Would you end a relationship over penis size?

This guy I’ve been talking to for around a month has a 9 inch dick. I’ve never had a dick that big prior to him and, I feel bad that I can’t let him go all the way, if I do it feels like I’m dying, and he says it doesn’t feel as good. I really feel like we’re not sexually compatible but we’re always together and always having sex. What would u do?
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  • I definitely wouldn't end a relationship over a 9-inch penis because that's practically heaven. I enjoy deep penetration and 9-inch dicks are perfect for the job. However, I would end a relationship if the penis size is too small or if his technique is bad and he refused to improve it. Are you fully aroused and moist when you have sex with him? If so, your vagina should expand deep enough to take most of it and it should be wet enough to not cause pain. If he's slamming your cervix really hard, then he simply needs to work on his technique. Try to get him to do that. Also, note that the more you have sex with him, the more your vagina would get accustomed to taking a dick that size, which would make it less painful and more pleasurable.

    • @tiffany_taylor_made "However, I would end a relationship if the penis size is too small" So is 3.5 inches goes into this category?

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  • Well I’m assuming you guys like each other because you’re still sticking with each other, well you can either learn how to take his dick or just find other ways for both of you to have fun without actual penetration unless you use toys or whatever. I dunno

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  • unfortunately, different people from different regions have different standards, Asian people have tight pussies and average and below-average dicks, black people have much bigger dicks and deeper pussies and it's this way because those people's body was made to be compatible with other bodies in that region
    surly your body is not compatible with his body and there's no way around you should accept it and continue without sex or break up and keep him as your friend

    • Those are stereotypes. One of the tightest women I ever slept with was black. As for Asians, not my cup of tea.

    • How the hell do you know this and you are under 18?

    • @kyleelyn199723 I'm 17 and stuck at home searching online for random shits it's normal for someone like me to know random stuff no one even knows it exists

  • I'm tempted to say "no", but then, that's easy for me; this isn't an issue I'm going to face (barring some truly unusual circumstances). If PIV sex is too painful, have you tried oral or digital stimulation? It's not quite the same, but you could still have sexual interaction with less discomfort.

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  • He needs to find ways to arouse you more so you are able to take it. With that being said, I don’t think you are sexually compatible. We are able to hear babies which are much longer than 9 inches. He’s not doing something right on his part

    • Bear babies**

    • What's bear babies

    • Bear a child. Women can bear a child therefore, a man’s 9 inch penis is not the problem, the way he is performing foreplay is the problem

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  • Thats why i like to flash or masturbate eachother before becoming official 😂 If we dont like what we see, we can't still go and not have to label it as a breakup.

  • If he makes me cum; I'm not going to dump him over the size of his penis. He can't control how he was born but he can learn to b a good lover.

    • @Albert0020 it seems like you are a bit too much inside your own head about size which will hold you back. If you have no girlfriend then size isn't really what you should focus your efforts on. It isn't like you are wearing a tag with your size on it everyone can see so any issues related to it are your own more than anyone else's as we don't have x-ray vision. What exactly do you consider small?

    • @mstaniauncensored What about 3.5 inches when hard?🤔

  • Maybe try using a lot of lube even if you are wet.. it really helps. Also have you tried getting on top? That way you can control the depth and speed.

  • Honestly yeah. Bumpers aren't any fun for them to be using all the time. I feel like if we don't fit together right it wasn't meant to be

  • Then your not ready or relaxed enough.
    Women give birth to people, and they’re not just 9”.
    Take your time, and work out the best positions for you.

  • Yeah probably. If it’s too small for me to enjoy, or too big it hurts, then sex won’t happen and sex is one of my ways that I show my affection.

    • True but the problem is for girls ( not everyone ) Bigger the better That mind set is depends

    • Except that “bigger is better” is wholly subjective. I’m happy with 5-7 inches. Bigger than that hurts too much and smaller isn’t enjoyable.

    • Acceptable and experienced too🤔🤔

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  • I wouldn't end it, but I'm also not letting him put that thing inside me lol

  • Yeah probably, if I was a girl

  • Wow dumping a guy because his dick is too big. 😗

    • Tbh too big is actually a bigger problem than to small. Too small there's toys to make it bigger, but to big. There's nothing to make it smaller.

    • @Jaylaaa2000 i understand 😉

    • Sure you do😂

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  • How big you prefer

    • 5-7 is best

    • Yeah.

  • Obviously I’m not a girl but if u can’t enjoy sex, then that can b a dealbreaker for some people and I get it. I wouldn’t b able to take a big dick like that either. Lol. I’m glad I’m above average but not that long.

    • Do u have any toys that aren’t as big as him?

    • Have u had any sizes that u preferred in the past?

  • If I can't enjoy beacause of that, yes

  • You need to be compatible. Sorry that’s not working for you

  • Just an observation after seeing the result on the poll
    Guys said no, Girls said yes and, Girls who did not want to say no said depends (me included)

    • Interesting

  • The truth is, some guys are too big for some girls. With my previous girlfriend, she was in a relationship with a guy with a “big one” when we met and after we had sex, she dropped him like a hot potato. I am statistically average (6”). And I didn’t find this out until after we were together for a while am discussing previous lovers and what we liked and didn’t like.

  • I won't end a relationship due to my perfect dick size, but if the person I date has any dick its too gay for me. I prefer my partners to have pussies.

  • If you honestly can't comfortably have sex together it might be better to just be friends.
    Unless there's a super strong emotional connection and you truly love this person.

  • I had someone ending her relationship with me over size before, but it was the other size problem not like yours.