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Girls, would it hurt your ego or upset you in a personal way if your guy could no longer achieve an erection during sex?

And had to resort to using viagra?

also guys have you ever had a woman get upset with you because you didn’t get hard during sex?
Girls, would it hurt your ego or upset you in a personal way if your guy could no longer achieve an erection during sex?
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  • No it would not bother me. a lot of females don't realize that men can easily get turned on. They are sexually visual creatures. Plus rubbing against it is going to make it hard. It could literally be any female even the most unattractive and it will still have the same effect. Sensations and hormones don't discriminate. So when a guy can't get it up from these things then the problem doesn't lay with the female. That's why most females get upset because they take it personal and become insecure like they aren't attractive or sexually good enough. There are so many reasons why this happens. It ranges from getting older, alcohol, stress, etc.. sometimes if it happens once and the girl reacts badly it can actually cause it to keep happening because now the guy is feeling insecure and shame. Performance anxiety. It's not something they can control, that's why viagra was invented. It doesn't make them less of a man.

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  • It could possibly be something to do with the particular girl/woman, or their dynamic. But generally speaking it would be a mistake, or a waste of emotional energy, to conclude conclusively that he doesn't find her sexually arousing.
    There are so many reasons a guy cannot get hard; not to mention it could be sporadic or random and not a chronic pattern which underlies a particular meaning or cause. Can relate to nervousness; stress in his life or at work; a physical health problem such as diabetes; having just cum recently; having been turned on for too long; trying not to cum so that the sex continues. Those are all plausible causes which have nothing to do with his attraction in the moment.
    One of the best lovers I've ever had got soft sometimes but I did not take offence. I would take him over a guy who's rock hard but his mind is elsewhere, any day.

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  • This is for you girls, however, I feel eminently qualified to answer this question. As someone that suffers from this affliction I can say yes, it was disappointing to my ex G/F. Because I have 5 heart stents I have to take medication that doesn't allow me to use erection-enhancing products. I still can achieve climax, it just takes longer. Some women won't wait, regardless of how well satisfied, they are with something other than vaginal sex.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

  • I don't get hard right away as fast as i used to

    The only time i get really hard is when I'm getting ready to ejaculate

    Not sure if that's good or bad

    Also i am a virgin maybe I'm just bored of masturbating i don't get hard for it

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  • No because a lot of times that's not because he's not physically attracted to his partner or doesn't want sex. If he is willing to take Viagra to still be able to have sex with you then that should show her still desires you.

  • No, it wouldn't. But I don't think I could say the same thing about his ego because I'll kick his impotent ass right out of my bedroom and I sure as hell won't be nice about it.

    • what do you mean? like if he complains about not getting hard anymore?

    • If a guy I'm having sex with can't get it up, I'm not wasting my time with him.

    • so even if it wasn't his fault you'd do this without hesitation?

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  • Yea i’d eventually breakup. Not being able to get hard is only acceptable in my opinion if he’s like age 50+

    • Even if has nothing to do with you at all? And its all a medical issue that he can work on? You’d break up?

    • Yes. I love sucking a dick while its soft but i eventually need it to harden. Like i said, if we were 50+, i wouldn't care. But if we’re still young in our 20s/30s then i wouldn't be able to deal with that for long. He’ll eventually see e disappointment in my face. It’ll just make us both unhappy in the relationship. Now if we’re married and then this later happens, i’d stay. But if just boyfriend/girlfriend status then no i’d leave. I’d make up a different excuse to leave. im not gonna say ED caused it

    • Kinda harsh but yolo i guess

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  • It happens, that's why employ my sister as a stand in fluffergirl for those awkward moments

    • Surely, only when your grandma is out of town?

    • you will use your sister as a sex object to arouse your guy when you can't?

  • No. Wouldn’t hurt. I’m glad viagra exists.

  • No I wouldn't be offended, I went through this with my late husband he had various health problems,& it says through sickness & health. I stood by him it wasn't his fault it's amazing when you truly love someone you'll go through anything with them ✌️

  • Bruhh. I’d actually be hurt by it. It’s make me feel as though I’m not living up to his expectations.

    • Even if its not your fault at all?

    • I mean unless he has RE or is just getting old in general, id be kinda hurt.

    • Fight or flight (even just being nervous) = no blood going to the dick, body in survival mode.

  • It happened to me, it was just a psychosomatic thing. She was worried but not upset.

  • Nope, we all know his little guy will eventually stop working

    • So sad for the little guy :(

    • Lmao it is what it is🤷🏾‍♀️

  • No. ED happens, if he can’t get it up there are ways of enjoying each other and reaching climax. Pretty sure a guy who’s soft can still orgasm.

  • No, it could be many factors why he's unable to get an erection.

  • Not sure never happened to me (except once in a great while and I didn’t get upset with the guy)

  • It has never happened to me. Sometimes I cannot finish but I always start.

  • If he didn’t have a medical condition? Yes.

    • Hahaha , it means you don't have what it takes it to get up :D

    • @Light_beam that is definitely not the case. 😁

    • You always can get it up?

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  • No can happen for a variety of reasons if he’s prepared to take viagara then fancying me is unlikely to be the problem

  • It has happened to me because of the fight or flight response. If you get nervous all the blood will be drained from your dick lol.

    • Today i learned something

  • It hurts

    • Why?

  • she shouldn't , it is his own fault , not hers

  • Depends on the reason. I would feel like I’m not attractive enough which would make me a bit sad. But if you’d explain that it’s due to a medical condition or something of the sorts, I’d understand.
    I could effect the (frequency of) sex for while but after that it wouldn’t bother me.

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