How would you react in this scenario?

#1 How would you react if you walked in and caught your 12 year old partially undressing as they were about to take a nude to send to a classmate?
#2 How would you react if the kid told you “i was only doing what i thought i say mommy/daddy (aka you) doing to eachother?
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  • Scenario 1) be mad as much as you want, people will treat you bad because of this, the person you are sending it too will show to others. Of course he/she promised not to show it to anyone, and before you know it! Your picture is over the internet. So go ahead and send and you will understand what i am talking about, i am protecting you, you are my child and i love you, i don't want to hurt you but you are hurting your self. After that i will show them a short documentary about these things and hoping they will understand.

    Scenario 2) i feel more related to this one, i have been the kid and i have been the adult in different situations at different times.
    What you heared is not what you think it means, it is adult acts we do so you don't understand like now! You did this because you heard us saying it, does this look logical to you? What we did is mommy and daddy are both naked and over 18 and we are married and this fun for us. Of course the same here, hoping they will understand and maybe they go (jerk off/flick the bean)

    No matter what the parents say or do! Things will get awkward/weird and even get wrong in all ways possible, i an reading about kids psychology so i can help my brother (single dad) and my nephew and this how few books explained things 🤷‍♂️

    • Good response tho

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  • You must FIRST understand, that I AM NOT your typical 'white bread' Christian prude... I have been a legally-ordained & recognized Neopagan Tantric Cleric since 1977 of the American Tantric Church while serving our country as a combat photographer imbedded with military intelligence

    I would remind her that much of the impetus of her friend's request at this age is 'privileged influence' "See what I can make her DO for ME!" and hubristic "OH, lookie what I got..." and 'naughty' rebelliousness.

    Also that once posted, she has lost ALL control of WHERE such intimate photos are shared, regardless of how much she THINKS she CAN trust whom she's posting them for. Is she willing to give up SO MUCH personal control for fleeting 'popularity' and hypocritical kids labeling her a 'slut'.

    Our government's NSA has built an unimaginably huge 'server farm' in Utah in the name of 'national security' that filters and LOGS ALL, and I mean ALL... social network trafficking into and out of the United States. EVERY post is both cataloged and STORED since the internet's inception!

    Then, once she understood what we'd discussed...
    if she STILL wanted to try 'boudoir' photography, I'd assist her to shoot some 'tasteful' cheesecake that wouldn't come back to bite her on the ass.

    Gawds willing, some day in her OWN dotage, she can refute HER OWN grandkids accusations that she is just an 'old fuddy-duddy' when she shows 'em she too was once young and a 'hottie'. ~ ;)

    How would you react in this scenario?

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  • I would be pissed they wouldn't get their phone for a while and I'd have a long talk about how people should love them for their heart not their bodies. And only really special people should see their bodies when they get much much older.
    Id die laughing and tell them no but we will discuss all that when they get much older.

    • Great answer haha

  • Oh man. That’s one of those situations you pray to not find yourself in once you’re a parent lol I’d make sure to lock the door whenever me and hubby get it on so I can prevent that from happening. I guess how I’d react and explain the situation would depend on how mature the kid is.

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  • Take the phone for the moment and then step out to calm down and give them a chance redress. I'd then have a conversation about consequences they would face if they did do it, and not just from me.

    • Good parenting :)

    • Thank you 😊

  • I’d have a talk with them about the permanency of pictures on the internet. And about bodily autonomy and privacy and self worth.

    • Definitely self worth. And tell em its called private parts for a reason lol

  • this is why i dont want to live in a western country when i get married, the degeneracy and sex obsession is just too crazy that i have to explain what nudes are to a 12 year old girl...

    • Yea its sad

  • I would walk out of the room and ignore it till another time then bring up how it's illegal for anyone to have underage nudes.

    • Yea definitely the illegality part

  • Pretty much sit them
    sown and explain why it’s wrong in the first place. If I know myself, my 12 year old is never going to be able to have their cellphone in their room when they’re home.

    • Smart

  • Explain to them that manufacturing child porn is a federal crime and yes they prosecute the kids if they are making it themselves and the penalty can be 10 years in prison for each photo and federal prison only reduces time for good behavior by about 10%.

