Is wrestling with a person of the opposite gender, sexual?

If you're about the same age as the guy and you're rolling around on the floor wrestling and whatnot, is that sexual or playful? Can it mean nothing?
Yes it's sexual
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No it's not sexual
Vote B
Other: explanation please!
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I just want to see the answers
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  • I chose "Other".

    Because, it totally depends on the way you see the person.

    I mean, I could play-wrestle with my sister and neither of us would think it is sexual.

    (I know you don't mean a family member, but I had to give an example.)

    I could also play-wrestle with my best friend (who is a female) and would probably not (I can't really be sure because I never tried it before) feel that it's "sexual".

    However, if I'm play-wrestling with my girlfriend, well, that is sexual. I don't think anyone will pick B.

    (Now I checked the answers, and turns out I'm wrong. 1 person did pick B.)

    • so what if it's your best friend who formerly liked you several years ago?

    • Hmm... If she liked me and I didn't really like her back, then I *probably* (I really don't know for sure) would think it isn't sexual

    • hmm OK that helps. boys boys boys.. haha

  • It depends.. There could be sexual overtones to the wrestling. If he likes you then he might think there was a sexual thing going on. The fact that your wondering shows that somewhere within that psyche, you know that this is a possibility with you or him.

    • oh, we used to like each other... it was kind of an intense event then. This is actually a really old question!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say it's not usually intended to be sexual on the girl's part, but often it turns such. I mean, how can you escape it when you're pressed up against each other?

    • @Megalizmo21 All depends on who is winning! lol

    • @AndrewMG haha... well that's when, if a guy if winning, a girl can use some tactics to her advantage 😉

    • @Megalizmo21 Haha I guess it's best you take those tactics to yourself! lol

  • Depends on who the guy is! If you like him or think he's pretty hot then yeah it could be sexual! If it's your gay friend then no!

    • hmm what if you're mad at him and you're just trying to take out all of your anger haha. like, you used to like him and then you stopped... but you had to get that one bit of anger out... haha

    • Well for the thought to cross your mind suggests that it was sexual! Sexual violence!

    • yeah. idk. hahaha. that's hilarious. I'm even really sure if I know what that was! I think he felt the same way too though? I have no idea what he was thinking! I'm even sure if I knew what I was thinking. I think we were just playing like little kids. I was wayy too scared to hurt him, but he was definitely not gentle with me haha. it was totally on accident though. he apologized and felt bad for weeks when he saw my battlewounds.

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  • Depends on the context; if she's an Olympic wrestler training seriously, it isn't. I knew a girl wrestler who took great pride in wrestling like a man. (Her school district wrestled by weight class, with no separation by gender.)

    Any guy who thought he saw a sexual context got swiftly and brutally corrected, and she had no problem taking a forfeit from a guy who refused to wrestler. Her words, I recall: "Cowards deserve to lose."

    • hmm okay. thanks for that! that's cool that your friend did that!

  • yes it is to some extent unless you knee him in the groin

    • oh haha. yeah no. I would never want to do that! that's so mean!

    • hey if its by accident it still will have the same effect :p

    • haha I'll think about it?

  • It can be, but it depends.

    • On whether or not the two people like each other?

    • Well if at least one person perceives it as sexual, really.

    • haha hm. Well. We used to like each other. Oh well.

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  • Kinda sorta maybe yeah

  • it isn't, but the contact makes it feel like it is.

    so that kinda makes it so.

    i'd rather not wrestle a girl cause I might get hard and scare her even tho I won't really be turned on. its just my body's reaction.

    • huh. okay, that's good. my best friend and I have quite the history. he liked me, I dumped him. I liked him, he dumped me. oddly enough, we've never kissed, but we have talked about how great it would be. we wrestled several months ago and I came home with a few battle wounds. he felt reallllly bad. I wasn't sure what he was thinking, but he was SO not gentle. I wasn't sure if it was like, a sexual tension thing or just for fun? he said he'd give me a massage to make up for all my bruises.

    • why were you wrestling all angrily?

    • haha idk, I think I was frustrated that he always said I could never beat him up ha ha so I wanted to attempt to prove it... but don't worry, as we were wrestling I realized I could never hurt him. I ended up losing so badly! and I had a bruise for WEEKS. I don't know if he was trying to be all angry or not... I think he just treated me like any other guy friend he wrestles with. I have no idea what was going through his mind.

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  • LMAO,,, last year i was in my last season of wrestling and there was this girl that i practiced with and damn ,,,, i got an erection lol she noticed and i apologized but yea it was pretty sexual enough to get me hard

    • hahaha yeah. Oh well. I didn't notice anything! I don't really remember though

  • Playful and sexual because it's always a turn on

    • Well it definitely was then... I think. He and I both had feelings for each other, but I don't know about now. It's a strange friendship. haha. This question is probably 4 years old! However, the problems with him and I are still somewhat current.

  • Yes it's sexual

  • I suppose some are in it for the wrestling, but I'm in it for the sexual thrills. One lady professional session wrestler was asked how she'd feel if one of her male clients got an erection during their session. She said if the guy's not getting hard she's not doing it right.
    I think I'm in the majority here.

  • There's a good chance I would get an erection

    • Well, he and I used to like each other. There has always been a lot of sexual tension between us. I don't know if there is anymore? I think this question might be like 4 years old! ha!

  • Nope but it's a great way to be subtle and let a female friend that you're very well endowed

    • haha ah, gotcha.

    • And how strong your your lower legs and other sex muscles are for pinning her legs over your shoulders and rocking her world LOL

    • ohhh wow... haha

  • it can.but there's as much meaning in it as you put in

    • hmmm I like that. I guess I just want to know what meaning he was putting into it

  • clearly it depends if there was any sexual tensions...

    • hahaha oh. how about, definitely sexual tension, but neither are interested in dating... haha.

    • so it's a yes then!

    • haha, do you think he thought that? or do you think he just thought we were playing around? I mean, he's like me, I've dumped him and I've liked him and he's dumped me, but we've never kissed! we're just ridiculous haha.

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