How Can I fix this issue Peacefully with My Sisters ✋?

[Anonymous]

I am from Thailand, My father didn't have good relations with Mom, He Gave Divorce to Mom and got Married Again, I have two Older Sisters, One is 21 Years old and other is 24 Years old and she has a boyfriend too, My Mom always wants me to follow her instructions and obey to my both the sisters as well, she asks me to do all the house works and even to help my Sisters, My Sisters take advantage of my Situation and try to bully and Dominate me, Sometimes they even ask me to iron their clothes and clean up their Rooms, I feel irritated and if I don't do as they want, then either My 24 Years old Sister or Mom call to my Sister's boyfriend at home and asks him to punish me by pulling and yanking my penis to get me punished

There is a Neighbor Girl whom I like much and She is My Crush, She also used to talk me a lot, She comes to My home every evening to go for a Dance Class with My 21 Years old Sister, Two weeks Ago one day when she came in my home, She Coincidentally came in the Room when My Sister's boyfriend was punishing me, he had me Nude and he was yanking my penis brutally and I was Crying , that neighbor girl got Shocked to see this and she immediately went out with My 21 Years old Sister to go for the dance class and I don't know What My 21 Years old Sister told her about what She Saw But from the Next day She Stopped talking to me and she just ignore me, I could not explain her My Situation because of shame and embarrassment, Can she start talking to me Again like before? Or She don't want to keep relations with me Now? Also how can I fix this issue Peacefully with My both Sisters? or My Neighbor Girl has dumped me for forever?

[Leavesbound]

I don't know anything about Thai culture so I am not sure how much advice I can give that would be useful. Here in the United States I would suggest you go to the police and have your sister's boyfriend arrested for assault and battery. But I don't know if you have that option in Thailand. In any case if you are 19 I assume you are done with school and I would suggest you seek a job and earn as much money as possible and move out when you can.

[Asker]

@leavesbound I don't have much option here and due to Covid 19, Many people has lost their Jobs, So searching a small job is difficult these days but i will be able to move out after one Year... My both older Sisters ( 21 yo & 24yo) didn't want me to talk to that Neighbor Girl but when i refused then My 24 years old Sister got annoyed and she asked her boyfriend to yank my penis to punish me, She willingly asked her boyfriend to come at home when that neighbor girl also come to my home to go for dance class ! At that day he came in the evening and without telling me anything he forcefully had me naked and started pulling and yanking my penis brutally, he kept on pulling my penis until that neighbor girl came in and got to see this all... when i saw her i thought she would help me or she would ask my 21 years old Sister to stop him but i don't know what My 21 years old Sister told her and she didn't intervene on what was going on... but That Neighbor girl still talk to my both older Sisters and she even talk with My Sister's boyfriend ! I don't know what is wrong with her? Why she has dumped me? I feels more upset and sad when i see that Neighbor girl still talking to My Sister's boyfriend 😔 Do you think she got Impressed by his Phyiscal power when he had me naked?

[Rohaan2020]

Well the kind of behaviour ur sister's boyfriend is having with u... u must file a complaint against him... rest I don't see a way of solving this peacefully..

[Asker]

@rohaan2020 In My Country Police are very Corrupt and even if i Complain even then My both older Sisters or Mom will not turn Against him in front Court, Also My Sister's boyfriend is Rich and powetful, was looking for a possible peaceful solution, I want my 21 years old sister to intervene and help me, if she want then she can talk to my 24 years old sister and with her boyfriend to stop this, but i don't know how can i Convience her to help me?

[Rohaan2020]

I don't see any possible way of doing it peacefully... u need to involve police... and complaint about ur sisters too bcz they too are equally involved

[LivingExample]

You need to tell your Father what is happening to you!

[Asker]

My dad left Mom because of her freak and Aggresive nature, i don't have contact with him for last many years, My both older Sisters bully and dominate me like i am their Maid or even a slave at home... Only person was that Neighbor Girl whom i used to like a lot but i What she did surprised me ! And now she also stopped talking to me... i took lots of Pain because her but seems Most Girls are herstless and selfish !

[electromagnetic]

Call the police and explain to them what happen.

[Crazybeeguy]

It's time for you to get a job and be on your own. Never look back, there's a reason why your dad left. Also, forget the neighbor girl. Forget your sisters and close that chapter of your life.

[Asker]

I Can't forget that Neighbor Girl that easily

[Crazybeeguy]

I understand, but if she hhas no interest in you then it won't change. There are litterally billions of women. Just look for what you liked about her and find that with someone else

[Asker]

@crazybeeguy She used to talk me a lot but at that day when she saw me naked and my Sister's boyfriend yanking my penis badly... then She got Changed 🤷 from Next day, She stopped talking to me but she still talk to both my older Sisters and She even talks to My Sister's boyfriend... Why she only Stopped talking to me only?

