Do women who express their ravishment fantasy hurt the Me Too movement?

A ravishment fantasy is a sexual fantasy involving imagining or pretending being coerced or coercing another into sexual activity. In sexual roleplay, it involves acting out roles of coercive sex.

A study in 2009 found 62 per cent of the women participating had sexual fantasies in which they are forced into having sex against their will. inews.co.uk/.../why-some-women-fantasise-about-forceful-sex-and-why-thats-nothing-to-be-ashamed-of-212098

The Me Too movement, with variations of related local or international names, is a social movement against sexual abuse and sexual harassment where people publicize allegations of sex crimes.
Do women who express their ravishment fantasy hurt the Me Too movement?
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  • Consensual sex, and non-consensual sex, are what people have to focus on. Not HOW you enjoy having sex. And a lot of people have a problem with that. Fantasies, kinks, and fetishes are in the end just different forms of sexual pleasure. Just because you have a "naughty" kink, does not mean that you want any random to do it to you. Consent with your partner, comfort and appreciation and trust, comes ahead before you even communicate the idea of performing a "risk" fantasy.

    Just because I like being bent over, choked and spanked, does NOT mean I consent to any old-joe to do it.

    Unfortunately, people get uncomfortable with others people's business, and that is truly unfair.

  • No. I think they are completely unrelated. What consenting couples do doesn’t undermine the me too movement at all.

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  • It's all about consent and feeling safe.

    The fantasy may be to be taken forcefully and treated as an object for the partner's pleasure, but it's not truly against her will (or... It shouldn't be), and there should be rules and a safeword.
    Rape fantasies are (as far as I'm informed) about the power dynamic and the feeling of the partner letting go of their inhibitions.

    If there's no consent and no way for the woman to stop the other person, it's rape and not fun or good. But because she consents to the rough (or even violent) actions, I would not say it weakens the MeToo movement. The woman HAS a choice and can opt-out when she wants.

  • People can like having sex however they want as long as the people involved are consenting adults and no one is HURT hurt. You can have coercive fantasies but it’s your fantasy and as long as no one gets hurt it can’t have impact on me too because that’s about actual rape and sexual assault

  • The thing is, those are fantasies. in their head, they are in control and its more like domme play. IRL, nobody wants to have sex against their will/raped. Rape is a scary scenario in which only the rapist has control over, and they don't know what will happen next.

  • Women should be as free to express ghemselves to have pleasure as guys are, without cheuvanist assumptions, judgement, and generalization by men without love, affection, respect, empathy, and appreciation for fellow humans. If they feel that way, go buy a blowup doll more fitting to your objective views on sex.

  • That girl holding up the "Yes" sign is pretty cute. I would hope she exercised her right to say yes if I dated her.

    • Aye, she is cute, but she looks about 16 mate...

    • Yeah, now that I think about it she actually resembles my niece, which is a bit creepy I guess...

  • "Me too" is what a young childhood friend used to always say, when he wanted to be included in the activities of me and his sister.

  • the only thing that faminism has done to me is make me despise women and make me only interested in sex but nothing else.

  • Yes, they are.

    • How?

    • Cause it blurrs the line.

  • Women are quite contradictory sometimes.
    Their rape fantasies are weird.

    • I don't think they're contradictory, I think It's separate. A rape fantasy is just a fantasy with their partner, they don't actually want some stranger raping them. And are you saying rape fantasy is weird or what they want to do as part of the rape fantasy is weird?

    • I'm saying that women have fought to make sure everyone understands how horrible and traumatic rape is. Everything is so politically correct now that even asking a coworker on a date could be seen as sexual harassment these days. Then you have women who are the polar opposite with their rape fantasies. It just kinda makes people scratch their heads.

    • Hmm... There is a dilemma around "what women want" I agree with you. From experience, I tend to sit back and play it safe. I will only persue a woman at work if she comes on to me, otherwise it's not worth the risk 🤷🏽‍♂️