How should I tell my girlfriend that I enjoy giving her oral?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so my girlfriend has told me that she doesn’t like doing deep throat onto me because it is too big but she doesn’t mind giving other oral that doesn’t hurt her throat. I am totally fine with this and just find myself luck to have such an amazing girlfriend with or without her giving me sexually pleasure at all. But now ever time I give her oral she will comment after sex that she feels bad for “making me give her oral”, how can I explain to her that I like giving her oral?

[JudgeFreeZone]

Yes, 100%. It is completely understandable that blowjobs on bigger dicks, can be a pain. I have been there myself, and like her, my partner gave me oral every time. Granted, we were very communicative and open, so I knew he loved giving me oral, and he didn't orgasm with blowjobs. He thought they were nice, but he preferred intercourse.
Similarly, yes you should tell her something along the lines of "Giving you oral is as much pleasure for you as it is for me, not only seeing your body react to me but also how you taste and how I just love doing it." Tell her that there's no need for her to feel guilty because you get satisfaction from the action and from everything else, and you don't need blowjobs.

[Asker]

Thanks for the thought out response it is appreciated, I try to tell her during sex, should I try after to make sure she knows I am being serious?

[JudgeFreeZone]

Yes, as women we are emotional, and perhaps saying it outside the bedroom will have more impact. As a suggestion, as you guys are cuddling and watching the movie, or post-sex, you can look at her be like " Wow, you are really beautiful. I love your body, and your eyes... etc... I also love how you taste. You know I LOVE going down on you? It's amazing, your sensation, how your body looks from that angle, how you squirm under me with my tongue... just giving you oral makes me wanna cum"... This might help her understand that it's just as much of a pleasure to you, as it is to her.

[Asker]

Ok thanks, it is really appreciated and I will definitely try that :)

[JudgeFreeZone]

Glad to help :)

[jgracem]

Just tell her that you like it. My boyfriend oppologizes a lot after a blow job becuase he thinks that it is harder work than what he does, but I have had to reasure him multiple times that I do not mind it and that I actually enjoy them.

[John83]

Just be direct and tell her you really like doing it and that it turns you on. You can tell her right after you've been giving her oral.

[Asker]

I have tried that but I think she thinks I am just saying that to make her even more horny

[loves2learn]

Just be honest and tell her how much you like it and how hot it is.

[rachel776]

just tell her you love it

[JamieLoves]

Just do it... she won’t mind