I am 23. Do you think it is normal I have the desire to have sex with a 37 year old man?

By the way I have met this man in real life face to face.
He is not somebody online
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I know we are both legal but he is more than 10 years old than me. He is not within my age group
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  • As a single, 36 year old man... I realize I may inherently lack some credibility here. Nevertheless...

    Your desire to have sex with a 37 year old man is perfectly within the bounds of totally normal. Especially if it's this one specific guy you're talking about and not like "guys that age in general". So I wouldn't let the age part of that trip you up too much... IF you are just talking about sexual desire or sex itself.

    If on the other hand, you are talking about the possibility of an actual relationship with this guy, then the answer becomes more complicated. At that point there are for sure other factors you'd need to take into account. It would depend a whole lot on the particulars of the situation, and the particular of the 23 year old woman and of the particular 37 year old man in question. 🙂

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  • When you fall in love with someone.
    You don't really care for ur crush weakness such as he's far older than you or he smokes or he's so lazy and so on.

    In short you can't make a good decision in that state as ur brain always see something good from him. I'm not telling you he's bad and you shouldn't go out with him bcs he's older than you.

    I'm telling you to think about ur decision carefully when you are in normal state as ur decision will impact ur future for the rest of ur life.

    If you are really sure he is the right man and ready to accept his fault and weakness too after you have think about it carefully then go for it.

    Just don't make a decision when u re in good mood or bad mood as you can't really think at that time and will end up make a wrong decision.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why are you asking? You want someone to tell you it IS ok, or NOT okay? You're both adults so that is up to you. It will not be us to reap any consequences of your choices. But if you think of it in this way - he was 14 when you were born so is he robbing the cradle if you take that into consideration? Hmmmmm

  • Why wouldn't it be acceptable? Who actually cares about what's "normal" anyway? Go for it! Do your own thing! Screw societal disapproval! :)

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  • Sista that’s your preference, your type.
    As long as it’s consensual and done in an appropriate manner lol not cheating or such.
    Then the world is your oyster.

  • It’s normal.

  • You're an adult it's your decisions, its normal to feel your type of attraction. I like younger guys so i had the desire to have sex with one and i did so. He was 18 by the way!

    • As long as he is not married, you are good to go with anybody you are attracted to. Age doesn't matter. Provided both of u are adults.

  • It is not "normal" in a statistical sense but I don't think it is pathological, either.

  • Not a problem.

    the main thing is having compatibility, something other than sex and attraction.

  • You're 23. What the fuck do you think is the problem here? Are you 13 in your own eyes?
    I'm 12 in my head but I just turned 24 and I have feelings for a 48-year-old woman. When people point out that she was 36 when I was 12 it just makes me excited.

  • Yes, I think that sounds completely normal.

  • There are a lot of less normal things to desire that I can think of.

  • If he looks like me, yes.

  • sure why not I I would do it as well!

  • Why wouldn't it be normal?

  • because of hypergamy its definitely normal because of your biology. Women are attracted to men that can protect and provide because its extremely hard to provide and protect yourself if you're pregnant. Unless you're an "independent woman" 🤣😂🤣

  • It could be a very normal reaction, some slightly older guys have a certain sex appeal to them that younger guys may not have. You may also be attracted to his experience and confidence. He is seventeen years older which is a bit of a spread but I've heard women say they loved the way an older man looked after them and made sure they were looked after sexually when some younger guys tend to be a bit more selfish during sex.

  • Normal. At 33, I had sex with a 19 year old majorette from UOFAkron.

  • A lot of young women are attracted to older men, especially if they are high-status men. If you were in your thirties, the age difference would raise eyebrows but might be workable. At your age, getting involved with him is unlikely to work out well.

  • Yes it's normal, as is the reverse. Lots of married couples have 10 year age gaps.

  • Fun now, boring for you later.

  • I think that is relatively normal. Most women your age desire a more mature/older man from what I’ve experienced.

  • Go for it. My wife is 8 years younger and we're very happy together.

  • Jump his bones let him play with your titty's and let his penis play with your pussie. The age difference shouldn't matter go to him and be happy. 💞

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