I am lesbian but why do I think hetero women are more attractive?

Question

I am lesbian but I mostly find hetero girls attractive. Am I the only one. And why?

razelove · Accepted Answer

Well, you aren't the only one. I don't quite get the dynamic there, but it led to a lot of early threesomes I had. Lesbian couple, one of them really isn't into guys, one of them really is, and she wants to share that passion.

Very awkward situations. Anyway, besides the fact that they're unavailable, try listing what it is that you find attractive about them that set them apart from the women who are currently available to you. Dating is always awkward when you're young, better to figure out what you want early and chase after it.

Good luck.

HugoThe2nd · Accepted Answer

Maybe you find them more girly, more feminine than the typical bi/lesbian girl?
Are you a more tomboyish type?

The lesbian/bi girls I know are all pretty tomboyish, but at the same time if you are into girls, it makes sense you would be attracted more towards girly than masculine.
I thought that's what the whole butch/femme thing was all about.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because some women can turn lesbian after getting rejected by guys. Therefore, there is a greater chance of a lesbian being unattractive than a hetero woman

HeyLoveless · Answer

I am the same way

The_Maphio · Answer

Typical. You lust more after what you can't have. It's human.

boggboss · Answer

Maybe its the age old saying of women u can't have as they are straight

cth96190 · Answer

Because straight (or bi) females usually look like women, unlike the stereotypical fat, short haired, tattooed bull dyke in a flannel shirt and men’s jeans.
I see them in the nightclub district.
The girl in the relationship usually looks like a girl. The fat lesbian who straps it on, not so much.
Lesbians are attracted to other women. Therefore, they should be attracted to feminine women who look and behave straight.

Browneye57 · Answer

You're really confused. If you're still a child, talk to your mommy and daddy about it.

Wise4myage · Answer

Maybe its the challenge of trying to seduce them that you find attractive?

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Because the population of lesbian and gay isn’t that much. The dating pool is much smaller. There are other factors too.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I agree with you and im lesbian too. 😎

Surely · Answer

Because most likely you will not be able to have them. Unless they’re bi. Always want something that you can’t have!

Shihab91 · Answer

You are under 18 and you lesbian , and when we say media is pushing LGBT agenda they get mad.

obtuseocelot · Answer

Because they're still women?

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Then what are you doing on a site called girlsaskguys If you're les.

AA-DRE · Answer

Probably because you are attracted a feminine energy and many lesbians tend to have a more masculine energy. I am guessing you are more attracted to the "lipstick" lesbian type then a tomboy style of lesbian am I right?

lycanthrope3 · Answer

The fruit you can not have

Anonymous · Answer

Because hetero girls are more feminine and they are not interested in you. Many people find someone who is not interested in them to be a little more desirable.