Do you experience a "point of no return" at which point nothing could stop you from orgasming?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

According to my experience, the difference between pleasant – happy sex and mind-blowing sex is just a matter of moments. For a man, sex is a nice, pleasant time or a fantastic, mind-altering experience. It all comes down to what happens during few minutes between the first feels an oncoming orgasm and the moment when he actually explodes. First comes the actual prospect of getting' some, which causes the male brain to signal the penis to get up and ready. Then, during the deed, excitement builds and the muscles in the perineum tighten. Soon, when the excitement becomes too much to bear — Boy, oh boy, semen is sent rocketing toward the urethra. Then comes the key moment, sex docs call it "the moment of ejaculatory inevitability. It is the point at which the voluntary act - having sex - switches to an involuntary one (ejaculation and orgasm). The amount of time between this point of no return and ejaculation is only a few seconds, usually. Girls too have a point of no return like men, but it is not quite the same. Those last few seconds of sex are worth 100 days of all other things. For me, during penetrative sex, girl on top position and leaning forward over-stimulate the clitoris and lead to a clitoral orgasm. This is the first step. Then from my and his movements, he hits G-spot and civics and get harder to finish. At these moments I receive intense and prolonged vaginal and clitoral stimulation and then turn them into meaningful and empowering states of whole-body orgasm. It is like having the best of both worlds. For whatever reason, the female orgasm seems to have taken on an almost mythical quality in our society. It can seem mysterious, unattainable, or stressful, but it is not, it is really just simple biology. When it happens, your brain releases the feel-good chemicals dopamine and oxytocin, the result is you get a mental and physical release, and you feel the urge to cuddle. Most of us expect them to be mind-blowing, out-of-body experiences. Sex should never be stressful. A great sexual experience comes from being with a sensitive partner that you care about, and it always end with a big “O.” If you do not know what you are doing, you can ruin an orgasm completely by stopping doing the right thing at the wrong time. One of women’s gifts over men in this field is a much smaller refractory period. So, if her man screws up a woman’s orgasm by stopping at the wrong time, before she wanted them to, she will not have to wait too long before her man can start again. This might mean that you just had a peak orgasm and lost your sexual energy.

just_a_potato · Accepted Answer

Crazy story. I once rubbed one out and after I finished it wasn't very big but I got the job done. I got up and walked like 5 steps outside my room before having the biggest orgasm right there in the hallway, I moaned pretty loud too. It's a weird day when you have to tell your sister a lie to cover up the fact that you came on yourself in the middle of the house lol.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Yes it's so weird how how many different levels of orgasms there are. And there are so many different levels I'm getting there and reaching that Peak.
And for me making Love Fucking, having sex , This is what it is all about., going beyond, the norm orgasm, to take her right there but don't let her cum yet , using your body, your touch your voice to take that fine line higher and higher until every part of your body your energy start sparking in side your going to melt down and you know when it time pull her in so close and tight call her every name in the book as you pound her so deep with force and a pounding and the same time making it so she can't move , in til you are ready , that's when everything gets side ways and all you know is everything went quiet and as you're starting to come out of it all you feel is your muscles the whole body just being forced into her she just has her hands dug so deep into you trying to move her hips even faster and deeper and that's when you get your second wind and you keep going and keep going and keep going and then next thing you know you're right there again and she's going through convulsions and she can't stop coming this is my second time around and when it's done right I can do it three times this will be her third to fifth time and when it goes from noisy to silent to just the loudest moans and fuck me I've ever heard and you just and you keep just pounding it till you have nothing left until she's flopping around like a rag doll that's when you roll up everything goes quiet again anywhere from 20 minutes to 45 minutes if you're in a Out of Body Experience until all of a sudden you feel something touching your shoulder you can't see what it is you don't even know where you're at you're trying to open your eyes, and all of a sudden you sit up and you realized it was the bed that was touching your shoulder you just got done fucking and having the best sex ever you lay back down on the bed and say oh my God that was so good and you feel so refreshing still alive but yes when you're in those moments there is no stopping

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Unquestionably. In fact, my girlfriend routinely tells me that I am controlled by my penis. Given that data, it is undoubtedly true that there is a point of no return.

