Boyfriend says that he wants to cum in me? wtf?

He says it’s a “fantasy” and I firmly said no and that it’s not a fantasy but it’s how you make babies. He’s constantly asking any way that he can get me horny enough to let me do that. He says that he’ll get me the pill and so I don’t have to worry, but it’s not about that. I find it selfish, reckless and irresponsible on his part for a bit of fun. Thoughts?
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  • It's when you're ready. He needs to consider those things too unless he wants to be a father in 9 months. I would be truthful and if he can't understand and wait then he dont really care about you. Yeah i know what you mean, it should be a mutual understanding. I don't want a guy cumming in me either till i feel really trusting of him and im on birth control too but not just one sided but also BECAUSE i want to.

  • Personally, that is every guys fantasy because it’s how you reproduce and how our brains are wired to do. It’s natural and cumming inside a female gives the most intense orgasms. I think you stated how you feel on the subject, and that is that. If he can’t respect it or can’t logically think that his desires can lead you to getting pregnant, I wouldn’t even have sex with him honestly.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's both a fantasy and how babies are made. Some people even have a breeding fetish. Yes, it is selfish, reckless, and irresponsible. It also really turns him on. If you aren't comfortable with it, then don't do it. You have every right to decline. However, I am a believer that if two people aren't compatible sexually, the chances of them being happy together are slim.

    • We are really, really compatible in bed, BUT that’s one thing I’m only willing to let anyone do once I’m trying to start a family.

    • That's perfectly fair.

  • I totally agree with you. This guy is selfish, reckless and irresponsible. I have to admit, cumming in a girl feels totally amazing, but... Totally not worth the risk. I'm not sure I would trust this guy if I were you. Don't do it. He will forever be asking, and you'll always be putting your future at risk.
    Not worth it.

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  • ? Ya thats kind of the point?

    • The fuck? The point is to make babies through sex.

  • This is why I have the hormone implant. So I dont have to worry. Having a guy cum in you is amazing for both involved

    • What’s so good about it?

  • That’s what birth control is for

    • It’s so that men can cum in you and not worry about any potential pregnancies? LOL

    • Fuck off with birth control pills and unnecessary abortions

    • @7771999 Not gonna go down the abortion rabbit hole, but ummm, what’s wrong with birth control? 🤨

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  • Get on the pill.

    • Why don’t you

    • I am. I take to fukitall every morning. So now I can come in you.

    • Come in your mother you dirty fuck.

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  • I think you lied about your age

    • What?

  • Why Is this such a big deal? I am 32 and I always cum Inside of the woman. I never pulled out. I don't get it

    • Says you’re 17

    • I know. I made a mistake and this app doesn't let me correct it

    • I call bullshit on that. You don't accidently put down 17 for 32. You just want girls on here to think you're younger.

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  • Tell him to cum in your mouth... that's inside of you right?

    • I don’t like the taste of cum

    • Spit it out afterwards... It's not about what you want all the time... This would be to please your partner. Pleasing your partner is actually a really strong turn on. Knowing that you make a person feel so good is very rewarding you should try it.

    • No thanks. I believe in mutual respect between partners and not bending over backwards so that they’re happy. Try it my way and see how much your life will improve lol.

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  • He might have a breeding fetish

    • What is that? It’s the fist time I’m hearing (reading) it.

  • It’s perfectly understandable that he’d want to cum inside. It’s a natural urge. It’s the way guys are wired. That being said, if you’re not ready for it, then he should respect that and wait rather than continuing to push for what he wants. Being selfish isn’t attractive.

    • It’s so unattractive when he’s constantly trying to push his own agenda tbh.

  • It's highly risky.

  • What is wrong with you? I came in every one of my twenty girlfriends and they were on the pill

    • I’m not on the pill.

    • Then get on it

    • Why? So that he can cum in me? No thanks.

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