Did you lost your virginity with condom or without?

Question

I lost my without condom and used BC

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Without a condom. My girlfriend was 15 and I was 16 and it was, unlike with a lot of people, a great experience. We were lucky enough to have the time and privacy that we needed and it was great.

We lived in a small town in Michigan. My gfd's parents lived on an inland lake and they would throw a huge party every Independence Day. A Bar-b-q. Softball and darts and chatting on the lake. People would go out on boats on the dock and water ski or you would go swimming. Inside they set up a small mini-casino with a roulette wheel. It was a big event.

Then, after dark, people would take their boats out to the middle of the lake, tie them together and have dancing and watch the fireworks display. After the fireworks, more dancing and a bonfire onshore.

As I say, it was a big affair. I had been to a few before my girlfriend and I started dating - my junior year, her sophomore year, in high school.

Well, that year, we took a pontoon boat out - her parents owned one - just the two of us. We went to the middle of the lake and after the dancing and fireworks, we told everyone that we were going to stay out a bit and just star gaze.

Well, it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what happened next. One thing led to another and we had sex for the first time in our lives. Unprotected sex, I should add, as this was not planned and teenaged hormones tend not to think very much.

It was amazing and for the next few days I was sure of three things. 1) I was a MAN!!! 2) I was totally in love. 3) My girlfriend was the girl I was going to marry, get a house with a white picket fence, have children and live the rest of my life with. I mean I wanted to be with her every second!!

Then it hit me. "Hey, what if I got her pregnant." The hormones wore off, the brain kicked in. I started to try to imagine what it meant for my education and college. How would we tell our parents?

Truth be told, if I am to be honest, there was a part of me that was okay with it. I kept thinking that I would be a good dad and I could make it work. For the most part though, I started to worry and every day I would ask my girlfriend, "Did you have IT, yet?"

The "It" being her period. She got REALLY tired of my asking that question.

However, nothing to worry about. She was not pregnant and we continued to date and have sex - albeit with condoms, except for one time a year later when we did have a serious pregnancy scare - until her freshman year, my sophomore year, in college.

My memories of her are still fond. Just that going to different colleges hundreds of miles apart made us grow apart. You grow up and the teenaged hormones wear off. Suffice to add that I am now the besotted father - with my girlfriend (we don't want to be married) - of three little Munchkins and I am living happily ever after.

Still, it is funny. It was great sex and I am still sort of surprised how, even as I was having a panic attack I was open to the idea of being a teen dad if that is what fate (and my teen hormones) had decided for me. I was scared, no doubt of it, but I was sure I was meant to do it.

Overall, it was a great experience - but after that, with one exception, which becamse our second (false alarm) pregnancy scare, it was sex with a condom until we broke up her freshman year - my sophomore year - in college. Would not change a thing.

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

Without. Thank you nuva ring.

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Without condom, and it was our mutual choice. I and my husband – both keep our virginity till marriage, we had enjoyed some small games, but no penetrative sex. We both had studied science, and had explored web for after marriage things. I had consulted my family doctor for some advice. Based on it, we had decided to use pill for me, and have se without condom. Nature has designed sex most pleasant and fulfilling thing to encourage men and women for producing babies to keep life everlasting on earth. It can be enjoyed most the natural way only. Condom and all birth control things are new – being used for few years only. Humans have always enjoyed sex without any such things almost forever. We assume that men are the only ones who do not like the way condoms feel, mainly because men are not shy about saying so, or because we never think to ask women. Most women hate using condoms. It feels like he is wrapped his penis in plastic wrap. The sensation is not as pleasurable for them. My friend with experience of Condoms feels sex with condom less intimate. She said “I love the way the smooth, hard penis skin feels against my skin, but I cannot feel that with a condom. We use them anyway, though, because I do not like the pill, and the intercourse still feels good. It simply does not feel as good as skin on skin” She has tried just about every type of condom available there, and they all limit sensation to one extent or another. She takes condom sex over no sex any day. Without a condom, every sensation is a little more intense and a little warmer. Also, the lubricants on condoms sometimes irritate. Maybe it is partially psychological, but I enjoy feeling him inside me, uncovered. Also, him ejaculating inside of me is a sexual turn on for one more round. If you are looking for birth control that gives you round-the-clock pregnancy protection with minimal effort, implant and the IUD are best options. Next is pill. But remember, condoms are the only way to protect yourself and your partner from STDs during sex. So no matter what type of birth control you use, condoms are never bad idea, if not excellent or good. Practice makes men and women perfect. The more comfortable and confident you are using condoms, the easier it will be to put one on in the heat of the moment.

msbrightness · Accepted Answer

I think without, and it was a mistake (peer pressure)

maceygirl · Answer

Without a condom. We relied on the pull out method, which didn't work..

EyeAmNiceGirl · Answer

No condom. No birth control. And yes, he came inside me. The next time we got together, I made him use a condom.

HugoThe2nd · Answer

Without, no birth control, just being irresponsible and relying on the pull out method. But we used condoms in most of the subsequent times.

Lliam · Answer

Without. She was on the pill. All my girlfriends have been on the pill.

I've never used a condom except for the first time I fucked one particular girlfriend. After that, though, she was okay with fucking me to death at least a couple times a day and sometimes for hours at a time without pause. I guess that first time she was protecting herself against STDs until she knew that I wasn't just a player who would use her once and move on.
I hate condoms. You can't feel anything but warmth and pressure. No skin sliding against skin or juice.

weysally · Answer

no condom but I was on the pill,

Paolaa988 · Answer

I lost mine with a condom but thats okay i still liked it. I just had sex the first time on Monday this week lol. I wouldn't of mind without a condom but i don't wanna risk pregnancy if im not taking birth control at the moment.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

With the first time, then 3 minutes later without.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Without n no bc

ohshee · Answer

The first three times four times that I had sex when I lost my virginity I never use the condom I just used the pull out method and that was dangerous I would never do that again though LOL

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Without because it wasn't something that was planned.

rachel776 · Answer

without

godfatherfan · Answer

Technically without. She climbed on me (we were in a car). Then I asked if she was on BC. When she said no, I almost threw her off me lol. Then we drove to my house, I got a condom (thank god I had them), and finished that way.

Apple1996 · Answer

Without condom or any birth control. I like being risky 😝

Leavesbound · Answer

Without. I was very young and so no real chance of pregnancy and she was also quite young and likely not experienced so not likely to have any diseases.

Elliegirl · Answer

With a condom.

The_Maphio · Answer

Without. The girl I was with was older than me and wanted raw young meat in her. Its been meh.

EmmaMary · Answer

With and on BC.

wankiam · Answer

without and then i fucked another girl 20 minutes later without too but before you all go judging me, this was early 80s before the aids epidemic made news so people rarely used condoms