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Is it normal to want sex again right after losing your virginity?

I had sex with a guy yesterday for the first time, casual hook up and I did enjoy it aside from the pain and I liked sex a lot but I don’t wanna rush it right away with another guy because I don’t wanna be like a whore that isn’t me it’s just I really really found sex to be great
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I’m a bit of a late bloomer I feel I didn’t have the opportunity really as a teen, also didn’t feel ready and had long distance relationships but I feel like I’m not too late since I’m 22 and my intuition was telling me something about this year and I came out of a toxic relationship with my ex at 21( NO I DID NOT lose it to my ex)
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  • You are lucky because you enjoyed your first time aside from some pain and liked sex a lot and want it again and again. This shows that your first time sex was really great. I have the personal experience to answer your question. I am from a traditional Indian family. We – I and my husband had promised each other to keep our virginity till marriage, we had enjoyed some small games occasionally, but we managed for our promise. After our marriage, we had not enjoyed sex very soon. After about a week, my in-laws family went for a two days pilgrimage as a part of tradition, keeping both of us home alone. It was in our planning. We went to bath together, do everything to make each other excited, and then I ride him in lap-dance position. I bleed a little, but it did not hurt me, mainly because I was in control of the game. It was amazing the moment he get fully in. After few moments and some movements, he cum inside me, and it was super emotional feelings. I feel each throbbing of his penis and each drop of his cum flowing in me. I was in great tranquility, did not allow him to pull out, keep him locked with me till he cum second time. We enjoyed sex again after meal in the noon and night. So I would say YES you can enjoy it soon after first time, if you desire it strongly, and your body is ready for it, that is true! I think the desire for more sex comes from strong emotional bond between you and your husband (or boyfriend), age, stress level, health state (if you are ill you are less likely to want it obviously), situation and many more factors. This is true with a lot of things in life not just sex but in general for most things. In my late 20’s my libido is pretty sky high, even after producing a child. Now, if a person who was hesitant or nervous about sex before experiencing it, then had good experiences they are more likely to want to and act on repeating it again and again. Nature has designed sex as most pleasant and enjoyable thing with a purpose of encouraging men and women encourage them to enjoy it again and again to produce babies to keep life everlasting on earth. That is why pleasure of sex is also a natural responsibility.

    • That's just too much information for a simple question lol

    • Well, I don't complain. She did describe it pretty well.

    • Lol i mean why would you?

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  • Yeah it's normal I remember after losing mine that's all I wanted to do

    • I’m a bit of a late bloomer but I am glad I got to experience it before I’m like 30 and now I don’t have so much fears and I can have fun with it! Ohhh girl get it😁

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  • Paolaa , you little kinkster lol, yes , to your Question, but that guy blew it , the way I see it is , when you guys started having sex he should be just about finishing up right now LOL,, first of all I guess congratulations, I really would love to chat with you about sex and where can head but I just got another vibe with everything that has been going on with you I want you to pay attention to this. Make sure each and every time you have sex the guy wears a condom no matter what do not let him not work on them because you are the person that's going to get pregnant. With everything that you have been through. This will happen to you too so remember that each and every time you have sex because I'm telling you right now I see it happening and girl you are not ready for it I hope you can really hear me and I hope you really read these words because it's going to happen to you so pay attention at all times you really don't want this right now you have enough things going on in your life you don't need this to because I'm going to tell you the guy is not going to be there either you will not be there for you listen to my words please
    I really thought this was going to be a message about how beautiful Making Love Is but I couldn't go there knowing the outcome of something is going to happen if you do not pay attention

  • I think it's a really good thing, Paolaa. You finally got your pussy initiated. Aside from the pain of the initial penetration, it's great that you enjoyed being filled.

    Congratulations.

    Now it's time to enjoy having a pussy.

    There's a reason why sex feels so good. It's a shame when they don't take advantage of the bliss that their bodies are capable of experiencing. When they get older, they'll regret not experiencing as much pleasure as they could have.

    You're still very young. Now that you've joined the ranks women, it's time to go on the journey of discovery to learn the incomparable bliss of glorious, transcendent, orgasmic sex. It's a learning process.

    You're lucky to have a strong libido. Best wishes on your sexual journey.

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  • Ummm yes, it's normal if you enjoyed it... and it sounds like you did!

  • I would say Yes. Totally normal. I would even congratulate you for having a good experience the first time (enough to want more). That's totally OK. Sex doesn't need to be scary. True you have to be safe, but... It can be a wonderful experience. I would say enjoy your 20's by experiencing different guys. Since we all come in different shapes, sizes and experience levels you're likely to have a different experience with each of us. You won't be a whore, just be safe and smart about who you hook up with. Again, enjoy it.

  • Presently this is one thing our government isn't trying to control as yet, so we are free to do as we like with our sex lives. That means you only have to follow your own heart and do or don't do as you wish.

  • Yes its normal.

  • Yes, very much

  • Yes if your first time went well.

  • If it wasn't particularly traumatic and you just found out the wonderful world of sex, of course it's normal to want seconds.
    Would you find it strange to want a second serving of your favourite food?
    Sex is one of the best pastimes of an adult human being.

  • Have sex as much as you want! Don't ever listen to people who say you are a slut or whore. They are stupid! As humans, we are sexual beings! We not only have sex for reproduction, but for pleasure as well! It's your birthright to be able to experience pleasure. Don't let anyone take that away from you!

  • I knew a girl went from Virgin to ten guys in three days...

    • I dont wanna do that.. hell no. If anything i wanna find the right guy to keep doing it with. It's just my one night stand he doesn't want anything more with me since that. That was it for him.

    • Well you kind a left yourself a little bit high and dry you should’ve saved yourself for somebody more steady... Maybe a find a close friend

  • Yes, but you need another guy.


  • Someone being a virgin or not does not change their libido. The body doesn’t know the difference of an arousal cycle caused by another person or themselves, by hands or mouth or by toy or by penis.


    Now, a person who was hesitant or nervous about sex before experiencing it then had good experiences they’re more likely to want to and act on repeating it, generally speaking.

  • Very!

    Happy for you girl 😊

  • Very normal.

  • It is normal. I was conflicted about it but I definitely wanted to do it again.

  • Yup it is

  • That's ok... You had a pleasurable tube which you enjoyed and we all tend to want more of that

    As u already said you don't want to rush and be a whore opening up ur legs to anyone.. which is good

    Just enjoy the experience and wait for right one and right moment for next

  • was for me

  • Hook up = Already there

  • Yes, it's completely normal.
    Masturbate a lot in the meantime.
    It helps pass the urge to do something foolish

  • Absolutely. Have fun and be safe!

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