Men do you really NEED sex?

Most men say they really NEED it and it’s something women don’t get, but is that REALLY so?
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  • As in "is it required for our survival"? Obviously not; look at monks. As in "do the demands of testosterone get pushed with an intensity you have to experience to understand"? Yes. But... As in "do the neurochemical bonds it forms strengthen the connection to a degree that it can functionally be said to be required for a lasting relationship"? This is the kicker. That degree of connection women "need" to have before having sex? We don't get that without having sex.

    • I’m sharing to get it now

    • Well said 👏.

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  • We need sex to feel intimacy and emotions, much like you need intimacy and emotions to enjoy sex.


    Understand?

    • I really pondered on that being so. So sex for men is the same as “cuddling” feels for women?

    • You got it. That’s how we really know she loves us and when we feel connected to her. Now you may understand when someone refuses sex in a relationship how it hurts us

    • Thanks for MHO

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  • Actually yes, men do tend to need sex in a way that most women don't understand. The important word there is "most." Guys and girls are naturally wired differently, and then everyone has there own life experiences and hormone balances. So of course everyone is going to have a somewhat different level of need for sex, however, some studies have shown that women hold the power when it comes to sex, and men hold the power when it comes to access to relationships. Basically, this means that women tend to be more desperate for the relationship aspect than men, and men tend to be more desperate for the sex aspect than women. Thus, women may feel the same or similar biological imperatives to have sex, but they won't feel it as a strong need because it's something they perceive as something that they can get pretty easily, or at least more easily than men.

    So yeah, guys tend to have a way different relationship with sex than women do. In addition to that, I think being a virgin vs not being a virgin is a much larger difference than most people think... for guys at least.

    I hope this answers your question

    • What do you mean by the virgin part?

    • Well said.

  • Well, not in the same way like we do water or food. I don't really know why we have this constant desire to have sex and create new life. But what I do know is that sexuality is more involved in how we form and shape our lives than many people give credit. So its "need" can be found and its purpose can be explained by its very existence. Just like everything else.

    So the answer is yes and no depending on the context.

  • Yes. Even for a health reason. A total lack of sexual activity can bring forth physical injury, illnesses other than accumulated stress that could make us do crazy stuff.
    It's a basic need such as eating and drinking.

  • Nobody NEEDS sex. Imagine that, a man dying at your doorstep.

    "I need it or I'll die!"

    • Some say it’s a need so I don't know

  • Nah, I don't need it.

  • I would say yes men lust for sex more wouldn't say they require it to live no

  • I do not NEED it. I simply crave it a lot and really enjoy it. I saw a commercial on tv yesterday about some medical clinic and they had a guy suffering from cancer and he was going to be impotent after surgery. He said if that was the case he didn't want to live anymore. I thought that he was pathetic.

    • I agree. I've heard similar things with women - "Am I still a woman after a hysterectomy... mastectomy?" I've never questioned that.

  • it help us to relife some tensions, it calm us down, relax us so i will say, yes we need it

  • Yes, my penis needs a hug from a vagina. 💞

  • No one needs anything. "Need" presupposes qualifying agents. So you "need" 'a' to do 'b.' But nothing is needed all on its own. If you know what I mean...

  • I need food, clothes, and shelter. I need someplace to lay my head down to sleep. I need water to drink. Those are my needs; sex isn't one of them.

  • Yes, it's a need 💯!

  • Yeah

  • Definitely. Nearly all humans need sex. It's a natural human desire.

  • Ye I need that

  • To live, no.
    But to feel healthy, alive, motivated, not depressed and basically every other emotion necessary to be a productive and positive person. Yes.

  • Yessssss lol
    at least need to masturbate

  • I would like it a couple times a day once I find the right girl.

  • I need sex five times a week just saying my sex drive is high

  • I think women are realy more into Sex than guys.
    After a while without Sex I feel ugly but that's it

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