Would you rather date someone not into oral or not into penetration?

Would you rather date someone not into oral or not into penetration?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd go with the girl who isn't into oral. All bad habits can be broken. The trick is to figure out why they started. Maybe it's as simple as making my penis taste like peppermint or something.

    It is a good form of foreplay, and I'm assuming in this case you mean both giving and receiving. I can deal with that if we're still having sex. No penetration would include oral as well, I can't deal with only hand jobs and try to un fuck that ball of yarn, I'd get too frustrated and move on.

    If someone wants me, they want me, if they don't want me, why bother?

  • I could give up the oral... most are bad at it anyway Ha

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well penetration is a must anyway
    And for the oral i can be ok if he is not into giving oral but he must be into receiving oral coz i just love giving blowjobs

  • Someone not into penetration

    you and I actually had this convo a few nights ago

    • Yess

    • @gwenhwyfar trying to put everything up and can't find anything big enough

    • I get it 😊

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  • I could live without oral, but no penetration would be a dealbreaker for me.

  • If I could only have one, I would give up penetration. I enjoy giving oral too much.

  • not into penetration... i really would rather give blowjobs whenever he wanted one... i find it better to suck a penis

  • I would rather date someone not into oral. Excluding penetration from a sexual relationship would get boring after a while. The opposite is not true. We (guys) could have sex with penetration for years and never miss oral. Oral is fun, ( I love to give ), but at the end of the day, our bodies want penetration. Of course, we (guys) are willing to settle for either situation short-term. We're just happy to be intimate with you, but long term we're not going to stick around for nothing more than Oral.

  • Given the choice between the two, I'd much, much rather date someone who loves fucking.

  • She has to like both and if not I will find someone that does. To me I feel like if both aren't liked by each other then you loose immersive feelings during sex

  • Not in to penetration

    not being able to give oral to a girl would be a nightmare.

  • Not into oral... I need penetration

  • Just no penetration right there are still lots of ways because sometimes doing it without penetration is very very hot sexy feet

    • Hot and sexy to not feet lol

  • Penetration I absolutely need!

  • Before I would have said oral is optional but the girl I'm seeing now doesn't like doing it and I find myself wanting it more often than not so I think both, you gotta have both

  • I can't deal with either one tbh. That would be very difficult, but I guess oral. Damn

    • Dude what? 😂

    • @7771999 nothing lol

    • Hmmm. Well, I hope you aren't bothered by it ✌🏻

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  • What?

  • No sex is an instant dealbreaker.
    If I date somebody I have one main objective in mind.
    If I'm dating someone to try and make a long term relationship, the idea of a life of chastity would be a major negative towards my last decision.

  • Its something where I would not start there but talk about it when I found someone that I loved that I would start to be intimate with. If I truly loved them we could work around the other stuff

  • not into oral

  • i love wanking so im fine with it

  • I'd wait to marriage, but once married, penetration and oral are expected. There would be an understanding before marriage, regarding this compatibility being necessary.

  • Vaginal sex is the best thing in this world- there is no way I'd forego it if I'm in a relationship.

    • It's the bees knees

  • Not into oral

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