Our brains are a fucking nightmare.
they take in sensory information, from all our sense.
when we start taking in pleasure we release chemicals, endorphins etc.
our brains are addicted to this shit.
Physical pain, also produces similar shit, hence hot wax dropped on breast or other body parts will give the recipients a sexual high.
the other area, is emotional and psyche, now this is a big scary area but it’s also a place where the brain really loves playing.
simple examples are suggestion and anticipation.
you can suggest to someone what is going to happen and their brain with start using the anticipation side of things to look for this rush, high, etc.
I have done a lot of role play in real life and it’s simply strange what works, ( or does not work), a lot of it’s due to our brains living in the emotion of the role play and not the actual physical aspect.
you can do some serious damage emotionally to someone, simply from how you influence their emotions and other brain type stuff.
physical pain / pleasure is one thing, emotional pain / pleasure is another.
so we know both pain and pleasure trips our brains out.
the other sneaky thing, is fear, our brains flood everything when you hit its fear response, fight or flight is instantly engaged, but also we get loads of shit banging through our bodies along with that adrenaline boots. We are also getting other chemicals (dopamine) banging in to receptors.
https://www.nm.org/healthbeat/healthy-tips/emotional-health/5-things-you-never-knew-about-fear
link as I can’t be arsed typing a lot of stuff out.
roller coasters being a good example
This is why within BDSM, Trust and respect are so fucking important, you can scar someone for life or kill them or cause them to take their own Life, very easily.
on a personal level, rape is pretty much the most repugnant act a human being can do to another human.
I am however not going to even comment on other people’s fantasies, kinks or fetishes, as that would be incredibly hypocritical.
Reading and acting are huge differences.
the psychology behind a lot of this stuff is interesting, and how the brain gets its fixes.0 0 0 0
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There's a dynamic between men and women. Men are larger and stronger. Women get off on a guy with muscles who can dominate them sexually. A woman essentially surrenders to him and trusts that he won't hurt her. But women get a thrill from that danger. They also enjoy the fact that they are kind of helpless during sex. He can grip and pin her, position her, lift her, pull her hair, and so on. A lot of women like to be ravished and plundered, all be it, voluntarily.
Women enjoy that thrill.
So I suspect that rape fantasy is related to that thrill. No woman wants to actually be raped. But the fantasy of being forced, controlled and used by a super hot guy who finds them sexually irresistible is similar to what they crave in real life.0 0 0 0I forgot to add that a woman is in control of her fantasy. She can imagine what the guy looks like and what he does to her feels like. It's totally safe.
Most Helpful Girl
It's all fantasy. I have gotten off to sexual thoughts about rape before. It doesn't mean I want to get rape.
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0 22The thing about fiction is that it's not real. It's astounding to me how many people don't get that. Lots of people have fantasies about power exchanges in sex, and rape fantasies among women are common. How common? I don't know, but I've heard it a LOT, from a LOT of them; it ain't rare. Does that mean that woman actually wants to be raped? Of course not; it's just a fantasy.
Where do sexual fetishes come from? I don't know. But they don't have moral value (good or bad) in and of themselves. I general, it's nothing something I put much importance on.0 1 0 0Normal shrugs. I think it's more weird when a person cannot accept a fantasy. Like oh no i played a game were i was a demon killing people and found it fun. Oh no i drove into people on a game and found it funny. Does this make me crazy enjoying fantasy?
0 1 0 0Why are you reading rape porn if you don't like it? Also, those comments could be the author to the story. Just to make the taboo mainstream. Don't create your identity based on what you think guys like in porn, find a healthy guy to be with. If you decide you want to get a little taboo from there, at least you'll know if he respects you and not objectify you. That's why he would be your partner in life, not a booty call. Good luck!
0 0 0 0Having been actually raped, I don't understand the fantasy.
1 0 0 0I know I am 15 and and boy saying this but I think rape is horrid.
1 0 0 0That would a real turn off.
0 0 0 0If you raped me and wrote a book about it and i had to read it later on how do you think i would react?
0 0 0 0You will get mad
Most sex in romance novels is rapey the first time.
0 0 0 065% of women ADMIT to having rape fantasies.
0 0 0 0Whatever
0 0 0 0Well it's just thought/fantasy and maybe few likes getting it done. And it's not weird to like reading them.
0 0 0 0I don't think anything about them.
Their life and their fantasies, none of my business, is it?0 0 0 0I like watching rape porn
0 0 0 0it's not rape. it's just rough sex
cliche as fuck. that women like to be fucked rough/bdsm. but, it's not rape, i guarantee you0 0 0 0i think dt they like hardcore rough sex
0 0 0 0Fantasy and reality is different, some of the girls have rape fantasy...
0 0 0 0Thats still mild. There are lots of taboo fantasies out there. We humans tend to push the bounderies in our fantasies
0 0 0 0reading rape porn or watching
and that's normal I guess there are different people and different fantasy nothing weird about it0 0 0 0I'm quite dominant and I like submissive girls, I guess those girls are submissives so I guess I'd like them. Never met any. If you are one my DMs are open for a chat😜
0 0 0 0They to have same desire
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