Girls, a guy is only turned on by your abs rather than butt/boobs. What would you think?

[Anonymous]

This question is in the context of sexual contact with a guy you are at the very least mildly physically attracted to.

[SueShe]

I would think that this guy is one more fine example of a very superficial person that emphasizes on the looks of another person rather than on the really important aspects of that human being. Those important attributes would be the character, intellect and personality.

But, regardless whether this guy is attracted by the abs or the bum or the breasts, it shows that this person is not the right guy for me since he effectively demonstrated that the looks are more important to him than the rest.

Looks fade with time while personality stays a lifelong.

[Asker]

You can make this statement all you like but acting as if people do not have sexual preferences is absurd. Moreover, Assuming that that was the only factor in the man and woman being together is even more absurd. Without a doubt, the first thing most people notice is looks; I doubt you'd approach an elderly man in and get to know him with the intention of finding a partner. It also seems you think looks cannot come with personality. This is clearly another assumption possibly stemming from your own experiences. If you genuinely want to answer, I'll rephrase the question: Assuming personality along with intellect and other descriptions of oneself are how the man like them to be (because all of these play a role in finding a partner, including looks), and the man proceeded to date this woman which would be you in the hypothetical, and sexual intercourse came at some point, how would you react to his preference?

[Asker]

Just to add to what I said, I don't understand what could possibly be the underlying purpose of deliberately finding a partner that is the opposite sex if not for reproduction (or at least sex), although that is not the extent of the benefits as you have stated. If you were just looking for a friend, it should not matter whether they are male or female unless you are looking for the inherent characteristics that that gender has to offer. Just to remind you, any man that thinks about what would be an ideal partner would take into account other values, even though the underlying purpose is finding a sexual partner. If there is an alternative purpose I would ike to know.

[SueShe]

I will give you answer "D"

[Anonymous]

Sounds like the girl would be dating a closeted gay dude.

[Asker]

Out of curiosity, I'd like to know your preferences in the looks of a woman, I'm guessing you think abs are only for men and it seems like the girl is stronger than you or something. Which isn't a surprising view ifor someone who is the average male where strength of the woman can be a deciding factor (not implying you are an average male because I don't know).

[Avicenna]

I doubt that most women would mind

[Asker]

How have you come to this conclusion?

[Iron_Man]

They won’t like it

[Asker]

How have you concluded this? Is this from your own experience or just a hunch?

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like it and I’ve been here for a very long time on the site and most guys don’t like a womens stomach looking like a man that ripped