Actually it's not shaming at all. It's speaking the truth. I somebody who is a virgin and have not done that, I know I respect myself. People who do sleep around don't respect themselves. Because if they didn't respect themselves, how is it that they can't keep not one partner in their life, many of them can't get married, or they get married but they can't stay married, or they cheat and then they keep on cheating and that depends on who they are. The list can go on and on and on. Some women who have sex outside of marriage do so because the men want sex outside of marriage. Now that it's been with so many people are not caring about being married, now the women themselves don't care about being married. They can dream about getting married, but they don't expect it. That's why a lot of them sleep with different guys that they want to sleep with. Or any guy that pays attention to them. The ones that are taking offense to that all the ones that do know they don't respect themselves. The ones that do sleep around don't care what other people think. Because if they want sex with many men still go do it. They won't have somebody be if it's a man or woman tell them who they can and can't sleep with mine you. It is entirely people's right to choose who they want to be with. But God did not create us to be messing around with so many different people. This is why it's called horrorpops. He gives the free will to choose whom we going to serve and what we're going to do. If you have a desire for sex. There is nothing wrong with that. If you want to enjoy that aspect of sex. There is nothing wrong with that. He just have one rule and one rule only. Get married. And once you have sex you cannot have sex with anybody else. If you say you want that person, stick with that person. How is that wrong? A lot of people are hypocrites and I need to look at themselves.
People want to say don't sweat shaming all this other stuff but let's look at everybody else's history and let's see who's been doing what. You know why a lot of people are not going to do it? Because a lot of them are hypocrites. We can shame other people, we can judge people, we can criminalize other people, we can make fun of people that have been single TV and anywhere else, but we ourselves cannot be judged or shamed? As I spoken about this with many people, who are we to judge and put somebody to jail? Where is the line drawn? In a state of murder is wrong, rape being wrong? But we know it's wrong? How because we've been taught it was wrong? If what we've been taught has been right, why all the sudden maintaining monogamous relationships are wrong? People think monogamy is just being with one person that one time and technically it's not. Unless the person is dead, unless the person committed adultery, it is not monogamy! It is as simple as that. People say that life is in black and white, when the truth is it's technically is black and white. There's only a lot of gray areas because a lot of people don't want to make a choice. They only wanted black and white when it is convenient for them. But when something goes wrong in their life all the time they want Justice serve. Women have been going through that for centuries is not Ian so now a lot of women are doing this as payback to the men. And sadly even a Goodman of being victims of this now. Women sleep around to get revenge, they sleep around to feel good about themselves, they sleep around because they want what men supposedly have which is the ability to sleep with anybody but have little repercussions for their choices. It's Payback. You don't think it's payback? Has been happening since the baby boomer era and a little bit earlier.
It's Revenge. The women are doing it for Revenge out of their own self hatred and a hatred for the man. Oh because the woman knows that a man is so desperate for the need of sex, they will dangle sex in your face while they can freely have sex with different different men and now they could do it more so what else but themselves. That's why they worship the birth control pills, why they worship the IUD, while they worship the condoms. They worship your penis but they don't respect you, while at the same time you're not only worshipping the condoms, you're also worshiping their vagina. Every single time you have sex with those women you're worshipping them. It's Revenge. The women are doing it for Revenge out of their own self hatred and a hatred for the man. Oh because the woman knows that a man is so desperate for the need of sex, they will dangle sex in your face while they can freely have sex with different different men and now they could do it more so what else but themselves. That's why they worship the birth control pills, why they worship the IUD, while they worship the condoms. They worship your penis but they don't respect you, while at the same time you're not only worshipping the condoms, you're also worshiping their vagina. Every single time you have sex with those women you're worshipping them.
Okay so just making sure, you think it's not shaming but you think they should be shamed, correct?
There's also a difference in what time of values people have for themselves. Personally, I'm a sexually active person and I have no problem with people who chose to save themselves (something along those lines). That doesn't mean I'm a slut or she's a prude. We just hold different perspectives and values about our sexual relationships with others.
It is. When women slut-shame what they're doing is trying to compete with other women. It's a way of them signalling to you that they're a better catch than "those other girls".
It's also often just not true. Many of the girls who say this have slept around, they're often lying about their sexual past because they want you to take them seriously as a potential girlfriend rather than a hook-up.
Whenever I have casual sex I tell the girl straight up before meeting her. What often happens is that they say these kinds of things before I mention that. I drop the bomb, they act offended and leave. The ones who aren't interested never talk to me again, but some come back, and this time they drop the act. They start telling me about the one night stands they've had.
The funniest one was the girl who told me that she never drinks, never goes clubbing, hates players and sluts, never hooks up, just wants to find a nice guy. I told her I was looking for something casual and she went mental, called me every name under the Sun, so I let her go. A week or two later she comes back, apologises for going off and starts flirting hard. She starts telling me about her past experiences, turned out she's had a few threesomes and she once had a gangbang lmao.
She's probably married by now to some poor bastard who thinks she's an angel because she said that phrase and he bought it.
No and Yes.
I think they should be shamed, as I'm not sure there is much else, especially in today's society to stop someone from being promiscuous, other than than being shamed.
If you let your society become promiscuous, than it becomes more difficult to have monogamous marriages, or simply find people that are ''marriage material''.
Once the institution of marriage starts falling apart, than the family unit slowly starts falling apart. Once the family unit starts falling apart, than your society and country starts falling apart. Kids growing up in a single parent relationship are generally more likely to go down the wrong road. That's how your future generations starts falling apart.
For example there a lot of talk in recent times of issues in the Black American community, with crime and them growing up disadvantaged. Well simply put, 70% of Black American kids grow up without a father. That's what happens when your society is just looking to sleep around, rather than be people that can commit to a marriage.
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Should guys that sleep around or go on about sex and do porn etc, also be shamed?
goose, gander...
a bit and its their business... voted b
No one wants the town bicycle - everybody rides her. Uh, no.
i think "sleeping around" should be shamed for any gender, cause that's a very effective way to get an std or have an unwanted pregancy and we should protect each other from experiencing hat shit. nothing wrong with responsible promisquity tho.
I don't think just sleeping around makes you a slut.
But it is shameful and this applies to men too.
NOPE.
Sluts should be shamed. Having dignity and class should be expected and not having them shouldn't be glorified and accepted like they are.
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