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Girlfriend's guy bestfriend crossing boundaries. how should I feel about it?

So basically, my (22, m) girlfriend (f,19) has this guy "best friend" who she has known for about 2 years of her life.. we have been together for 7 months. Now I am in no way threatened by the guy. But I despise him for the kind of shit he's been trying to pull.

So last month, the guy (who was a virgin at the time) was about to get laid. So whats the first thing he did, call my girlfriend up and ask her if she could go and buy rubber for him from a pharmacy with him and suggested that my girlfriend and him sit together and basically learn and gain "sex education" together. To which my girlfriend readily agreed. Now bear in mind that I tried showing my discomfort about it all, bit she very conveniently ignored that!

Well after that, the next morning the guy calls her up first thing and tells her in gory detail about his night, how many times he came, about how many times they had sex and everything else!

4 days later, their "group" decides to have a get together at the guys place, now mind you the guy is 2 years older.. and lives alone. He somehow managed to get his hands on weed brownies.. and offered them to her saying they were normal brownies. Keep in mind that she hates drugs and stays away from them. She had two pieces, and got high as fuck. She had to go back to her parents place in an hour and then had to call me to drive 18miles and pick her up and then drive 18 miles to drop her off and then get back home. Weed and smoking is a deal breaker for me.

Because of this, I hate him, and I hate that my girlfriend talks to him.
But after all of this, she promised me without me instigating about anything she herself said "that she's never talking to that guy again"

But much to my surprise she's talking back to him, and when I asked about her doing it, she said that he's important to her and that she can't ever not talk to him.

I have met him twice, and both the times and both of those times he pulled this shit.
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Superb Opinion

  • None of those things seem like issues too me.
    Nothing wrong with him asking those things as long as she dosent mind which she dosent, nothing wrong with him telling her how it went, nothing wrong with werd brownies.
    And why are you complaining you had to be DD for a night?

    Dosent sound like he crossed any boundaries to me, your just being too jealous.

    • That's because I couldn't elaborate what he said to her. He said that he came twice. Who says that?

    • Friends tell each other details about big events in their lives

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  • Talking to a friend about your life isn't a big deal, I'd say you're overreacting to that.
    The drugs is unforgivable. It's highly irresponsible and bang out of order.

    • Yeah I agree it isn't a big deal to talk about your life. But I didn't get a chance to elaborate what he said... he went into gory details about how many times he came, how many times he made his hook up cum amongst other things.

    • Would you be upset if a female friend had gone into that's. level of detail? I wouldn't go into that much detail but I still don't see it as an issue. The drug thing is so much worse

    • I agree the drug thing is much worse, but the other thing bothers me just as much. Had a lady friend gotten into that kinda detail then I don't think it's that big a deal, but being a guy, no matter how close there's always some kinda discretion, no? You can't be sayign anything and everything... plus he asked her to basically watch porn with him and to go with him to buy a pack of rubber. I don't know man, how I feel about that!

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  • So what are u asking as clearly in your girls mind he has done nothing wrong yes you may have issue with him but the person your problems are with is your girl

    • Clearly u need to talk to your girlfriend about this as she is the one crossing boundaries here dont expect loyalty from people outside your relationship u expect it from your partner

  • I would pay him a visit. Just the incident with the pot brownie is enough for you to give him a good ass kicking.

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