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1 - The Royal Blue Restraints, you can do oh so much with those...
2 - Collar, they can be locked, attached to various "rigging" similar to the restraints, go with any outfit, and say's that you're owned/fun!
3 - Electro Stimulation, aside from being "fun," it can help with your nerves or muscles depending on how you use it, and what's a little shock between friends?
4 - Mouth Spreader, its a literal gag, but itself lacks presence unless paired with other "toys," good for access and preventing speech, but it's a little cliché.
5 - Whips, limited uses outside of aesthetics and inflicting pain, but that can be extremely fun!
6 - Spreader Bars, good for preventing movement and covering, can attach to "rigging," gives ease of access, but limited in the fund you can have with it.
7 - Handcuffs, boring and cliché, been used to death...
*** Note: The hottest idea is to use these together in combinations not just with each other but with other ideas, like suspension, breathplay, petplay, etc.
1. Collar - A simple and sexy way for her to say, "I'm here to serve you in whatever way you desire." I like to pick out a special collar for my sub.
followed by spreader bar, whip (s), mouth spreader, and I'll stop there. The rest of them I've tried and to be honest, not as sexy as I hoped for. Electro shock is not as good as hot wax, for example. Handcuffs seem sexy until I tried them and they cut into your wrists and are uncomfortable as hell, I much prefer to tie her shibari style with rope, where I can create a gauntlet that is comfortable enough she can be bound for an hour or more without damaging her wrists. Here's a good video example:
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better shorter version of the tutorial
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think restraints, ball gags and handcuffs are a huge turn on. My girlfriend and I are huge fans of sex toys in bed and besides the standard fleshlights, dildos, vibrators, cock/glans rings etc, we also use eye masks and bed restraints. it really heightens the sensation of blowjobs and touches as there's a feeling of vulnerability and torture (might be a fetish).
Sex games might also be a fun addition - edging each other with toys and seeing who gives up and cums first!
1. Collar (and leash). I'm a sucker for the look of collars and chokers, and I enjoy the option to pull it as an alternative to pulling her hair or to pull her close to kiss her.
2. Restraints. This was almost on a shared first place.
3. Handcuffs. Practically just a relative of restraints.
4. Spreader Bar. Never tried these, but there's something intriguing about them.
5. Electro-Stimulation. I really don't know if I'm into this. Never tried it, but if she enjoys it, I would probably enjoy using such toys on her.
6. Gags/Mouth-Spreaders. Never tried a spreader, but gags don't really speak to me. I can't explain why, but using them just seems weird to me.
But the best tool for sex - in my humble opinion - will forever be the body itself; lips, tongue, teeth, nails, hands, etc.
Just realised that I forgot the whip. That would probably be between restraints and handcuffs.
I wouldn't mind tying my partner to the bed, either face up or face down, and having some fun, but those other things don't look like fun to me.
The collar, as that means she has gracefully accepted you as her Dom and to be your collared sub.
it means she has accepted your trust and respect and given herself fully in return.
it means that without the collar the rest are simply toys, as there is no sign of trust or that emotional bonding required between a Dom and his collared sub.
I love Shibari (ornamental rope bondage) which you can bind, restrain, gag, blindfold, make speeder bars,
or make flogs/whips out of. If done well, it can also be pretty.
They all have their place. Electro stimulation is probably my favorite. A thick soft heavy flogger is fun. Restraints of any kind including many you don't list can be fun and several things you have on your list are in the category of restraints. Lots of rubber or leather bondage harnesses are fun. I'm pretty good with ropes.
#6. Whips: Not into that. Whips hurt.
#5. Spider Open Mouth Gag: Cool, but not what I’m into. I would probably only be into that if my partner introduced me to it first. 🤷♂️
#4. Collar: Fun to use in dominant situations👍.
#3. Expandable Spreader Bar with Cuffs: That one looks fun. My mind instantly went to missionary when I first got a look at it, but to each their own. There’s probably more you could do with that.
#2. Electro Shock Set: (Where do I even begin?) You watch your partner get off and you could stimulate them even further with your hands. (Pleasure? Stimulate? I don’t know, I’m new to this stuff 😅.)
#1. Handcuffs (and Bondage Cuffs): Would be fun in moderation. Those can cause skin irritation, so keep the Aveeno ready. Still, these are #1 on my list just for tickle kink. 😁 (I’m lumping the bondage cuffs with the regular handcuffs because aren’t they similar?)
Edit: So I did a bit of digging, and I found out the restraints were for restraining your partner to something - like a doorknob for example (see #5 www.menshealth.com/.../) Still, similar enough. I’m keeping them together in that list. 🤷♂️
Electro stimulation
Assuming this would actually give someone pleasure in the bedroom, then yeah.
Never had sex before, but the idea of getting kinky with an attractive partner sounds hot AF and with this equipment, I think I could get them to submit, although I do predominantly consider myself to be submissive.
Maybe a collar the rest of kinda too kinky for me 😬
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