Would you continue dating someone who does not want to partake in oral sexxx?

DizzyDesii Editor

Lol that used to be my motto in HS. I didn't wanna suck shiiit but that view certainly changed with my college boyfriend’s diiick 😂 If the tootsie pop looks appealing enough, you can't help but drop to ya knees and give it 50 licks 🤣
#FeelFreeToList #ItsGoinDown

Would you continue dating someone who does not want to partake in oral sexxx?

Yes I’d still date them

Vote A

Would you continue dating someone who does not want to partake in oral sexxx?

No I would not continue dating them

Vote B

Would you continue dating someone who does not want to partake in oral sexxx?

I also dont want to give/receive

Vote C

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Updates:

+1 y

Remember in this case, your partner does not want to give nor receive, regardless of if you're married to them

+1 y

I love to give too much to ever give it up 😍🤤 My mom and grandma do not believe in it and find it disgusting/degrading. They always said “its unsanitary, we pee from there.” My dad is obsessed with oral. #1 because my mom shared those deets 🤮 #2 because my dad went down on his wife while sharing a hotel room with his “sleeping” children. So yea my mom let my dad give but she didn't care to receive it and she refused to ever give. My mindset changed at 22

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lilyanony1 Yoda
+1 y
I dated my ex for a significant period of time and he was the first guy to go down on me. At that point he did it as a treat on valentines day. We engaged in the 69.
After that point I found him to be really weird. Maybe it was because I dated and slept with other men when we split. But I found he just didn't want to do it.
Then I met a guy and omg not only did he fulfill all my walls I mean desires he also gave the best oral sex ever.
It's a shame he was cheating on his girlfriend. (yeah I was just as shocked when I found out, you know what they say, when somethings too good to be true)

Anyways that guy and I tried again, and although he asked and I happily gave him oral I found myself begging. And when he did it was just really lack lustre.
And he knew it.
And it was the starting point of me seeing all the flaws in our relationship.
He was just a pretty face. He offered nothing to my life.
Infact what he did do was show me that I couldn't stay with someone not interested in even trying to improve things even with positive reinforcement.
Everything was his way. Ugh!

Don't do it girls, you're missing out.
It doesn't smell, it's not weird. It's the most intimate act between two people and can be the most mind blowing if done right.
If you need have his freshen up after otherwise it's quite OK to kiss yourself off his lips. Whatever floats your boat.

He gets his, you gotta get yours and more so if you give oral.

😁
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nevernevernever Xper 5
+1 y
I said that I wouldn't want to date them. I'm all for waiting until one person or the other is comfortable to do anything, but if they really just never wanted to do something as basic as oral when we started to do more sexual stuff we're probably not sexually compatible and staying together would be bad in the long run
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Lmao oral isn't basic 😂 took a long time before i gave into it
- nevernevernever
  +1 y
  well to me it is, which is why I'd say someone who wouldn't want to do it probably wouldn't be sexually compatible. It wasn't intended to be a judgement on someone who doesn't do it, that's definitely a personal preference

Most Helpful Guys

Finchie40 Master
+1 y
It would definitely be a turn off that they didn’t want to please you, considering I love giving oral to a girl that I really like and want to please her so by her not wanting to partake in giving me oral I would feel she wasn’t really into me , unless she could convince me that she never gave oral to any of her ex boyfriends , and it’s something she never had any desire to do , so then that would be ok but still leave question marks , cuz if i
Found out she did it to her exes and not with me then I would be turned off thinking I wasn’t good enough for her and that I was just a convenience to her , so yes I would probably dump her cuz in a way it’s an insult , When someone is really into you like you are to them there shouldn’t be any barriers , people that hold barriers are usually selfish people any only care about themselves and just use You for their convenience , and are the type of people that will use sex as a weapon to gain and get their way , So those are the types I kick to the curb and realize hey are a waste of time , cuz there are better people out there that want to please their partner and make them feel valued and wanted like they want to feel. So never settle for someone that doesn’t make you feel wanted , After my ex I met a girl that rocked my world , she treated me like gold and probably the best sex I ever had Cuz she valued me and wanted me Until her husband knocked on my door
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  You should be treated like gold by every partner
- Finchie40
  +1 y
  Are you saying I should be or just in general? Either way I agree 😋
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Youuu
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- Finchie40
  +1 y
  Well thank you for the compliment 😘 I just treat a girl The same way I want to be treated , I am far From perfect but when it comes to a relationship I value her like I would want her To value me , I always say removing selfishness is a big part of making Love grow between 2 people, And sadly that’s hard for a lot of people to do. And those people wonder why they don’t have long lasting relationships. Choosing to commit to each other takes sacrificing things , removing temptations , not making decisions without including your partner , Wearing each other’s shoes is what makes love grow , If a partner can’t do that for you then you they don’t deserve you , we aren’t always going to like some things a partner does and vice versa as long as you both agree to compromise with each other , without trying to force them to do what you want them to do , when someone isn’t willing to compromise then they are selfish period only really thinking of themselves. Love can’t be forced it can only be guided , if a partner chooses to walk away then let them go , you should never feel forced to be with someone , you should Feel valued and wanted the same way they want to feel , Not treated like a convenience
cheapshotbob Guru
+1 y
i would for the simple fact i love the taste of a woman vagina , why deny myself that pleasure? you would be dumb to force yourself to not be with a girl who tastes good.
XD
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  😂😂😂

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What Girls & Guys Said

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SunnySonia Xper 6
+1 y
It got wrongly selected as done wasn't to give/ receive.

