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Does it bother you to know someone is jerking off to pictures or mental images of you or imagines having sex with you?

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  • I don't know what option I should choose.

    I've sexted so much while still underage that looking back, I feel horrible because I know that some of those men were pedophiles (I always told people my age when they requested to see me naked).
    My ex probably shared my nude pictures with his friends. One of his friends saw a picture of my boobs (I was 16 at the time) in his camera roll, that was already really uncomfortable for me.

    Sexting as a teen ruined being able to share sexy pictures in my strong, healthy, committed relationship now.

    I don't want to feel bothered by the fact that there's probably someone out there right now jerking off to my pictures or videos, but my boyfriend reminds me of that fact rather often, so yeah, sometimes, it bothers me a lot.

    I had a really good online friend that I masturbated with a few times, that's the only good memory I have from about 5 years of online sex.

    I don't care if he still jerks off to mental images of me, I care a lot about him still, despite not having had contact in more than a year.

    The fact that my body has changed a lot gives me a lot of closure and hope for the future that I won't put pictures of myself out there for everyone to see anymore.
    I feel remorse and shame over what I did.

    This was all over the place, I hope it made sense somehow.

    • Really curious why one pink user disliked this

    • I do not understand why you are so bothered. First, a pedophile is someone who is attracted to prepubescent individuals. The time in your life you are talking about was when you were well beyond prepubescent. Since you were sexting you enjoyed exhibiting yourself at an age when you should not have been putting those pictures out there. It was enjoyable for both of you. You apparently shared with strangers from the way you say you told askers your age. You put them out there. You should not have. But why let it bother you now. And with the number of people seeing you nude or close to it, why let a friend of an ex seeing your boobs bother you? The only problem I see now is that it is ruining you being able to share sexy pictures in your relationship now. That is partially due to your attitude, and partially due to your boyfriend reminding you often of your past. That is your past and he should not be punishing you for it now. If I was your age and in a relationship with a girl who had a similar past, I would discuss it to learn more about it, then let it go and only support her. I would not be bothered that some guys were likely masturbating to her images. I would be secure in the relationship we have and do what I could to ensure she not feel guilty as you are doing. Your feelings are yours and you are entitled to them, but I do not see anything to feel guilty about at this point, nor do I see reason to be bothered by knowing guys are enjoying your images. I hope you can accept where things are now, and I hope you can get your boyfriend to stop punishing you with guilt trips, or find a guy who won't do that. Wishing you happiness in being free from feeling guilty.

  • Being used for someone else's sexual gain without my consent makes me feel objectified and disgusted. Knowing the type of pictures people have access to of me, it's pretty disturbing to think that someone would use them for a sexual purpose.

    • How are you even being used? You're not being used in this situation at all!

    • and it's probably only disturbing to you because you don't like sex

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not really. I don't own their mind. Lol

  • I mean... ew? I can't really control what they do if they get my picture but at least twice they actually asked me directly if they could, even after already having my photo. Just... dont tell me if you are going to do it.

  • It does a bit, it did more before, but i care less n less

  • I suspect at least some people see me decapitated, dismembered, eyeballs gouged out, brains spilling out of my head. I do not mind. I still have my head, and my arms, legs, so far.

  • I mean there's nothing you can really do to stop them, right,? Lolol

    • She might as well give them a “ HAND “!!! 🖐🏻 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @JamieLoves disgusting, no. Get mental help

    • @ebbyeb LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Makes me happy

  • No. People can think what they like. I don’t wish to hear about it tho ☺️

  • if its someone i dont know or am on friendly terms with yes. if its someone im interested in romantically or sexually no i dont mind

  • I suppose not. I mean there is lots of other ways to do that
    but I guess if it happens cool whatever lol

    • At your age, do not put pictures like that out there. Then you will not have to worry about what if it happens.

  • Don’t have a choice and out of my control how they think.
    don’t really care.

  • Why should I care? Seriously, why does that bother you?
    What if you knew that your best guy friend, was just loving the tight, tiny shorts, that your girlfriend was wearing, and he went home, IN PRIVATE, and got off, thinking about her?
    You would NEVER KNOW, unless he said! Did it hurt her, or you, for this thing you didn't know about?
    Maybe you should wrap her up in layers of clothing, and hide her, so no guy sees her, and that way, they wouldn't think, and masturbate, thinking about her!
    Or, will they think more, and imagine more, because she is totally covered?
    Any woman, that KNOWS she is an EQUAL, is going to laugh at you, expecting her to cover herself, because of your sad, jealous BULLSHIT!

  • I starred in a few porn clips in an australian site when I lived down under.
    I would have never done them if I had any of these issues. But I don't long for it either, I just don't care.

  • I'd actually love it if I found out a female or females were masturbating to me. I'd feel flattered! I'd feel attractive and sexually desired. Who wouldn't want to feel that way?

    • I feel the same way. I watched my brother jack of to pics of me and my friends and came in my panties and put them back in my dresser. After he left my roo. I put them. They still moist. Hell I've done the same thing.

  • It hasn't bothered me, no... it's been intriguing.

  • No, it's actually quite flattering, especially if it's a decent looking girl.

  • Isn't "no" the same as "don't care" ? I think that would be cool.

    • No in this case implies approval or liking it

  • It creeps me out a little.

  • I doubt anyone is imagining me while jerking it, but if they are, I don't care as long as I don't know about it

  • No, makes no difference to me

  • I think it would be hot, especially at my age.

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