Do you think they would do the right thing?

Do you think a woman or man should leave their husband or wife if they kept it a secret from them that their underaged child were having sex with an old woman or a man, even if it was legal in their country and not forced?
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  • No. The woman should NOT leave the husband.

    Every family goes through tough times, and leaving the partner is not a solution. If your child is having sex with a much older woman, and your partner is hiding, then your primary concern will be
    1. understanding why your partner is hiding from you. Is he afraid of something? Did he want to make sure you don't know, because you might get hurt? Maybe there is a communication gap?
    2. understand why your child is getting caught up in that. understanding your child's emotion and needs is a big deal here.

    We have to remember, that a divorce always affects a child in the negative way, and you have to make sure that your child always receives the best of emotional support from both parents. Also, both the parents should talk to each other to ensure there is not communication gap between them, and they can create a happy family again.

    • Why only include the woman? You can turn it around the same way. This was an incredibly sexist post

    • Apologies for coming that way. I did not intend to make it sexist. Update: The above scenario applies for all gender, inclusive of every family type, (heterosexual or homosexual parents). It is important for both partners to have a clear communication between them, and work together to ensure their needs. Being in a happy healthy family is important.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • That's kind of tough. If it's legal in your country to have sex with a young person of a certain age then I don't think it's something to be mad about. If you're uncomfortable with the young person fooling around with and older adult I would have a talk with them and not start a fight with your significant other.

    I don't know how young the person is but in the United States the legal age that should be across the entire country is 18 but some states I believe it's 16 or 17. Adults shouldn't be going for teens but once a person is 18 I think they have the right to make the decision to sleep with whoever they want.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm not sure about the leaving part. But I would be very pissed if my partner was keeping such a big thing from me.

    • Yh its like defending a pedophile

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Having sex with a minor is wrong regardless 🤬

    • That's not what this question is asking though

    • And they would be really young, but legal in the scenario

    • I see I must have misread I'll reread the question thanks

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  • No, not a good reason for them to leave their partner but it is wrong to keep that as a secret though.

  • I can certainly see why someone would leave in that situation but for me personally I wouldn't consider that the right thing since at the end of the day it is the child's choice what they want to do even if you properly inform the child and give the child proper warnings. I just don't think it would be fair to leave someone because of a decision that their own child made because you and your significant other are not your child and vice versa.

  • No because the child will suffer more. You shouldn't leave because you should support the childs therapy, people think that abandoning a bad situation is a solution. Its really irrational because theyll never be responsible

  • I am having a hard time tracking you on this. So the couple have a child? And one of the couple slept with the kid? That person should be in jail. If I am wrong on how I interpreted it please let me know.

    • No, one of the couple would keep it a secret from the other parent that their young kid had sex with a much older woman or a man

    • And now I am asking if the parent who found out about the secret should divorce the parent who kept the secret

    • Do you understand?

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  • Whatever way they deal with dishonesty is fair. It doesn't matter if it's legal or even if they agree that's it fine, but that is a violation of trust and honesty.

  • Assuming their child and this older person consented to the sex, and it's not incest, then no, I don't see a problem with this.

  • That could be a valid reason to leave them, yes. I don't know if they should that comes down to individuals involved. Obviously lying/keeping secrets is a big issue, as well as could be if they disagree about something like age kids should have sex or what relationships are appropriate. But these issues could also possibly be worked out within the marriage so yeah I think it comes down to individual decision and circumstance.

  • I would divorce my wife if she was keeping secrets regardless of the legality of the secret itself.

    • So your answer is yes

  • Some countries allow this. Not in this one. "Underage" in most states use 16 as an emancipated child or an adult.

    • That doesn't answer the question

    • Again, you're asking a question without defining the parameters. Is the "underage child" under the age of consent? Were the forays into sex before they turned the age of consent? If those two are true then I would have to say yes. I would feel betrayed. If the child is of the age of consent but my spouse didn't tell me they were having sex with an older person, I would still feel betrayed when I found out, but as for me, anyone over the age of consent can fuck anyone they desire.

    • Yh over the age of consent. I mentioned it clearly if you read properly

  • Yes. I suppose it's oedipus complex or something reversed like that. It's pathological behavior.

  • I don’t think that they should straight out leave but there is some issues that need to be dealt with and I think that maybe they should try to get counseling.

  • Yes; I would leave my wife for that. That is a major deception and betrayal.

  • No need! Just try to not think about it, and don't keep doing it, if you can't handle it, or enjoy and don't care if he doesn't care

    • What are you talking about

    • Hmm sorry i mean, i will not leave my partner because of that! I'll tell her to not do that again and share everything about our kids together

  • No reason for them to leave... rather petty reason.

    • Why?

    • A simple lie is no. reason to abandon a relationship

    • It would be a big secret and very bad

  • From what I understand, it's only appropriate (Biblical) for a person to leave (divorce) their spouse when their spouse has had a sexual affair with somebody else

    • What if they not religious

    • It doesn't matter. The same thing holds true regardless. But I'm sure that the vast majority of people getting divorced will continue with their divorces for any reason that they deem appropriate

  • if it is "Legal" that means the child is "Not" underaged

    • But they would still be very young

    • I prefer women in their 30's... BUT, I am 70, so are they children?

    • I am talking about under 18

  • I think they are both adults mom should be able to full fill her desires how she wants

    • What are you talking about?

    • You asked if it's ok the mom is banging her son's friend

  • Yes keeping secrets mean lavk of trust

    • Okay

  • This days too many man and woman having sex with other people, without their partner know it..

    • Okay but this doesn't answer the question

    • What you want to know?

    • Answer the question

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