Does body positivity only apply to women?

[chris_987]

Cause girls aren’t very fond of fat dudes and small penis’s

[Varanus]

The body positivity movement has sorta been corrupted by morbidly obese women trying to pretend being fat isn't unhealthy.

I was down for the original goal, treating everyone with respect and not being shitty to people over traits they have no control over, but there's too much hypocrisy, thin-shaming, and false information for me now.

That said, your personality is by far the most important trait to whether or not women find you attractive. If you project confidence, are going somewhere in life, dress well, and maintain good hygiene, you're way ahead of most. Despite your fears, it's pretty damn rare for the size of your penis to be the deciding factor in whether or not somebody is into you. That's not nearly as important as guys seem to think it is. But getting in shape can certainly help, both in appearance and in self-confidence.

[chris_987]

There are many fat girls who aren’t confident but men are told to love them, so how can you say women only care are about confidence? At this point we can’t tell men to be confident if were are not gonna tell girls to be confident, and that why these movements always fail because we want to treat men and a certain way and treat women the complete opposite and they call it equal. It would massively unfair to tell guys women only care about how confident you are and tell girls a guy has to love you no matter what. But that’s just my opinion

[Varanus]

I never said women "only" care about confidence, just that it matters. And please stop pretending life is supposed to be fair. It's not. There are tons of entirely unfair things that happen to women and tons of entirely unfair things that happen to men. You are not obligated to like or love anyone else, and they are not obligated to like or love you. All we can do is accept what we have in life and work toward making ourselves better. We don't get to control how others feel, only influence it through our actions.

[chris_987]

Well last time I checked men aren’t going over to things girl love like cosmo and vogue and putting fat men and telling girls to stop body shaming men having small dicks, but women are going on to sport illustrated and other men’s magazines and putting plus size models on the cover. Even movies now are being taking over by a feminist agendas, telling men that women are better and girl power. But no men are recreating the notebook” or the “twilight” series and telling girls that the way they view men is problematic. So it’s seem like this world is pretty fair when it come to women telling men what where allowed to like, but when men say something we get cancelled or called misogynistic. All I’m saying is the two sexes should leave each other alone because we don’t know what it’s like to be each other.