He masturbates before sex and a couple hours after sex? Is that a bad sign?

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My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life. We are in our early 20s and We are always doing hot things together and he says that he is satisfied. But he masturbates a lot.. like before sex and a couple hours after sex. He says that he cums with me and I see it dripping out of me, but sometimes the load is small and watery and I'm worried that means he's not cumming very good with me? And he says that sometimes he cums a couple hours after sex as well, after I've left for the night. Is that a sign that I'm not satisfying him? I tell him that I'll fuck him again, and sometimes we have a second round, and sometimes he says that he won't cum again for awhile. I have a few questions please, I feel really bad. Why can he cum during the second round sometimes but sometimes he can't? And if his cum is watery and in small amounts, does that mean his orgasms with me aren't greatness? And does he masturbate so much because he's not satisfied by actual sex with me? He says he loves sex with me, but I'm not sure anymore..

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Anonymous
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He could be concerned that he won't last and masturbating before allows him to stay hard longer and satisfy you.
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- Asker
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  What does it mean if he masturnates an hour or two after sex tho? He says I'm good in bed but I just can't believe him after walking in on him masturbating after sex with me..
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  That is puzzling. Have you tried going another round with him to see if he stills masturbates within a few hours?
- Asker
  +1 y
  No I haven't. We usually just cuddle and do other things like watch TV after sex. He doesn't mention another round. But he knows i would do it again if he wanted.. could something be wrong with my vagina? Like too loose or doesn't feel good enough to completely satisfy him? Because we're a pretty kinky couple and have explored in all of the kinks we've wanted to try, even some of the weirder ones. He swears that he loves sex with me but masturbating after good sex kind of makes me question if he actually means it.
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- Opinion Owner
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  I'm sure there's nothing wrong with your vagina. I suggest asking him for another round to see how he reacts. Also, be sure he ejaculates in both rounds. Then see if he masturbates soon afterwards.
- Asker
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  Does it sound like he's not cumming during the first round?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  That could be happening. Try having him ejaculate so you know for certain he did, like on your boobs, tummy, or in your mouth.
- Asker
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  I always see it come back out of me and onto the bed though. Maybe it's not tho. I don't know. It's a clearish-white liquid and smells like cum. Maybe it's mine. I don't know.
- Asker
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  Could it mean that my vagina is bad? I thought he was cumming everytime but if he's masturbating like this all the time, including after sex, I really feel like it's my fault or that maybe he doesn't get turned on by me anymore..
- Opinion Owner
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  It wouldn't hurt to experiment and have him cum outside of your V so you know for certain he's ejaculating. Tell him you want him to cum all over your chest or whatever works for you.
- Asker
  +1 y
  If my man is addicted to porn while he's with me tho, that would probably mean I'm not doing a good job at satisfying him sexually. I know a lot of guys that say that when they're in a relationship with a lot of hot sex, they don't need to masturbate
- Asker
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  He has came on my chest and on my face and inside my mouth before. I've seen him do it. Usually he chooses to cum in my pussy tho.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Can you get him to go two rounds and cum outside you both times, then see if he masturbates later?

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bunnyjain10 Xper 3
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Well i guess to last longer he might be doing it before sex
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- Asker
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  When we do a second round, sometimes he can cum and sometimes he can't. If he can cum during the second round, does that mean the first round didn't satisfy him? And if he mastrbates a couple hours after sex, does that mean the sex with me isn't that great for him?
- bunnyjain10
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  Well ig he is more into jerking off tbh I wish i would too jerk off its been months i haven’t
- Asker
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  Why would he be more into masturbating than sex with me tho? He says he loves sex with me and says that I'm tight and I do whatever he wants me to do in bed. How can I suck at sex so bad that a guy would rather masturbate? :(
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- bunnyjain10
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  Hey its not u dear might be he is into masturbating more
- bunnyjain10
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  Do u have snapchat
- Asker
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  No I don't, I'm sorry. I just don't understand how it isn't me if he likes masturbating more than sex with me tho..
- bunnyjain10
  +1 y
  Well just ask him
- Asker
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  He won't talk to me about it. He just says that he likes sex with me and then shuts me down.
- bunnyjain10
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  Trust me something is wrong... What turns u on by the way
- Asker
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  What could be wrong? Like, maybe he doesn't actually like the sex?
- bunnyjain10
  +1 y
  Ig he is not saying because u would be upset
- bunnyjain10
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  Tell me one thing does it matter if he masturabte and have sex both i mean whats wrong in that just asking u
- Asker
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  I do everything he wants me to in bed though. Everyone I have been with says that I'm great at giving head and that I'm tight. And I do a lot of positions with him. I just wonder what I could be doing wrong.
- bunnyjain10
  +1 y
  Just calm down wanna be my friend on snap? Wannq tqlk and share

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Iron_Man Master
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Yes it is he’s a maniac
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Am I not satisfying him?
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  I think it’s beyond that
- Asker
  +1 y
  What do you mean?
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- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  He’s in bondage and obsessed
- Asker
  +1 y
  Could it be me? Maybe I just don't get him off very well?
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  No you’re a female you know what to do
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sometimes we do a second round. And sometimes during the second round, he cums and sometimes he can't. If he is able to cum during the second round, does that mean the first round didn't satisfy him?
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  The guys probably got porn issues he is addicted to pornography. They have counseling for that
- Asker
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  If my man got addicted to porn while he was with me tho, that would probably mean I'm not doing a good job at satisfying him sexually. I know a lot of guys that say that when they're in a relationship with a lot of hot sex, they don't need to masturbate
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  Right
- Asker
  +1 y
  So I'm not doing very good at sex?
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  I’m not sure how does he feel
- Asker
  +1 y
  He says he loves sex with me and that I do a great job, but he masturbates all the time, even after sex sometimes. I feel like he's lying..
- Asker
  +1 y
  I do everything he asks in bed. We have sex everyday and we are pretty open minded in bed. We are a pretty kinky couple. We've explored all of the kinks we've had with each other, including some weird ones. So I'm definitely not boring in bed. The only other thing I can think of that would make him unsatisfied is my vagina..
- Iron_Man
  +1 y
  This is too much to talk like this in here
- Asker
  +1 y
  Ok. Sorry. :(
- Iron_Man
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  Who are you?
Willoughby23 Xper 7
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I've never cum from having sex
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