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Have you ever had sex without any form of protection?

My period is in 4 days and my fertility window was 5 days ago. It is the first time this happened so I am bit freaked out. My boyfriend and I started sex without a condom. And then used one as I was worried. It was literally 30 seconds. So no sperm was there. He did not ejaculate. However, I am a bit worried. Should I be worried? Now my head is hurting and even my breasts. Maybe it is because period is on the way but im a bit panicked. I need to study but I can't focus. I want to talk to my boyfriend about it byt he has a very important presentation coming up I dont want to disturb him with ny worries. Anyone can tell me something please? I feel so bad now, i dont know why we did that in the first place. Did you guys ever had sex without any form of protection?
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  • Yes, and it's scary for us too. I have 1 friend who got his girlfriend pregnant on accident the first time they had unprotected sex, so it happens. Honestly, It's not worth it. getting pregnant can ruin your future, so don't take the chance. I know it's super tempting, but don't do it. You asked, should you be worried? You should be concerned, but it's way too early to "worry". Girls are late all the time, so don't freak out. If you were 30 days late, I'd say go get a test, but right now... don't worry.

    • Do you know if this friend ejaculated? Or maybe if she was during her fertility window? I know you are right, I feel so bad now for the rushed decision

    • He said no. He didn't ejaculate. I'm also told that men leak sperm without ejaculation. (weird I know) She very well could have been in her fertility window. That is very likely the case. Don't panic, and don't freak out. Also, don't tell him unless you're late. No point because technically you don't know anything right now. It's super common for girls to be late when they have stress, so I say do nothing until your like 20 days late. Then go get a test. Then you can worry. :-)

Most Helpful Guy

  • Unless ejaculation happened, you really don't have anything to worry about.
    The thing about people being able to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate is really more a deterrent than reality.
    So that teens don't go around being irresponsible relying on the pulling out method.

    The real risk in such cases is the guy accidentally releasing some sperm, either as partial ejaculation (if he is trying to hold back sometimes it can happen) or due to coming prematurely.
    Technically, the pre-ejaculate can pick up residual sperm, but this is about as unlikely as a condom breaking.

    With my first girlfriend we practiced "unsafe sex" pretty much the whole time and nothing happened.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You’re not likely pregnant. The sex was after the window when you’d likely be ovulating. Plus he didn’t ejaculate. I wouldn’t stress. Have I ever had unprotected sex? It’s embarrassing to admit but yeah. Last year, after going off birth control, I had unplanned sex with a guy. Then we had sex a few more times after that. He did pull out each time but I went and refilled my birth control after that so he wouldn’t get me pregnant.

  • No not yet.. i hope you're okay damn that's exactly what scares me is getting pregnant. I want kids but not till after 25 unless it just happens by accident but take a test okay😔

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  • If ur period is 4 days away your fertility window was longer than 5 days ago. U have less likely chance he got u pregnant.

  • I never had sex without a condom or unless the girl was on birth control. As you know precum can have some sperm in it so be careful

  • Yeah. In your case, I think you need to xhill and worry less. You can take pill if you are worried but just stay calm

  • I never really use protection besides pull out method

    • Not even birth control?

    • Nah I'm against birth control. I have two kids cause we didn't choose to pull out and I'm pregnant right now with my third but this time was on purpose. I'd rather just have babies then be on birth control

  • Yeah. A lot. If you're not expecting something to happen but it then does. It's hard to deny yourself

  • A lot of time, foolishly. Regarding your situation, you most likely are not pregnant. If he didn't cum at all, there is very little chance of you being pregnant.

  • Yeap

    • Not even birth control?

    • Correct

  • Yes. But it was with another guy and we had been together for months and both been tested before. If the possibility of pregnancy or unknown STIs had been in play, I wpuld have insisted on using protection

  • You should be worried. I played Russian roulette a few times pre vasectomy. It was stupid. You should be on birth control or even an IUD and he should have a condom on. Not worth the risk.

  • I hardly ever used protection. Somehow I didn't get my wife pregnant until two months after we were married. We were lucky.

  • yea so many times

  • Never encountered that so wouldn't know how it felt with or without

  • Yeah, it was a first date, was so late and we had no condoms around but didn't want to stop so we had unprotected sex. We went to get plan B and condoms the next day as we stayed together all weekend. Eventually she got an IUD.

  • CVS sells preggo tests.
    Dear lord.

  • Yes. We have two daughters in three tries to prove it!

    • Each time there was ejaculation?

    • Yes. But with a.667 batting average, this point hardly seems worth the bandwidth.

  • Yes with my wife only, anyone else before her it was always protected. And I always used my own condoms, I do not want to have a child because someone chose to poke a hole in it.

  • I’m married, so no protection needed.

  • I've had a lot of unprotected sex with previous fuck buddies and exGFs. Some were on birth control while some were not.

    I would solely rely on the last second pullout method with partners who were birth control free to avoid pregnancy and it worked each time.

    In your case... you'll be absolutely fine because it was only 30 seconds before using protection.

  • I’ve only had sex without protection with 1 woman in my life. She was a friends with benefits senior year in college. Was on birth control. Well, you could say 2. I had one girlfriend where I put it in and did a few pumps, then pulled back out and put a new condom on.


    That stuff is serious. Very very serious. Unless you’re on birth control, if you’re not planning a baby don’t do it. You will only make yourself worry.

  • Many times lol

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