Relationships and Porn?

[Anonymous]

Is it okay for a man to reject his girlfriend for sex but sneak and watch porn and use his sexual toys without her involved or knowing?

[kyleelyn199723]

My first ex boyfriend used to do this and honestly it made me feel insecure even though I was the more attractive one in the relationship lol. Never again.

[Asker]

I'm having a very hard time dealing with it.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ew time to break up with him. Sounds like he has unrealistic expectations on sex and can’t get hard from natural women. Don’t change yourself and just find a man that craves your body.

[Asker]

I keep staying waiting for him to want me? I guess, I don't really fucking know at this point.

[kyleelyn199723]

Well start out by talking to him about it, if he can’t see how much it bothers you , leave. I swear to god when I dumped my ex that did this, he cried through the process of me packing my stuff to leave him, but he didn’t appreciate me throughout the whole relationship

[Ironic_Method]

I dont think sneaking around is healthy for any relationship regardless of the scenario.

Definitely need to talk to your partner about this one.

[wankiam]

no, he should be open and honest about it if he has a porn addiction. that said, she needs to let him know its ok

[wankiam]

and if she isn't ok with it, then they need to split up i guess

[Avicenna]

That's not OK and means the relationship is not healthy

[LiamSawyer]

No, he should find immense satisfaction in making you cum.

[Wise4myage]

No its not ok, and she should dump his sorry ass. He's probably addicted to porn.

[MasterOfReality]

No it’s not. Nothing wrong with doing those things, but only if she is taken care of and/or she is involved. Choosing to satisfy yourself at the expense of your partner is selfish. But I think you knew the answer. I’m sorry he is that way.

[SamFromFL]

It ok for him because he’s selfish and can see any kind of girl he wants. Unfair to you as it makes you feel unsexy and worthless. He doesn’t comprehend. Are you pretty to him?

[Asker]

His actions and words are so different it makes my head spin.

[SamFromFL]

That’s why he is lying. If he really was into you he would forget the porn and rip your clothes off

[fred_durst]

nope , she need to dump him asap

[Seppel]

I think it is ok

[Anonymous]

It's not okay unless the girlfriend is currently being very lazy in bed.
Like she just wants to lay there, get oral, get fucked and doesn't do anything in return.
That happened to me and it did get to a point where I preferred to masturbate to porn.
That was just a rare incident though.
If both partners are enthusiastic and giving in bed, they should always make each other a priority.

[Opinion Owner]

I stand by my answer. If you're lazy in bed it becomes more like a chore to have sex with you.

[CathyFatAss65]

I'm a Pillow Queen. I never give oral and I just lay there, everybody hates me.

[Opinion Owner]

@CathyFatAss65 That makes sense.

[Anonymous]

That is not OK at all.