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How do I initiate sex for the first time in a car?

I’m tall by the way
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When I said sex, I meant everything. Including a blow Job (oral sex) im a virgin lol
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  • First time for sex or first time in a car? I do not recommend your first time be in a car.
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    That being said, recline the seats or back seat and straddle him with you on top.

    • It will be my first Time ever having sex and the only privacy we have is in his car

    • Hmmm. Not ideal. Has he had sex before? If you can do it missionary in the back seat or back of the car if it’s a hatchback that would probably be better.

    • He’s had a lot of sex and he had a few friends with benefits at the same time in the past

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  • Why not a hotel?

    • He’s poor

    • Oh that sucks, im sorry :( a car won't be comfortable at all tho. Especially if it's your first time. I don't recommend it. You guys need room to enjoy the sex and your bodies to be comfortable and you mentioned being tall, you will probably feel uncomfortable even more girl

    • You can always save for one. Im assuming you live with family?

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  • start by caressing his inner thighs and see if he responds to it. slowly move your hand closer and closer to his crotch and start lightly stroking it. kiss his neck and start to make out. climb on top of him and grind/dry hump. by then you can start removing articles of clothing and start teaing him with a handjob (spit on it first). once he is rock hard and dripping with precum, go down on him and give him the sloppiest blowkob (and deepthroat if u can). by now he should be throbbing and it's time to ride away!.
    pro tip: skirts are your best friend for easy access.

  • If your partner and you have had sex before, then just shoot the idea during your conversations. Like a tease, but also hinting that you are interested in the idea. If it's your first time having sex with that person, it varies from comfort level and person to person, but I can tell you what works for me.
    Obviously, I prefer nighttime, because visibility is a thing. Then I pick a night that we are not necessarily driving to an event (party, dinner, etc.). I start by putting my hand on his knee and slowly caress his inner thigh. I smile and smirk a lot, and if I see him reacting positively, i will continue caressing and slowly go towards his crotch. I will touch his stomach and cup him, and if I feel him getting hard, I will continue to tease him and hopefully, by then he already knows what's going on, and will either let you continue (blowjob) or park somewhere (sex). If you 100% want sex, just let him know "Hey, let's find a place to park".
    If he doesn't get excited or hard, just kiss him on the cheek and relax back in your seat. That doesn't mean that he's not into the idea, but maybe not at that moment.

  • Really do not have sex for first time in a car.

    I don’t even allow food in my car, never mind sex and body fluids.

  • First, buy a car...

  • Cars are very uncomfortable places to have sex. What's wrong with a bed?

    • Nothing! He’s just broke as shit

  • I'm hoping you're not thinking of having sex while you're actually driving the thing. That could be dangerous.

  • If you're attracted to they guy just take your shirt off after he fondles you

  • I've had a lot of car sex with my partner, easiest way is to start rubbing his thigh and slowly going up till you start softly rubbing him/pleasuring him through his pants, then unzip rub through boxers then take out his fella and pleasure him with your hand (make sure it's wet). Along the way you judge his reaction to see if he likes it or not. Usually things will flow naturally at some point and he'll participate.

    • well yes this usually leads to everything

  • Other then making out and him feeling you or a blow job cars are a terrible place to have sex, especially if you're both tall. A motel or your bedroom when you know no one else will be home is much better.

  • Start with kissing and work your way down. Make sure you have figured out front seat or back seat. Some cars have front bucket seats that recline all the way. Those can work the best. Else use the back seat.

  • Try a bed. It's WAY more accommodating.

    • On update... Start by unzipping his pants. [rolls eyes]

  • Watch a movie and cuddle. Works every time.

    • I would say to start touching him in sensitive areas. The face, neck, chest, thighs/inner thighs, and down under.

  • If you want to initiate than just go by touching him on his thigh and move upward to inner thigh region near his penis.
    This will make him understand you want to have sex.

  • Park at the local sex spot and make a move. Behind factories usually works.

  • Put a 9mil against his temple and tell him to drive to a secluded spot. When you get there, say, "if you don't give it to me every way I want then imma put this lead right through your BRAIN!" That'll light a fire in his pants, gaurantee!

  • I’m tall too. If you’re a woman, just do it. Turn to him grab the back of his head, pull a little hair and say “I want you right here and now to fuck my brains out.”
    Now this can go a few ways. You’re tall so he gets in back and you spread Eagle facing the back of you get bent over in the back or recline the front seat and you ride.


    It’s much easier if said guy has a crew cab truck or Mercedes S class.

  • machete n shorten ur limbs with it makes it easyer

    • xD died.

    • @JudgeFreeZone lawl

  • Wear a sexy dress. But don't wear underwear.
    Sit on the back seat, not next to you. Ask him to go to a deserted place.
    touch him and yourself on the way,

  • Grab his junk

  • giving blowjob when he drive in highway

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