So I said this to my friends with benefits, Could this have hurt his ego?

[Anonymous]

Like.. why do guys wanna say shit like “your pussy is mine” but say they don’t want to be with you. You can’t have something that’s attached to something you don’t want, sorry.

[Dinklex3]

Was this random?
I don't see that hurting his ego at all tbh.
Kinda shows that he's been on your mind though.

[Anonymous]

I would hold you down and spank you until you pledged your pussy to me for life

[Asker]

Well, I wish he would do that.. But I also wish he wanted a relationship with me cuz I’m basically in love with him.. so 😏

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he would want you more if you didn't give him sex without a relationship. People in general want what they can't have more than what they can have. I dont know though. If all girls are giving themselves up for free then maybe he would go on to another girl. I think that girls are doing themselves a disservice by agreeing to friends with benefits. You are probably someone who is perfectly acceptable to be his girlfriend but the way society is it screws that up. Do you know what I mean?

[Asker]

Yeah I get it, I don't know. We’ve been sleeping together a little over a year now.. he talks to me about everything and opens up to me about issues from his past/current things going on.. I told him I’m don’t sleeping with him but I don’t think he takes it seriously cuz I’ve said it before.. But we’ve both been saying it to each other and he’s blocked me multiple times. Only to unblock me and reach out to me again.. We don’t just sleep together he’s came and spent the night without sex. But my feelijgs are too much involved now.. to the point I can’t even talk to other guys. No one interests me and I don’t care about anyone else. So I had to end things with him so I can move on.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that is best. Maybe he will com around. I hope that he does :)

[Anonymous]

I’ve always found it ironic how feminists claim to be equal but are the ones on their knees sucking or bending over getting screwed at the end of the day.

[Asker]

I am not a feminist... In fact, I am naturally submissive to a man I trust and have feelings for. Respectfully of course.. and IF he wanted a relationship with me... and wasn’t sleeping with others.. then yes, he can claim my pussy as his. But we’re just friends that fuck, so why should I be okay with him claiming something is his if he doesn’t want all of me?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, good point