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Girls, what do you do if you've masturbated too often?

This is a more embarrasing question but I also didn't want to go anonymous. I've been masturbating at least from 3-4 times a day. But tonight I've experienced a throbbing pain in my, well you get it. I don't know how to make it stop because it only hurts when I try to get up or move. What do I do about this? Has this happened to any of you because I'm extremely embarrased.
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Thank you ladies for the responses, the pain is completely gone and i'll be more careful next time 😂
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  • Depends on how you masturbate. Clitoral with fingers, with vibrators, Vaginal with fingers, vibrators, dildos, g spot, anal? Each has its own "abuse" point.
    The clitoris can stand a good beating before it's worn out, but to be honest, if you give it a day or two, you can go back in the game.
    Vaginal, make sure your fingernails are not too long, there have been times I accidentally scratched my inner walls, and cut my vagina. It's itchy and it hurts peeing as a papercut would. So just be patient with that one depending on how deep is that cut. Vibrators/dildos hurt from overuse if you penetrate often without being wet, or go way too deep. You can bruise your vagina, that's a thing, so again just wait a couple of days before getting on that horse. (G-spot is the same here)
    Anal now, is trickier. You can rip or cut your skin a lot easier if you don't ease your sizing. Lube (water-based/ coconut oil) should be your best friend. If you're doing anal plugs, it's a good idea to masturbate vaginally and get your body warmed up before inserting a plug and make sure it's lubricated. Fingering will help you stretch your anus a bit and get used to the sensation. Material matters. Rubber and silicone plugs are softer on your anus than surgical steel, glass, or metal. So take into account that the harder the material, the more "warm-up" you need to do. If you use dildos, make sure it's lubed so you don't rip anything. If you do, just take a step back, smaller size, and start again in a day or two.

    LAST THING. something many women forget to account for. Is the natural moisture and ph levels of your vagina. A vagina is a sensitive organ, and if your ph balance becomes abnormal you can get an infection. That's completely normal. That DOESN'T means you have a virus or STD, it just means that you didn't pay attention to your moisture. It can happen just as easily as going to the beach and staying on your wet bathing suit for longer than you should.
    Make sure you wipe your vagina after orgasms and don't go straight to sleep with your wet panties on. Too much moisture might fuck up your ph levels, and you will feel very irritated, scratchy, and might hurt when you pee. Especially if you masturbate 3-4 times a day. DO NOT clean INSIDE your vagina with anything other than water. Chemicals, essential oils and etc. are toxic to your vagina. Just have a towel, wet it, and wipe your cum after orgasms, make sure you stay dry and healthy. Cotton panties are the best to keep moisture out.

    • Thank you for all the info

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  • Probably nothing to worry about tbh.

    You might have either scratched yourself, or over done it and it's sore from rubbing too much might be red and raw.

    Or just also from overusing it is probably sore.

    Like when you over use a muscle it gets throbbing and sore. It should be alright with a few days of not doing it.

    But after 3 or 4 days it's still an issue, you gotta see someone about it. No matter the embarrassment.

    Health is more important.

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  • Out yourself in bed rest and have someone you trust to help you out for a few days. But if you aren’t comfortable with that then you might want to go to the er

    • I'm feeling better than before, ER sounds a bit extreme and too embarrassing to go through honestly

    • Well you know what’s best for you ☺️

  • Take a break for a few days and use more lube / get more turned on when you do. Focus on the clit only until you recover. A good vibrator on the clit can give way more orgasms than your fingers or a dildo in the vag will.

  • Let it rest for a while hon. Give it a few days.

  • Give it a break. It’s a sensitive part so don’t masturbate and probably by couple days the pain will go away.

  • didn't know we could do it to much

  • Honey, you should have sex instead

  • The kitty is a sensitive part so let her rest for a week and then do it again

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