Do you feel attached or somehow connected with the person you lost your virginity to?

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Don't believe i feel attached to him but like somehow connected like i guess he'll always be in my heart since he was the first even though we probably never will speak again..
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  • Okay so I have sex with this girl she loves it I think it sucks first time second time third time and I'm wondering why I have not seen the fireworks I'm so pissed off because I'm going to hell first of all because I started masturbating didn't know I work my way up to sex three times and I watched on The Love Boat is supposed to see fireworks when you have sex it didn't happen I was so disappointed.
    Called me up controlled me your mama's going to be gone all day hurry up and come over for a week and a half I got to think about it and I said I'm going to do a completely different this time
    Well we started and believe me at the very end I saw fireworks LOL she said she saw fireworks again LOL but I learned that day there was very cool
    As for her I'll always remember because she was 3 years older than me and in college I think it would be a lot more fun if I wouldn't have been so focused on why I didn't see fireworks as I got older I and had better way better experiences and connections

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not at all. I lost my virginity to a 15 year old when I was 16. We were boyfriend and girlfriend for several months after that. She was a nice girl and she was cute, and I was infatuated at the time. But I eventually moved on.
    Sometime later, she and one of my best friends married and had a couple of girls. I used to go their house and visit but they moved.
    Many years later I heard that they had gotten divorced. Then one day I called to talk to a mutual friend, the guy is a very close friend who came down with Parkinsons. I just called to chat. And my first girlfriend happened to be there visiting him and his wife. I spoke to her. Later, we connected on Facebook. She's a nice lady. But I don't have any connection to her other than friendship and fond memories.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes but not because of the sex, it’s because he was a good person. We complimented each other very well for that stage of my life. We was a genuine good person and that’s the reason I chose to date him and have him be my first.

  • Well he's now my husband so yeah definitely feeling attached to him

    • I wasn't married to him, dating or anything no relationship it was a one time thing but that's lovely.

    • aww this is so cute :) <3

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  • He was special, yes.
    But not just because of that. I would have remembered him anyway. He was a great man. (And that's why I chose him to be the first.)

    • Whatever became of him

    • He’s married, a teacher, looks healthy. We never saw each other after that though; which is fine, some things are long in the past.

  • We are still friends and on rare occasions we have seen each other.

  • Honestly, I don't.
    Not in any kind of romantic or emotional way, in any case.
    I haven't really thought about her since the end of junior high.
    Sexually- yeah, I remember it at a lot, you will only have one first time experience, so it is easy to remember.

    Damn.
    Now I got tempted to look her up on Facebook, and she seems to be single, in shape and looks the way I remember her.
    I'm totally going to text her if she wants to reenact our junior high romance, lol.

  • No. I don't even remember the girl's name. She was a 5'6" medium-skinny-ish redhead though. And her apartment had a gray cat. And it was raining after I did the deed and left the apartment (just like in GTA V).

    • "just like in GTA V" LOL

    • We have ourselves a gamer score with some chick

  • Still waiting for Mrs. Right to have my first time with specifically so I'll be attached to her and care about her and be able to share it with someone I love and hopefully vice versa. Hopefully she'll like that and my fear that I perhaps made a mistake and missed out on my younger years will disappear. Especially since I don't think it'll happen before I'm 27 maybe 28 if I'm lucky.
    If I'm really unlucky... I spend my life waiting for someone who never comes.

  • Only cause he is my first love. If he hadn't been probably not.

  • We are still very good friends, so there's quite the connection.

    But I have to say that the first time thing... is not a thing in my mind nor hers.

    Our bond is over the fact that we grew up together and reached a very good place together, as people, and not that we once got jiggy with it for a first time, lol.

    But also, I am way older than you, so that must be part of it as well, been long in the past for quite some time.

  • YES!!
    I married that crazy bitch and I will always ! ove her.
    It sucks to be so attached to the devil.

    • Omg! Wow im really sorry.. That's kind of why i didn't wanna wait till marriage because you feel more binded to them, a relationship or hook up you can just leave easier and move past it.

    • Yeah, I really got attached to her. It's hurts bad to not have her anymore. Falling in love with your first partner is a very impactfull experience.

  • Yes, we married

  • Not really. Occasionally I wonder how she's doing. I don't think it's good.

    • Well that's her fault for not being with you

  • Absolutely. But I also dated the man I lost my virginity to for nearly a year. Still, I felt some sort of connection to him after the first time we had sex. It's was a very vulnerable, special thing for me and I think I'll always feel some level of connection to him

  • Yes.

  • Not at all. Before I got on this site I haven't thought of her in many years.

  • Yes, it's a special memory I will never forget.

  • Not exactly but yes first sex is first sex you can't forget it

    • My first one was German blonde and blue-eyed girl who had a nice bust she went to marry a scumbag

  • YES because you give yourself too them your secret treasure

  • Well... I had it with my wife... So that speaks

    For u... I can definitely say u feel a connection with him... Considering the questions you've put up here

    If I remember, he said "we can talk"

    So may be you can...

  • Sex can be a huge bonding experience.
    You'll get past it.

  • I didn’t “lose” my virginity to him, I willingly gave it to him. Yes, I am still attracted and connected to him. It’s a good thing, since I married him.

  • not at all. i mean sure i remember it and i always will.

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