It’s normal. A lot of women can only get off from oral or clot stimulation. How about trying longer foreplay next time so she orgasms before penetration next time. And her not orgasming doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy it, but she would enjoy it more if she came. Also you have nothing to be insecure about. You caring about her pleasure is a good sign already.
It’s normal. Or at least not unheard of. And that’s really sweet of you to care so much about her pleasure.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That's on her after two years. Would you put up with not getting off from sex for that long? Hell no, you'd ask for what you need to get there.
Is there an ex-boyfriend she's still close to?
It's very hard to reach an orgasm from penetration alone. I have to have clitoral stimulation to orgasm on the regular. My boyfriend can sometimes make me orgasm from penetration alone, but it's few & far in between & a result of deep penetration & marathon sex.
Some women never or rarely have an orgasm with just sex alone, but they do have orgasms in other ways, like fingering or oral sex.
Studies show that the majority of women do not orgasm from penis in vagina alone. Most need additional stimulation, particularly to their clit, but in other ways too. And some women will orgasm with a penis sometimes, but not most of the time.
I've found that the women whose clit hood ends tight at the vaginal opening never have a problem experiencing an orgasm during vaginal sex, but some women have clit hoods that end anywhere from.5" to 1" above the vaginal opening and they generally have difficulty having orgasm during vaginal sex. You might want to get real good at oral and give her three or four orgasms with your tongue before you slide into her.
Ask her what you can do to get the job done. Like everything else in life, it always does not come easy.
It's all about the clitoris man. Are you paying attention?
And does she even know how to get herself off? If so, have her show you. If she's not getting what she needs then she needs to show and tell. This is what mature adults do, and you discuss it outside the bedroom, not while you're trying to do each other.
Do you know the 'come-hither' move? You stroke their G-spot while licking sucking their clit - nearly instant orgasm. And then they're soaking wet and love to be pumped - HARD and you'll get their nearly instantly as well. Try it sometime.
You should work on getting her to orgasm. I would be very disapointed if my husband never made me climax. Although I wouldn't wait two years to tell him how to fix it.
Not normal
Well, I bet it took a lot for her to say that, so do your best to change things up. And ask her how she gets off when she masturbates. In fact, watch her when she does it or masturbate together.
Some women are non-orgasmic.. Some are just really hard to get off. Ask her if she ever masturbates, and if so, how often. If she does, then there is hope. You just gotta find out what her combination is (it’s like a bank vault lock, haha!) If she doesn’t, then it’s on her and not you and there is nothing you can do about it.
Try using your tongue
my guess is, you lost your virginity in high school
I didn’t have an orgasm until I was 23. Your girl needs to be more comfortable and open and tell you what she needs you to do but she might not know her self. Start by stimulating her nippes when she’s riding you. Don’t just suck. bite, flick them with your tongue, really go ham on them. OH and don’t give her the dick right away. Rub her pussy suck her titties, rub your hard dick against her and tell her to beg. She will cum.
Yeah, something wrong here.
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