Would you/do you have friends who are not straight?

I would never dare make friends who aren’t straight due to a bad experience at work there was a lesbian who touch me inappropriately. I’m not discriminating them or anything I’m just afraid they might catch feelings for me or something so it’s best for me to stay safe and no one will get hurt. I’m mostly straight by the way tho but I preferred to be with friends who are 100% straight. No it doesn’t mean I have a crush on the same gender I never ever have any attraction at all. But I’m a little gay for female fictional characters
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  • I mean I guess I would prefer straight friends for the same reason I prefer Mexican friends we’d have more in common I wouldn’t discriminate against gays or non Mexicans but at the same time it doesn’t capture my fancy to meet people outside my circle —->usually<—- those are all generalizations but I’ve had a gay friend before and I’ve had non Mexican friends too
    ps I’m assuming since I haven’t read the comments yet you’re gonna be called a homophobic person that’s rubbish of a woman said she only wants friends that are girls is highly doubt shed be ridiculed as long as you’re not being mean and hurtful who you prefer to hang around shouldn’t be anyone else’s business

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  • Yes a lot lol.

    my sister is Bi.
    of a group of us that hang out socially, it’s about 5 girls and 2 guys and me.
    of the girls 1 is a lesbian, 2 are bi, 1 trans, 1 straight, and 1 guy is gay (although we think he bi).

    I really don’t mind anyone’s sexuality or ethnicity etc.

    it’s people that count, as long as no extreme views then it’s all good.

    we do tend to self regulate and look after each other a lot,

Most Helpful Girl

  • I already have friends who aren't straight. There's no problem with that.

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  • Thanks for your honesty. We need more people who are willing to have an honest conversation about sexuality & gender. As a guy I do have non-straight friends, but exactly as you described it can cause problems. I would suggest you not avoid being friends with gay people. Just be honest about being strait with no interest in girls. They should respect that. It is smart for you to avoid uncomfortable situation with certain people, but you don't need to avoid them.

  • I have a few gay and lesbian acquaintances. A couple of them are truly admirable human beings. I even know a couple of true transgender people (not fakers, posers or wannabes). They great people.
    So yeah, it doesn't bother me, as long as they don't act weird.

  • I do. And I make a point every time they start talking about sex stuff to stop.
    They'd tease me with it, but being friends, they cut it short after a good laugh.

  • Beware of straight males, statistically speaking, they do this the most.

  • doesn't bother me as i dont believe its relevant in a friendship

  • I'm straight, but do have a friend who is a lesbian.

  • Yes I have one friend is is playing both sides. I find it very interesting.

    • Like at the same time? That must suck to be his/her significant other you literally couldn’t trust them with anyone, like the one guy says hide your kids hide your wife and hide your dog 😂😂😂

  • I actually don't think any of my friends are straight. Maybe one of them at the most.

  • I did have a friend who was gay. He was the brother of a girlfriend but we became really good friends. He spent a week with me one summer. Later he told me that he was gay. This was over 30 years ago so times were different. We still hung out but he sort of got in with a different bunch of people and we drifted apart. I read in the newspaper that he died a few years ago.

    • Whoa that’s heavy was it a tragic death like untimely I mean or just health issues?

    • @Jesus_is_the_guey cancer at 42

    • Man that’s tough sorry

  • Yeps got straight friends, bi friends, lesbians

  • I don't care if my friends are gay, whether they catch feelings for me or not. As long as they respect me, that's what matters. I have female friends that are gay, but not male.

  • Have had many over the years - you're confused about how THEIR preferences affect you. Just treat them as normal people. Straight people really don't care how anyone gay or straight likes their sex. It's private. Just let it be.

    But I get it, I was abducted by two gay guys when I was 15. I jumped off a boat and swam to shore. They nearly lost a kid by drowning. Boy, that sure would'a fucked them up, huh? LOL

  • most of the girls i hand with are bi so yes

  • People's sexual orientation has no effect on whether or not I'd be friends with them.

  • What do you mean you’re mostly straight?

  • No. They don't share my beliefs and in point of fact they make me uncomfortable. I steer clear of them.

  • I have and do

  • I'm bi so.. lol.

  • I have both gay, lesbian, and M2F friends,,,

  • As long as they don’t push their sexual orientation on me. It doesn’t matter a whole lot to me.

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