    • Oh wow

  • 1. I'd sit them down and we would have a talk. I'd try to make them see with reason my side of things

    2. I'd careful explain why we did that and why it's a good thing to wait

  • Beat they ass like my parents did to me😂🤷🏾‍♂️

    • Lmao

  • I would calmly explain what may happen with the picture when the recipient of it has wrong intentions. Hoping she'd get why sending nudes is not a good idea. If you love somone, show the hardware live!

    • Right on

  • I would want to know why they were doing it, then explain why they shouldn't.

    • Good good

  • A girl?

    • Either or

  • Well, I would start to have a talk with them, and admonish them that that should be reserved for their spouse, and not given out freely, and that their mother and I are in love and married, and so it's good that we would spice it up like that.. Then I would probably take their phone away from them and give them their punishment.. LOL..

    • Lol i bet

    • You already know Desii.. Hey you still got that thing about people saying your full name on different sites? 😂😂

  • 1. Take that phone and start up with horror stories regarding stupid shit like that.


    2. Tell her the truth, that I don’t do that and neither should she especially that young. If you must, wait until you’re an adult and with your face offscreen

    • Good points

  • I'm pretty relaxed, I'd probably just say... hey send it to me too so I can get it online, cause its going to be out there for anyone anyways. Not seriously doing it, just trying to get them to realize once it is sent, it is gone forever out of their control.

    Of course my kids would never have a phone at 12 years older either, my policy is always you can get a phone when you can pay for it yourself... be it working on the farm or doing whatever job you can but before I add them to the family plan they have to pay their portion up front for a few months and they get to buy whatever phone they want.

    • Damn i wouldn't even make my kid get a job til like the summer they turn 18. Thats a long wait haha

    • Around here kids can legally start working as young as 14 but heavy restrictions, not during school hours, and not after 9 pm... right now due to labor shortage even fast food is hiring 14 year old's just to work from the time school gets out until 8 pm or so a few nights a week. With summer coming through they can work more hours once school is out, there is also a big farm here that kids can work in all summer and booths they setup for people to stop and buy fresh food they can work in. As for me I had a family farm with relatives I could go work at and I started at 11 or 12... driving tractors and forklifts and all that stuff... just for the summer though. Once school started back to hanging with friends and school stuff. I would never make them get a job though, it would have to be something they wanted to do.

    • Ok good. Yea i just want them to focus on keeping up their grades and enjoying childhood

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  • At 12, they are just one year to be a teen-ager and most likely they would have learnt about adolescence in their biology class at school.

    Considering that, they should at least know something about sex. I would use that biology topic as a starting point then explain to them why it is different when adults do it compared to when kids expose themselves before they are ready.

    I would let th know that there are consequences involved if they don't safe guard their privacy by carelessly sending their nude pics out there.

    I would let them also kno that time will come for them when they can do it but that has to be earned by being responsible.

    And also encourage them not to hide things from me so that I can protect them in case things get out of hand.

    • We didn't take biology or sex ed until we were like 14/15 in 9th grade

    • Well, you did science though right?

    • I started learning about the reproductive system in science when I was 11 years old. Sex education was never in existence when I was studying. From the science and biology, we learnt sex from a scientific point of view. We also learnt about adolescence at 11 years old in our science lessons. That was enough preparation for the changes we were going to go through in the years I come. Besides that, there was an extra curricular program that was mandatory and it taught us about the consequences of pregnancy. i. e. getting a girl pregnant or for girls, getting pregnant. Nothing we were taught was explicit but it made the points we needed to know. I find sex education a bit explicit but I guess it is necessary especially when things are left till you are 14/15 years old.

  • "Girls don't want that unless they specifically ask for it.
    And they could send/show it to anyone and the asshole kids will make fun of you if they see it (+ she might be an asshole kid).
    And also at your age it's technically illegal, like driving or smoking, and because I'm responsible for you I can't see you doing it and not stop you.
    Understand?"

    • Truee

  • That kid's phone would not see the light of day for at least until he was 16.

    • Daaaamn lol

  • The Talk at 12 alrighty then

    • Yea so young now a days

  • 1 I wouldn't explain that they are just too young. That it's a crime.
    2 explain that adults also make stupid decisions and sometimes it's not the best time.

    • Isit really a crime?

    • Underage, yes. Federal crime.

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