What is the deal with having sex?
Personally, I think masturbating is just as good as sex, in that I get my 'objectives' done.
No, I am NOT having bad sex, I have a wonderful partner, and she is super generous. I just have more important priorities in life. I guess I am a lot more 'cerebral' than a good deal of men, rather than instinctual... In other words, I place a lot of my physical needs based on my mental and emotional needs, rather than my instinctual needs... And no, there is no problem with being more instinctual... I just do not understand it.
... And yes, I have a 'rare' sexual dysfunction, in that it takes me a while to cum while I have sex (Delayed ejaculation)... It can easily take me 30 minutes to finish. I put it down to my ED, as I have issues with my mental health.
PS, I have spoken to an expert about it, and I am in the process of working it out.
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