is why people don't like people who think they are more holly than anyone else. So, keep believing your fairy tales. And I, will live my life to the fullest. I bring substance to the world because I am not under a spell. Have a nice life.