I had a dream about having sex with another woman. Am I gay or bisexual?

I had a dream about having sex with another woman. Am I gay or bisexual?
I had a dream about having sex with another woman. Am I gay or bisexual?
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  • there's a lot of lipstick lesbains... meaning they're married woman but they occassionally like to have sex with another woman... it's very different than with a man but also can be very good and it doesn't mean your gay per se if you engage in this activity... sex is like playing tennis nothing to do with love but it's something to do that's fun... is a way to put it... although love can happen i'm sure.

    • the tennis thing is from "friends with benefits" isn't it lol and thanks for your advice it means a lot to me.

    • not consciously but i could've picked it up from there as i did watch friends... glad i can help.

  • maybe you are bi curious. if you still have thoughts and are sexually attracted to men then you are not gay. but you could be bi or possibly even just curious, the only way to know would be to go out with a woman and see how you feel about the date if you are attracted to her in a sexual way

    • well going out with a woman is cool but I don't know how will I know if I am sexually attracted to her as I can't ask to have sex on the first date

    • lol no i mean date woman and see what happens, like see if it progresses into romantic and so on

    • oh got it sorry I misunderstood

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  • Not necessarily. Having sex with someone in a dream can be about other things than sexual desire towards that gender/specific person. It can be that you like some qualities in the person that you would like to have yourself.
    I personally had dreams of having sex with some girl friends of mine, and I never had a desire to be with women in real life.
    But try to explore the fantasy in your conscious mind too. That will be better at telling you what desires you have :)

    • @ChebMani cannot tell, I am not into women

  • I dunno, you could be either or neither...

  • If you have a dream about killing your boss, does that make you a murderer?

  • Hummm... I don't think I would draw that conclusion just based on a dream. I think maybe if you daydream a lot about it then maybe. I did have a girlfriend back in my early twenties, who ended up being bi and then she ended up marrying a woman. I found this out like 20 years later. There were a few signs that maybe she was bi when I was dating her but I didn't see it at the time. She was very attracted to me being a guy, so it didn't occur to me in spite of the signs from some things that she said.

  • Yea, you're bisexual and probably sexually frustrated, just don't rape anybody, people don't like that.

    • rape? are u seriously saying this

  • Probably bisexual. And I wouldn't blame you. Women are usually way better looking than guys. Who wouldn't want to be with one?

  • Does it matter if you're gay, straight or bi.
    Stop worrying about what you are and date people you think are attractive no matter what their gender is.
    That's why people are so angry and stressed these days.
    They are so worried what they are and how everyone else sees them

  • wouldn't say u are from a dream no do you have a want to have sex with women or be in a relationship with one

  • Probably neither. Just bi curious

  • No. I’ve had dreams where I fucked a velociraptor. That doesn’t mean I’m sexually attracted to bipedal proto birds.

  • I think as others said you could be either or neither. I dream about other women, but that is normal for me because I am bisexual.

  • Well if you’re really into girls then you could be either or. I’m kind of single rn and I’m Bi too. Do you want to private message?

    • sure why not

  • This doesn't mean that your Lesbian or Bisexual, we all have sex dreams something we can't control

  • I think a lot of girls wonder what it would be like to be with another girl.

  • if you still like penis, bi, if not, gay. only you would know that though.

  • Why not do it, you already think about it

  • Make the dream come true and experiment with another female. 👭 💞

  • You're bi curious.

  • I've had more than one dream where I had sex with people I absolutely, indisputably do NOT want to have sex with. Dreams sometimes can indicate real-life things, but often times they're entirely random and do not indicate real-world desire.

  • I recently had a very unusual dream involving myself and two people who can't possibly know each other and most likely never will. Your dream could have another meaning that you may not have realized yet but if you think it means what you say it does then don't be afraid to test that theory.

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