Who should take on the dominant role in the bedroom?

[princeofromance]

Should it be the man or the woman?

[Diaforos22]

This question only takes into account heterosexual relationships. So I'll stick with that and say that usually men find themselves playing the dominant role according to the stats however it depends on the dynamic and the personalities/temperaments of both partners involved. Some men like to be overpowered by a seductive woman in bed. Some women love to take charge and there are men that love that and similarly their are men who love to be dominant and the women who love that. With that all being said, there is no need to make sex a monotonous routine! You can switch it up with an equally interested switchy partner and there is nothing wrong with that. My point is, it depends on the desires of both. If you both want different things in bed, that just means you aren't sexually compatible. You can stick it out and compromise or just find someone else who is more compatible with you.

[DizzyDesii]

I prefer he is but i wanna be the dominant one during foreplay

[razelove]

Depends, there are women who are dominatrix, men who are doms, and both sexes who are asexual and looking for companionship. I don't know about should, but the vast majority of times I've taken the initiative, dominated, and taken the lead in areas outside the bedroom as well.

I mean, if you're a guy waiting on a woman to take the lead... you might be waiting a very long time, like until your wake.

[Aeon_Norell]

It can be either or both; taking turns or at the same time
I'm on the dominant side and I prefer dominant women. It makes for some interesting dynamics when both want to take charge and at times can result in some really great sexual play-fighting.

[thebestalt]

In nature, it's the man but we as humans have control over every aspect of our lives. If you choose to be dominant is your choice. If you choose to be submissive it's your choice. As long as you and others aren't being hurt then do as you please.

[OlderAndWiser]

It usually is the man, but if a woman wants to be dominant on occasions, that would be okay. For each couple, it should be whoever feels more confident in that role.

[ChrisMaster69]

Depends on the couple.

also depends on what you think you mean by Dominant

[Madhatter920]

Whomever is most comfortable with that role. It's even possible for neither to be dominant. In the privacy of your own bedroom, you play by your own rules.

[shy_guy_30]

It just depends on the dynamic.
Im not a naturally submissive person. But I am submissive around my girlfriend because that's just how our personalities click together.
If I tried to dominate her it would just feel fake, awkward and weird.

[someginger]

Either depends on the couple and what they enjoy.

[Natwiththemoon]

Its down to how the individuals feel

[slatyb]

There is no “should”. Every couple is different and the answer is whatever works for them. It helps a lot if they are able to talk about it openly.

[FlySwimmer]

Me and my girl switch up doing quirky stuff to one another, depends on the day :) we have both been tied up by the other and a lot of other quirky stuff, so really depends on the day for me :)

[JosyJosy]

Who ever wants to!

[tasleen]

The one who is dominant. Main point is nobody should act like

[mT2359]

Quite literally

[tasleen]

Yesss when we try to act no one enjoys

[mT2359]

Try kyun karna hai? do what comes naturally

[tasleen]

Yesss that's my point is

[mT2359]

Nowadays sexuality is very much porn driven

[tasleen]

I believe nowadays it's more about performance pressure rather than enjoying moments

[mT2359]

Performance pressure as per porn videos... everything depends on what sells in the market. No emotions.

[Kenneth14621]

Whatever you agree upon.

[Mgpretty23]

The man

[karaspara]

Down to the individuals involved there’s no right or wrong answer

[clampfan101]

It doesn’t have to be the same for every couple.
I personally want to take turns when I get there.

[Likes2drive]

Usually the man unless he is submissive

[WowwGirl]

Man.

[IHateBeingaMan]

its fun to switch it up

[mT2359]

Dominant role in what sense... dominant means enthusiastic or something else? And why can't both be dominant together? trying to satisfy each other...

[Nazgol]

The man