Actually, in biological terms, it is true, too. The human male briefly loses control of his body at the point of orgasm. The muscle contractions, the "pumping" action that leads to ejaculation - all that is unstoppable at a certain point for a man. It is brief, but real.

As to the feelings, all I can say is that I probably conceived one of my children by trying to employ the "pull out method" of birth control. Neat idea - couldn't do it. Once I am thrusting back and forth and pumping really hard I just can't stop. It is like you get tunnel vision and nothing else matters but releasing my sperm.

When I get to that moment, it is unstoppable and I am unstoppable. Call it evolutionary biology at work. The male is programmed to reproduce - and by golly!! reproduce he will!!!

Grant, you have to get to that moment in time. It requires a few preliminary steps, so to speak. However, once I'm there - believe me!!! - I'm there!!

bzcxx · Answer

yes always, once I get to that point, I either orgasm or lose it. I feel like this is a very common encounter for me but only during sex/oral or sex toys (fleshlight/autoblow). I don't really experience this through masturbation with hand.

Knighted2170 · Answer

It really depends on the person I'm with. There have only been a few I have been with where the connection we had was intense enough that we experienced sex without actually having it. When we did have it our "point of no return" was soul shaking.

That only happens when though when sex is a place you go in your mind, and not something you just do. When you just do it the orgasms are okay at best, or just "meh."

Siren777 · Answer

I should be completely knackered to experience that, in that case challenges are accepted as I am always energized it's rare when I run out of energy😅

purplepoppy · Answer

Lots of rapists use that excuse

katiesmuff · Answer

There absolutely is a point of no return, however if the stimulation stops it ruins the orgasm making it quick and dull

loves2learn · Answer

I’ve never experienced stopping an orgasm in progress. 🤔

hannah7 · Answer

Yes, but I won't cum really hard unless everything continues the right way.

weysally · Answer

if I get to the point where my body starts to vibrate, regardless of anything I will have an orgasm,

altgirl14 · Answer

Happened a few times lol

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah you get to a point where it’s not a when it’s a now.

no matter how many old women with wrinkled chapped boobs you think of, you are cumming.

worst time was with an ex and I was at that moment just as her sister pretty much kicked the bedroom door in and started arguing with her sister (my then girlfriend).

well I was in full commit mode, the train was arriving at the station and nothing was going to stop it.

I definitely won that cum race.

also learned that it’s apparently hard arguing with someone, when you have cum running down your leg...

Ditto626 · Answer

While I'm masturbatong I like to edge myself as long as I can to enjoy the experience and to train myself to last longer. But after a while I get so worked up that no matter how hard I try to hold it in I will shoot large amounts of cum or precum depending on how much control I have in the moment.

Sensmind · Answer

I think a mixture of A and C - It is mainly to do with when I recognise the point of no return and try to stop it - If it goes right, I let it happen and it is fairly close or as pleasurable - If it goes awry aka "A ruined orgasm" , it can lessen the pleasure especially when edging or using abstinence/edging to get a bigger orgasm further down the line. Especially for older men when recovery time is needed.

CaliDad · Answer

Love this question! I think the answer changes for each person, and how well they know their body. Yes, there is a point where ejaculation will happen no matter what, but that doesn't mean it was/is an orgasm. An attentive lover can bring you/me to that point and stop... prolonging the pleasure. For me, at least, an ejaculation without an orgasm means I stay hard until the next ejaculation. Learning to take advantage of this means you/I can keep going for a long time... which for my partner means she can have more orgasms before I need recovery. But, just the right touch or kiss or movement can set off a weak orgasm that makes staying hard more difficult. On the other hand, watching my partner try to not orgasm and pushing her beyond her limits where she can't stop is kinda amazing...

Leavesbound · Answer

Yes when I get to a certain point there is absolutely no going back.

VanityFair888 · Answer

There's a point at which if stimulation stops, I still orgasm, but it happens rarely

BlacklightShade · Answer

If stimulation stops after the point of no return the orgasm gets ruined.

EmmaMary · Answer

Once I hit the point of No Return, there is No Stopping or Going Back!

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I had a an injury that made things difficult to maintain these kind of pleasure. So if the stimulation stops I won't orgasm.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Guys normally reach a point at which, they will orgasm, even if the sex stops.

Natwiththemoon · Answer

Yeah that happens sometimes

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