Do you think there is a way out of this?

[Batkoo0]

I am a man, almost 30 years old now, only have been with one woman, who was my fiance, but she left me, because she found out that I like wearing panties, that I have thoughts and desires for men.. Now I was with three men and I love their bodies, their c*cks and I love s*cking their c*cks and also I love being f*cked by them.. I wear female undies everyday, thongs, panties, sometimes in the evenings I wear a full girl's outfit... I am happy when I am having sex with a man, but in some other moments in which I am now, I feel sad, I feel unhappy, I miss my ask, because I loved her.. My questions is do you think that I can stop wanting and desiring men and all of this and back to how I was before or I need to accept that this is my life now..

[DollAlone]

Instead of trying to label yourself or fit into some category, just do what makes you feel good and find other people who share your interests. As long as your not doing anything illegal or hurting anyone and are being upfront why should you have to stress about it or make a decision? Im sure there are plenty other people who are out there and share your desires you just gotta be upfront and find them

[menina]

Based on your previous questions I would say you're gay. You probably just like women in a friendly way. But if you like her in a romantic way, then you might be bi.
Just try being with another woman and see how it works. If it doesn't, then just embrace who you are and date men.

[Jesus_is_the_guey]

Seek therapy man and get some help if you really love her and want to be with her then get your mind right first

[JuliaStyles]

This is the 2nd time you have asked this question because someone I was following answered it yet their comment is not here in this one. Either that or you deleted them. You sound more like you are trolling multiple times with the same question.

[DaisyM23]

Well you can either move on because you’re clearly bisexual and love having sex with guys or you can unhealthily and unfairly repress this side of you because of the small chance she’ll take you back

[loves2learn]

I’m not selecting any of those answers. Don’t label it. Maybe you just love who you love. Be openminded don’t put yourself in a box.

[19magic]

The best thing would be a poly or a open relationship, both things can work

[Catlover1999]

If you prefer men then find a guy you like and you can still have a family and all that with him. I don’t see what the problem is. You keep going on about wanting a family but you can do that with another man but you’ll just have to have kids another just as asking a woman to be a surrogate mother or adopting children.

[Catlover1999]

Repressing those thoughts and desires doesn’t sound healthy.

[ct1243]

For you I wouldn’t label myself since a part of you still desires your ex. You could be bi since you like men and women

[UnlovedWife]

Yes there is a way out of this. Listen to the podcast Dear Baby Girl. It’s really helped me. Like they speak about different things to do and ask yourself.

[Hxxmx]

Stop labelling or trying to fit your sexuality into a category, rather you should focus on knowing more about yourself. Also if your ex is not comfortable with that you should work on getting over her fully.
While discovering yourself pay more attention to what makes you happy.

[GizemCaglar]

live the moment my friend, go after whoever you liked at that moment

[minx1114]

You shouldn't have to find a way out? It's okay to be the way you are. Someone that loves you will accept you for who you are. You could be gay and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that

[VanessaJahaniix]

Of course!


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