How do I make my boyfriends cum when giving him a blow job?

[Abi1710]

[Dargil]

*A blowjob is not passionate sex. It is nurturing sexual therapy.
*Get him hard and ready by an erotic massage/hand job first.
*The best blow job includes coordinated and properly timed use of hands and mouth. Your mouth focuses on the head and just below it and your hand strokes the shaft.
*Gradually build sexual arousal/tension. Do not slow down or pause or e can lose momentum.
*Edge him to make him last longer but be sure not to let him fade before building to orgasm.
*When you are ready for him to cum, bob and suck as quickly as you can sustain for maybe 3 minutes. Stroke as fast as you can with a moderate grip.
*When ejaculation starts, stop ALL mouth motion. Moderate sucking only.
*Slow down, but keep stroking to the last squirt. If you can master it, stroke between the later squirts but pause during the squirt.
*Stay locked on sucking lightly until he unplugs.
*A skilled blow job is not slutty. It is an act of love and nothing else makes a man feel more loved. A skilled BJ is Girl Power. If you get really good at it and will give it whenever he asks, it is cheating insurance.

[FlySwimmer]

Not written by me, but everything in here is so true..The Better Blowjob: A How-to Guide [Part 1]

[bzcxx]

there are so many things you can do that would certainly push him over the edge. dirty talk, eye contact and don't forget teasing him.
start by climbing on top of him and grinding him with clothes on. use your hands and sensually touch his body. slowly make your way down and start to touch his inner thighs. slowly pet and stroke his boner, watching him get rock hard for you. when you're ready, pull his pants down and spit on his dick. slowly pull down on his foreskin and tease the tip with your tongue. suck on the head and tease him until it drives him absolutely crazy. when you're ready, slowly push it deeper into your mouth, taking it as far in as you can. play and rub his balls as you suck him, lightly pulling down on them. start to bob up and down slowly, taking it all the way and using your tongue to lick the frenelum as you make your way back to the top. use your hands and stroke his foreskin, even with him in your mouth. it should look something like you jacking him off into your mouth and that feels so amazing. try a mix of sloppy head and blowjobs, mixing the use of hands and tongue. when he's about to cum, pull down on his balls and push his dick as far as you can into your mouth and use your tongue to lick the base of his shaft. when he tells you he's cumming, don't pull your head out (or you'll miss the cumshot), put your hands on the base of his shaft and start stroking it into your mouth as you lick head, milking every drop into your mouth. that should do the job!

[AmandaYVR]

The Better Blowjob: A How-to Guide [Part 1]

[AmandaYVR]

I just saw you're 18. I really hope you're 18. If under, don't read that mytake.

[chrissykerdock]

have a good attitude... smile at him when giving it... wear a short dress and get on your knees when told to do so... i don't mean to make it sound so? but guys hate delay... ultimately some guys even hit it... you need to really focus on his tip... forget that deepthroat bullshit... suck his mushroom head put your lips on it... swirl your tongue around his... work that vein behind his cockhead... lick it good with your tongue swirling it around it... do some sucking some swirling but be slow and sensous don't worry about getting him to cum in record time

[Seppel]

Exactly

[summiter]

Get him completely naked and then get him way hard with a handjob... yes guys love them... ask him to show you how he does it if needed. When he is hard and even close to an orgasm then just focus on the last 1-3 inches of his dick and focus on the tip with your tongue. You do not have to deep throat the thing like they do in porn movies. He will love it.

Do you want him to return the favor? You deserve some good orgasms also!!!

[Leavesbound]

First, make absolutely certain he knows how desperate you are to drink his sperm. And if you aren't then pretend you are. Nothing will make a guy cum faster or harder during a blow job then knowing the girl desperately craves his cum. smile a lot. Act like it's the best thing that ever happened to you. Even giggle while you do it will add to his excitement. You can pretend it's too big to fit but then force it in anyways. As for the mechanics of it, watch your teeth, lots of tongue action and don't neglect the balls. Find out if he likes his balls played with. If he does then do what he likes. Some guys adore having their balls slapped around during a blow job (me) and others hate having them touched at all. Most like some sort of gentle ball play. Just ask what he likes regards to his balls. some guys are very turned on if a girl chokes or gags on it deliberately. Some guys like it when a girl holds onto their ass while sucking. A lot of guys (me) like to play with her hair. Maybe put your hair in pigtails then hand your pigtails to him to play with "here, hold these for me." some want to take control and f*ck your mouth like it was a vagina. If he wants to and you can tolerate that then it could be fun. Every guy is different and so different things will get you different reactions but the number one things that will enhance a blow job will be enthusiasm and avoiding teeth.

[kkirk4442]

You just keep sucking and running your lips up and down on his cock, and stroking it with your hand. However, not all guys will cum from a bj, no matter how well it's done. Probably the surest way, is to get him real turned on, ready to cum before you start the bj. However, as said, not all guy cum from bj's.

[slatyb]

You can't. Some men will, some won't. Some can climax if they are active, but not if they are passively receiving stimulation. If a man doesn't climax it's not your technique, that's just him. If he wants you to do something differently, it's on him to tell you.

[Stevepro68]

Ask him everyone is slightly different.

[bowenw]

Focus on the first few inches. Be sure to use good pressure with your lips, but no teeth. Also use your tongue, especially on the frenulum and stroke the shaft with your hand. Try holding the skin tight at the base with the other hand. Bob your head. Give his balls some attention either by caressing them with your fingers or tongue. If he's getting closer, increase the speed and pressure. He could be nervous about cumming in your mouth, so be sure to encourage him to do it, provided you're okay with it. Otherwise tell him to pull out. Watch some porn or instructional videos for ideas.

[KatherineJ]

I think the answer is pretty obvious.

[IndieScent]

Eye contact is really sexy. Another thing is circling your tongue around the head. If you can handle deep throat that can be really hot. Do your best to avoid your teeth scrapping his dick. After that it's mostly a thing of communicating with him, asking him what he likes, what feels good, and what doesn't.

[Redxdevil]

Depends how good you are at giving blowjobs 😉

[jeremy_09]

just move your head up and down and it will happen

[1amcurious]

You also have to know whats his preference and work on that along with other acts, seduction and stuff

[Wise4myage]

Hand or foot jobs.

[swettannie]

never done it?

[Twalli]

Suck and lick

[KrakenAttackin]

Work that cock!

[Hanrej]

Keep at it!

[JamieLoves]

Stick your lubed finger up his as!
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