The first time I got laid, it was just wonderful to see and touch a nude female body for the first time, and experience what it felt like to be inside a warm, juicy pussy. But I was so horny that I didn't last long. I did much better in followup sessions.
As time went on and I had other relationships, I learned more and more. Eventually, I had girlfriends who taught me what ecstatic, transcendent sex could be like. No experience in life is more enjoyable.
Sex is like any other skill - riding a bike, skateboarding, swimming, playing a sport. Practice makes perfect, but you have to start somethere. Except sex isn't so much about getting good at it, because anyone can be good at it once they learn the basics. Sex is more about opening up to the incredible physical sensations that your body is capable of experiencing. Of course, that also means learning how to give your partner similar pleasure. Sex is about two people. It's much, much more enjoyable when your partner enjoys it as much as you do.
So, for both men and women, it's not a matter of "getting it over with". It's about discovering the potential bliss. It's sad when someone never experiences that at all. And those who let time pass them by before they do, will regret having waited.
People do have sex because "everyone else is doing it" and there is nothing wrong with that but having it with someone you love is way better that just doing it with a random person.
Why can't you develop a relationship with somebody and see what develops. ?
Because I don't know anyone who wants to have a relationship with? Also, my friends don't help me and I have to do everything myself.
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I hate to say this but you have sort of a bad attitude about this. It is not up to your friends to help you find somebody. You need to figure this one out for yourself. It is a lot of work and it is a crap shoot most of the time. You have to get yourself out there and try to meet new people. Become approachable. Develop talents that you are interested in. It will make you more confident and a more interesting person. I am married but before that I did a lot of different things to meet people. A few months ago I was in line at the grocery store and I was wearing the jersey of a local sports team and this woman was wearing a similar jersey. The next thing I know we are out in the parking lot talking about hockey. She seemed very nice and I bet if I asked her out she would have said yes but like I said, I am married. The bottom line is that you have to put the work in.
I def wouldn’t call it an “accomplishment” it is sort of a rite of passage and something most, but not all, people have done by your age.
It’s one of those things you think a lot about if you aren’t getting it. But not as much if you are. It’s a basic human need to connect with other humans.
Yeah, I think I'm just lonely and want someone to talk to me and need that human connection. Just feel so behind and dumb that I can't connect with anyone. @loves2learn
I’m sure you are lonely. And not dumb.
Yeah, I don't know why bit today I'm feeling emotional and feel like crying 😢 @loves2learn
Most male virgins do. Some female virgins do too. But bear in mind there’s a lot of gray area (oral, playing with each other) between nothing and actual sex.
Yeah, you're right just that I haven't experienced even the most of basics of thing's. Like kissing, holding hands, and dating.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some did indeed feel inferior because they were virgin. Here's hoping they grew up a little since then, because it's gonna be hard being that silly.
Some people are virgins because they are repressed, just like some people have sex, who are nymphomaniacs. But most people who are virgins, simply prefer to wait for the right person, You aren't really missing much, compared to those who are in one relationship after another. That takes a toll on a person.
Funny enough I didn't feel like that before I lost mine at 22 I just enjoyed the things I was already doing
I do have fun and enjoy my own hobbies. Just feel emotional right now I guess?
Thats fair enough just never really cared for it before I guess
It’s normal for a person to want to have sex, period.
Yeah jist feel so behind because I can't even get a date or get a girl to like me.
Your focus should be in getting a girlfriend, not agonizing
Nope I enjoy being a virgin!
I never done anything sexual not even kissed a guy
Can't speak for everyone, I was a 35 yr old virgin, but I was pretty open minded had done a lot with myself with toys etc. Have had a very active sex life with OH, though we've had 2 pregnancies know 2 years and that's impacted sex life. I'd be pretty open to trying almost anything if OH would be up for it (though I know there're certain things she won't do)
Definitely, in today's society, sex is a wide topic from around 6th grade up. People make fun of you if you're a virgin even if they are themselves. As everyone grows older, some people will be having sex weekly. The mixture of bullying and societal norm will cause people to want to do the dirty sooner.
Yeah, that is true :^/
I'd say you're about a decade behind the times. Maybe you can beg.
i'm on a long dryspell, it makes me feel like i'm a virgin all over again
I never was a fan of the human mating system
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