What was your first time having sex like?

Just curious to find out whether it's a good or bad memory for you.
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  • It was volcano of pleasure for me and my husband. We (I and my husband) were knowing each other from childhood, and when it come about our marriage, we promised each other to keep our virginity till marriage. As we both were well educated in science and very much familiar with each other, we had explored many things on net together about after marriage life and first time penetrative sex. (We were doing some small things if we get the chance). The very first sexual encounter – sex was after about a week of our marriage, when all guests return to their home, and we were home alone. It was in the late morning – day time and it was surprisingly most pleasant, because we both were very well prepared for it. We were taking bath together as decided and do some naughty things to build tempo. He kissed me on breasts, suck nipples and then down there. I was holding his organ and kissed it several times. Then we go for lap dance position, he seated on floor and I ride him, keeping his organ in my hands and controlling speed of penetration. I feel some pressure when it entered the mouth of vagina and get in, some pain and bleed few drops when it was some deep, but it was turn into volcano of pleasure as soon as he was fully in. He locked me in his arms firmly for few minutes, both breathing heavy. I was almost in Deep Ocean of pleasure. After few minutes, we started to rock, my movements make him harder and I feel him touching deep in. within few moments I feel his throbbing and he ejaculate, it was again a volcano of pleasure for both of us. We keep licked for pretty good time, exhausted but feeling extremely happy. We did it again two times same day. I still surprise why some girls and guys feel first time difficult or tough?

    • That sounds amazing! Glad that you enjoyed it. I think those that didn't enjoy their 1st time may not have known their partner for as long as you did when you had yours, and a lot of people are pretty awful to talk to about sex, so when you feel embarassed about your sex organs, sex is probably less pleasurable. Just a theory though.

  • Honestly it wasn't that big of a deal. Me and my boyfriend planned it the week before but I got my period then the next week I was meeting his stister and her fiancé with him for drinks. I got so drunk and we had such a fun night. The taxi driver dropped me and my boyfriend off on the middle of a bridge because he wouldn't listen to are directions. Once we got out my boyfriend carried me home because my feet were hurting and I was drunk. I told him I was so sorry as we'd already discussed losing are virginity to each other that night but then I got drunk because his stister kept buying me drinks.

    It was also the hottest night if the year (2019). He got me home and ready for bed and we went sleep together. I woke up in the middle of the night and by time then I'd sobered up. We just kept talking after that and I told him was ready.

    He got super excited but I asked him if we could just take things slow and cuddle. Eventually after showing him the rope's of how it all works down there we got going. it really hurt and we were both covered in sweat. I started to cry from the pain but I told him to keep going he just cuddled me and tried to keep me carm. It wasn't long and after that we went back sleep in each others arms.

    • That sounds wholesome. Love the fact that you were both sweaty at the end :D

Most Helpful Guys

  • It was good, but not amazing or that special really. I have since had heaps of sex that was way more satisfying, pleasurable, intimate, and other positive metrics.

    It was just some random girl in college that I knew and we were getting drunk one night and started talking about sex. I pretended like I wasn't a virgin and we talked about our favorite positions and started modeling them with each other. It was actually in front of some other friends, we were in this friend's bedroom on his bed. Clothed and getting into various positions. Then at one point she just undid my pants and started to give me a blowjob.

    My other friends stayed for a little while, then I think they felt awkward and left. The girl and I had sex, I have no idea how long it lasted. I think more than 10 minutes, but less than a half hour. the reason being we had a specific Pink Floyd album (Animals) on and a remember a couple of the songs that were playing, and I'm pretty sure each song is over ten minutes. I honestly don't remember that much about the actual sex, it's kind of funny I remember more about the events leading up to it.

    I do remember during it I actually tried one of the sex positions (the wheelbarrow) that I had told her was one of "my favorites", but I didn't enjoy it much at all. lol.

