Ladies, is humping something a good way for you to climax?

[obtuseocelot]

If so, how high up on your scale of orgasms would you rate it?

[Sangita93]

Do you mean Dry Humping? It is starting point for me and my husband many times; destination is not far away after that. Dry humping or outercourseor is sometimes thought of as a thing you only really do during early in your sexual journey, but it can be just as pleasurable when you are matured. Not only can it be a great thing to help you climax on its own, but humping can also be a great foreplay activity with your partner. Rubbing your genitals while clothed can give you and a partner body-to-body contact heavy on the heat and urgency of things. The more time you give your body to become and stay aroused, the better your odds of orgasm as well. As with all things, in sex, communication is the key. Because dry humping is so stimulating for the girls that they want to speak up and be vocal about what feels good for them, tell her partner if the pace feels right, if she want to add or subtract layers of clothing, adjust her positioning, etc. Humping should not be transferred to a placeholder position on the way to full-on penetrative sex. The clitoris is on the outside, the more petting, rubbing, or humping activities that target the clit, the better. society might see penis-in-vagina as the end goal of sex, it is worth noting that from an anatomy perspective, your vagina is definitely not just one big clitoris rolled up and flattened into a tunnel. The vagina has few nerve endings and thus little internal sensation and responds more to pressure than to friction. P-in-V sex is more psychologically arousing than physically arousing. sex can be painful sometimes, humping is a way to control the intensity of your hookup. Usually I got on top, occasionally talk dirty (?), I could control the pace and the angle of everything. Girls get all the stimulation for their clit, and can handle his penis with intensity that hands, mouths, or whatever-else-you-like can bring.

[obtuseocelot]

Beautifully stated. Thank you for the thoughtful reply.

[Anonymous]

Yup. It’s my main go to. I like to hump my long body pillow. It makes me mentally feel as if I am on top of him in cowgirl style (or riding his face, depending on the mood) so it really turns me on to the point of an intense orgasm.
Now if I do it with him talking dirty to me (phone sex) then I can have multiple orgasms while riding/grinding on my pillow. Sometimes just thinking about it turns me on lol.

[PaynefulPleasures]

✌️👍

[obtuseocelot]

You know that's not an answer. 😉

[PaynefulPleasures]

And why not 🤣

[obtuseocelot]

Because the only utensil rubbing up on anything else is a knife.

[PaynefulPleasures]

Switch blade or a double edge sword 😉

[obtuseocelot]

Definitely a sword 😮

[PaynefulPleasures]

Double edge 🤔

[Anonymous]

I can get off on that. I haven't done it since I was little.