[Asker]

@crazybeeguy does she think that I am weak and timid as My Sister's boyfriend had me naked and was pulling my penis? But then Why She talked to My Sister's boyfriend? 🤷😔

[Crazybeeguy]

Yep, you can't recover from that, and move on. Time to get a job move out and reinvent yourself

[Asker]

@crazybeeguy Yeah but I regret all my life... Why She is still talking to My Sister's boyfriend When She has stopped talking to me / Dumped me 🤔 @crazybeeguy What reason comes in your Mind? You may tell i won't mind it 🤔

[Crazybeeguy]

she's into your sisters boyfriend

[Asker]

@crazybeeguy You mean She like My Sister's boyfriend? Even when she herself saw how brutally he was pulling my penis... Instead of hating him She like him ! Do you think she got Impressed by his Phyiscal power when he had me naked?

[Crazybeeguy]

She likes the masculine male, it's common amongst young women. So, move somewhere else.

[035resid]

you are too young to live alone i guess. try to get in touch with you father, ask your relatives. you can get his number. otherwise call cops on your mom, or just beat your sister's boyfriend to let him know who is daddy in that house

[Asker]

@035resid I am the Youngest in My home So My both older Sisters has been bulling and domanting me Since i was 7-8 years old, My both Sisters and My Mom wants me to follow their orders like a slave and do as they want but When I turned 14-15 years old So i started Resisting and refusing their orders, it made them Annoyed and then started getting me stripped naked and my penis pulled and yanked by My Sister's boyfriend to make me Scared of them... Once When I was 16 years old then Once on her birthday My oldest Sister asked me to iron her dress... I didn't know how to iron a Girl's dress and i burnt her expensive dress.. She asked me, Why i didn't ask her how to iron her dress? And she started Shouting on me in Anger... and in the evening She called her boyfriend and She got My penis yanked brutally for Approx 20 minutes, I felt like he would Rip my penis Apart... I started crying and My penis got swelling and extreme Pain which lasted 3-4 days, Now after One Year i would finish my schooling and i could move away from here but for one year I need to fix this issue peacefully with My both Sisters for my safety !

[Seryha]

i don't know about your culture

[EmotionOfFear]

Why is your sister's boyfriend doing that to you?

[jerdanro]

If this is true, leave home and don't come back. You are being emasculated and abused.

[Asker]

What does emasculated mean? And what about My Crush/Neighbor girl? I still like her

[jerdanro]

Technically, it means cutting your penis off, but more commonly it means humilliating you in a way that attacks your manhood. Unless you are deeply in love with her, I would find someone else. That image can't be erased from her mind and she didn't seem concerned for you.

[Asker]

@jerdanro I used to like that Neighbor girl for last One Years and I wanted to tell her about My feeling ! But Since that day She has stopled talking to me and it's not easy for me to explain her about what was happened at that day, She saw me naked and being punished and then I don't know what my 21 years old Sister has explained her about what she saw, My 21 years old sister must have told some different reasons why I was being punished like that because she has good relations with my 24 years old sister who had planned this all.

[jerdanro]

Even if you had done something to deserve punishment how is stripping you naked and tugging on your penis not sexual abuse. Frankly, if that happened in the U. S. they'd all be in prison and the guy would be labeled a sex offender.

[Asker]

@jerdanro This is Not US, and My Mom hate My dad and because of him she dislike me too... I will have to to tell you 10 years old Story ! But here I would move out in a Year but till then i wanna fix this issue peacefully with My Sisters and I want to Convience that Neighbor girl to resume talking to me or She should give me a 2nd Chance ! And do you think She stopped talking to me as she saw my penis being yanked? I mean she thinks I have less manhood left?

[jerdanro]

I don't know and I don't mean to upset you. I feel you have been abused. I guess I feel escaping the abuse is more important than the girl, in my opinion. I don't think you have less manhood left. I think your mother, sisters, and your sister's boyfriend are trying to take it from you by focusing the abuse on your penis. We come from different countries and cultures, so I may be seeing the situation very differently than you. Somethings are universal, but I don't know.

[Asker]

@jerdanro I am the Youngest in My home So My both older Sisters has been bulling and domanting me Since i was 7-8 years old, My both Sisters and My Mom wants me to follow their orders like a slave and do as they want but When I turned 14-15 years old So i started Resisting and refusing their orders, it made them Annoyed and then started getting me stripped naked and my penis pulled and yanked by My Sister's boyfriend to make me Scared of them... Once When I was 16 years old then Once on her birthday My oldest Sister asked me to iron her dress... I didn't know how to iron a Girl's dress and i burnt her expensive dress.. She asked me, Why i didn't ask her how to iron her dress? And she started Shouting on me in Anger... and in the evening She called her boyfriend and She got My penis yanked brutally for Approx 20 minutes, I felt like he would Rip my penis Apart... I started crying and My penis got swelling and extreme Pain which lasted 3-4 days, Now after One Year i would finish my schooling and i could move away from here but for one year I need to fix this issue peacefully with My both Sisters for my safety... I miss that Neighbor Girl but if she don't want to talk then I don't know what she thinks about me !

[joeyfunn]

if this is the situation
just call the cops
or go to ur dad
he might help

[Asker]

I don't know where is My dad now and i have No contact to him

[joeyfunn]

so just go to the cops it's child harassment bro