If you're having enough sex, do you still watch porn and if so why?

I guess this is a hypocritical question. Because I watch porn and have sex with my boyfriend plenty. But I recently found out he's watching porn sometimes through the week. And of course my insecure ass is worried maybe he isn't attracted to me anymore.
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Superb Opinion

  • and its just your insecurity. Can you still appreciate a beautiful male body even though you wouldn't cheat on your boyfriend? Can you get turned on by it and still be attracted to your boyfriend? Of course you can. Why do women think that men need to be obsessed with them?

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  • Wait so you watch porn and that’s completely fine and normal but he does it and it’s a problem? Maybe he just does it for the same reasons as you? I hope you find a good answer but plainly just talk to him but also remember you do the same so keep an open and level headed mind

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don’t have a boyfriend I just had casual sex:/ so I kind of use porn in the meantime till I find a boyfriend and we have lots of sex but that’s okay I know it’ll be worth it next time. You live and you learn 😔

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  • I don't but I never found "enough sex" in my relationships, even during honeymoon phases. That's not because I'm like a complete horndog but, for example, women get their menstrual cycles. I never minded having sex when a woman is having her period but sometimes they aren't in the mood during that time and that can last for days.

  • Because sometimes I simply feel like masturbating.
    And even if I have a partner at the time who is perfectly attracted to me and totally down for some sex, I know they are their own person and not some sex toy that I can just call over whenever I feel like having a release.

    Sex is reciprocal and requires timing, masturbation has no such requirements.

  • Sometimes I do. Some of the kinks depicted in porn movies are not of her taste or are better left alone by normal, real couples. But are hot as fuck to witness.

  • when im in a relationship and having regular sex i still watch porn because i love porn. simple as that really

  • Wait you yourself just said u do the same so why would it be a issue clearly if u feel no wrong play is done for you why should it be a issue with him

    • It's not. I'm just being ridiculous and insecure. I do it at least once a week. That's why I pointed out the question was kind of hypocritical.

    • But then it pretty much shows u already know the answer to this

  • No. I know watch porn when I'm not getting enough

  • We used to watch porn to get warmed up a long time ago back in the VHS days.

  • Well, he would rather jerk off to porn than be with you. You're a porn-widow.
    This is an addiction, and it's disgusting and depraved.
    Next you'll get all the questions that porn addicts ask, like he wants group sex, or butt sex, or to gag you, to come all over your face. You'll see.

  • sure. i mean sometimes you're too exhausted to have sex, so just jacking off feels more convenient. given that she's not sitting right there being horny and ready to go anyway xD

  • I watch porn and have a healthy sex life. My libido is higher than my wife's, she's not always around, and masturbating feels different and doesn't take as much energy.

    And she can only handle so much.

  • Double standard? It's ok for you to watch porn; but you get upset when he does? hmm...

    I'm sure he's attracted to you.

    • Didn't get upset. Did I say we got in an argument or that I even told him I knew? Thanks for jumping to conclusions though.

    • Easy to come to such a conclusion..,. women play those games all the time.

  • Nope

  • Haha! That’s funny... why not watch it together?

    • Because I'm big and pregnant and insecure right now. 😂 not to mention awkward.

  • Hell yeah!!

  • Porn is to see (and therefore experience) something that is not what a guy has in real life. He might not even want it in real life. So he is probably still attracted to you

    • True. What I watch in porn I don't really want in real life. I guess I'm being a little crazy. 😬 I'm too insecure and even though it's something I do I still feel like him doing it makes me insignificant or something.

  • I used to like 5 years ago but not since I got in my current relationship

  • it's perfectly normal... i have plenty of sex and still watch porn. Cumming is fun and free and watching porn is better than going off and cheating in my opinion

  • lol... masturbation is a selfish act, I do not need anyone to care nor do I need to please another, it's only about ME... simple and always satisfying

  • No, I don't have the need for it.

  • For me masturbation and sex are two different Things.
    I would rather masturbate than having sex

    • Why?

    • It's easier and I don't have to Care about another person

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