Sounds more like kinks.
however with those you have mentioned, be very very careful. Only ever do with someone you really really trust, some guy that likes doing it needs to be avoided.
they have very real and very present safety risks.
Daddy issue thing may simply be from wanting affection, needing protection, lots of various reason.
but please be careful and watch your safety.
avoid anyone not mentioning safety.
@ pink Anon asker, I’m happy to talk more on this if you want to DM, fine if you don’t.
It could be another male/authority figure in your life that caused you the hugging issue, and maybe the kinks but I don't know if those have to be from trauma or not. Is there someone else you do have a bad relationship with or bad memory of?
I've always been touched a lot throughout high school nothing necessarily too serious but guys would touch my butt or make me uncomfortable but I also grew up fat and was bullied then lost weight when I got older
Ah fuck, That's probably why you don't like hugs. Your dad didn't change how you see boys boys changed how you see your dad. Or, probably. Which isn't much better. Also sorry you had to deal with that in highschool.
I would say not, but more so you have rebellious tendencies. Daddy issues only comes from events that you can typically remember as a child that make you act out. Typically you most likely wouldn’t have a good relationship with your father.
thank you, do you have any guess to where I got the kinks from or how they developed?
Well it’s not unusual for a girl to want to be dominated. I was into BDSM around the time I was rebellious and wanted to try new things. My boyfriend wouldn’t dear do BDSM on me though lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Those kinks are much more common than you think or than many would openly admit. I've never met a woman who didn't enjoy those things to some extent.
more likely just a kink and kinks dont need a reason everytime... yes for some women its come from an absent or uncaring father but for others its just coz they got wet panties watching fifty shades
Have you bother consider consider maybe it’s just who you are?
im still wondering why I’m like this though how did it all begin
Who knows somehow it’s just how some people turn out
There’s nothing wrong with you
Daddy issues don't just = sexual kinks so no. If that's all you have.
Having kinks doesn't mean you have daddy issues.
Hell, I have more daddy issues than all my exes combined.
No, I see no connection whatsoever between the two. Girls with daddy issues were usually abandoned by their fathers at a young age.
That's not daddy issues you just like what you like and there is nothing wrong with that your a sub and subs are the best
thank you, do you have any guess to where I got the kinks from or how they developed?
Yes inbox me and I'll explain it
Do you really like to get choked, degreaded?
yes i do
Well im sure you would do anything id do. Can you dm me?
You would like anything*
Why would those kinks equal daddy issues?
Your kinks have nothing to do with daddy issues. Lots of girls have those kinks. They are normal.
It's also common for girls your age to be a little uncomfortable hugging their dads.
You may but I don't hear anything that tells me that. Sex is raw and animalistic. Most women crave a masculine man that will take what he wants and leave her with his seed. I think that is what is behind your enjoyment of those things and why you are attracted to men like me who just take it
If hugs are uncomfortable then yes there are past traumas
My guess is you blocked out that trauma , that’s where it all started
thank you for the insight, do you know what kind of trauma?
Nope, I can’t crawl into your brain. Must be some abuse as your fear of intimacy leads to sexual or physical abuse as a kid
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