Well, my wife loves to suck mine.. especially after I got circumcised.. May be she felt the same way as you did when your heart changed for it
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Yea i love the look of a circ dick
- SunnySonia
  +1 y
  Is it because it is dry and hence no precum comes to mouth?
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  My circumsized exes precame a lot. I love precum
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- SunnySonia
  +1 y
  Even I loved my precum taste.. but now I hardly precum
- SunnySonia
  +1 y
  Do you feel precum taste is better than cum? Or is it more about the texture that makes precum taste better?
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Yes i prefer precum taste
loves2learn Master
+1 y
I feel bad for people who don’t like oral sex. They must have had bad oral sex? I get that. I had to navigate my hypersensitivity. I hope they are able to try it again because it’s really a great way to warm up for sex.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Its not that i dont like it but i just love to give instead
- loves2learn
  +1 y
  Give and receive! Happiness abounds! 🥰
hannah7 Xper 5
+1 y
No, might hook up with them a few times but never would date them.
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PeytonVB Xper 7
+1 y
I don't know tbh lolll probably not?
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ohshee Master
+1 y
As long as she doesn't mind receiving I could care less because I want my dick inside of her pleasing her not her pleasing me so it's not that big of a deal to me
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Oh i see
- ohshee
  +1 y
  Did you really , I had my eyes closed what happen? 😊
spartan55 Master
+1 y
Fuck no way.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Lmao
- spartan55
  +1 y
  Re: your update... I'm already gone at this point, but won't even receive? Double fuck no way!
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  😂😂😂
Hyped_up_on_coffee Master
+1 y
I wouldn’t ever want to date anyone who doesn’t reciprocate. Not to mention that I’ve had a sore throat before because of said activities. So as a woman it would be a matter of... “you know I think I prefer my vibrator”
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TheCunningLinguist Explorer
+1 y
I have a seriously oral fixation so, as long as I could eat, I'd be good. Though, I would be aware that she was selfish in nature and probably not a long term partner.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  In this case she doesnr wanna give nor receive
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  Then I would be out.
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Lmao your username
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- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  Yes ma'am! Lol. By my answer, it should prove accurate.
CaliDad Xper 3
+1 y
If she doesn't like receiving oral, it's probably a deal breaker. I don't care so much if she gives it. I just enjoy giving too much to go without...
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Haha i dont blame ya
electromagnetic Guru
+1 y
I’m trying to eat eggplant.
0 1 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Lmao
- NoManTwo
  +1 y
  Is it purple?
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  @NoManTwo after all the blood rushes to it 🤣
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- NoManTwo
  +1 y
  Lol!
raven6933 Xper 5
+1 y
I love giving and receiving. Especially if she puts as much enthusiasm into it as I do. However if it looks like planet of the apes. Count me out. If one hair gets in my mouth they'll be lucky if I don't upchuck on her. Once the mood is gone it's gone. Came close once and got up and went home.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Lmao i feel u! I prefer the guy and i both be bare
- raven6933
  +1 y
  You're a keeper😁🤣🤣🤣
melanieeeB Editor
+1 y
Yeah I would cause for me oralsex isn't that important, I rather have him in me you know lol
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Yea i dont care to receive and def prefer to be penetrated. But man i love to suck sumn 😂
- melanieeeB
  +1 y
  Giirl😂😂😂 well you do you
Jjpayne Editor
+1 y
Yes. While it's something that takes away from intimacy, if I really had to, I could work around it. Especially if they were perfect otherwise
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Aww okay :)
Hans222 Master
+1 y
Absolutely, I would even find it a turn-off if someone would absolutely want oral sex. Really not my thing ☹🙈
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I understand
Purplemonkey242 Xper 6
+1 y
No way lol oral is huge for me giving and receiving. But I dont give if I never receive
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I love to give
Joey_007 Xper 5
+1 y
nah, I don't have a problem with it but this does bring up the question how are you still so keen on making out if you know your dude just paid a visit to your kitten?
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I like to taste myself off his lips... just my juices though. Not like the actual cum
- Joey_007
  +1 y
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
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- Joey_007
  +1 y
  
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I make sure whoever i date is the cook
- Joey_007
  +1 y
  
  uhh I think this is the wrong thread
Dargil Master
+1 y
It's weird. If she won't blow me, it's OK. There's other things she can do. But if I can't head south, no,
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  In this case she doesn't wanna give nor receive
- Dargil
  +1 y
  gone
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  😂😂😂
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- Dargil
  +1 y
  My way of showing sexual love. Is through cunnilingus. She feels loved.
- Dargil
  +1 y
  And I am very good at it. 100% orgasms.
- Dargil
  +1 y
  She is likely to dribble pee during cunnilingus. But the point is, it is totally sanitary in normal healthy people.
- Dargil
  +1 y
  And I don't care if she is lushly foliated like the Amazon rainforest.
Apope16 Editor
+1 y
Absolutely. THat is because I don't really like blow jobs that much.

However, I think it is very important to eat pussy for your lady. It is very important to give oral sex if they are into that.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Check update lol
- Apope16
  +1 y
  Uhm... shit... I would leave. Giving oral sex is very important to me. The only exception would be herpes. I have dated women with herpes and I dont want to get it so just in case I dont do oral.
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I get that herpes might be common but shit i wouldn't have still been dating them the moment i found out. I love usher but not that much
DJB72 Guru
+1 y
If I'm only in it for the sex it's doomed from the start.
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Thats true.
LemiaOfTheCodes Xper 7
+1 y
Sex isn't the big all to end all some people find oral sex disgusting. So yes I would.
0 0 0 0
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  I understand
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