    • Interesting that you remember what songs were playing! I just googled the wheelbarow - that actually doesn't look that enjoyable, LOL.

    • Nope. I was a virgin so how would I know? It looked good on paper lol

    • Yeah, I get what you mean, lol, just funny that you pretended to be experienced to land that girl. I mean, in the end it certainly paid off for both of you, so that's nice.

  • Well for me I had like three issues going on I just started masturbating I knew I was going to hell 4 that.. then one of my cousin's friends she was 19 I was 15 and a half almost 16 she was in college but we did it it sucked. Now it's going to hell for that one too after all that and it sucked next week later she called me back we did it again it suck did it again the next weekend it sucked. When I watch The Love Boat it said that I was supposed to see fireworks all three times I never seen fireworks the four-time she told me not to worry about it that she seem fireworks but I decided to change it up after a long month of thinking the four-time I made it all about her it seems to last forever and we both see fireworks it was so very beautiful I learned a valuable lesson that I carry with me to this day and have tried to perfect it from way back then till to this day

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  • It was pretty meh...
    I went soft every time I tried to put on a condom, so we decided to do it without. But then I ended up cumming while stroking myself to get hard again, so I could penetrate... So yeah...

    Fortunately, it's possible to improve.

    • I think it's that type of stop and go for most people though :D Practice makes perfect!

  • Good memory. Very wholesome. In his childhood bed.

  • It was lousy and forgettable and I learned that sex is super-overrated and not worth the effort 90% of guys go through to get it.

  • Bad memory. Don’t like talking about it much at all.

  • It was wonderful.

  • It was at a rock concert and we were in a tent. The music was loud. There were a million cheering people. We pretended they were cheering us on. She was four years older and we were both virgins and she took our clothes off and had me brush her long beautiful hair. She kissed me and I kissed her back. Took us a while to figure out where everything went together. She smelled wonderful and tasted even better. Then we were doing it and it was amazing. Absolutely magical. I was 9 and she was 13 and that was in August 1969.

  • It was good which is why I wanted an older man

    • How are the two related?

    • Older men are more experienced and thus better in bed

  • Very disappointing. I wanted to do it, I was ready for it.
    We had already been very intimate with handwork, massaging each other and he had me ate out a few times before.

    I felt a sharp pain for a few seconds when he entered me and started moving in my vagina. After maybe 5 minutes he went limp and it was over.
    i did not feel any pleasure that first time and went to my bff for crying in her arms because I thought I would feel heavenly bliss by doing it.

    • Oh no, that sounds really disappointing!

  • It was not so great. She was a total stranger and I didn't know what I was doing. She seemed to enjoy it however.

  • always a good memory for dudes

  • I had my first sex with a sweet experienced girl. I was very nervous. She knew it was my first time. I cummed faster than I should have. The second time was much better.

  • It was with my baby sitter. I was 14 years old

    • What 14 year old needs a baby sitter?

    • @NoManTwo we lived in a bad area and my parents were over protective. We weren't allowed to be home alone until we were 16 years old.

    • How old was she?

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  • It's a good memory. I remember the specific time. Looking back the sex ccx was bad, but since we were both virgins at the time we didn't find it bad at the time.

  • very good , she is very experienced

  • It was terrible. The story was pretty good but the sex was just awkward and bad. I remember thinking to myself after doing it why do so many people like having sex 🤣🤣 Sex became more enjoyable the more I did it and now I love it. Practice makes perfect 😉

  • Not so good. The setting wasn't great.

    • How?

    • A fairly dirty construction site.

    • Oh no :o

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  • Something I regret to this day.. don't worry it was consensual, it's just, I didn't like why i did it

    • That doesn't sound pleasant. What were your reasons?

    • nothing. just wanted to say i did it for the wrong reasons

  • It wasn’t successful but I enjoyed it anyway

  • It was good.

    It was awkward as fuck and I came too quickly.

    But it was still good.

  • First time was terrible for me, was so shy haha

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