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Do real dom masculine loyal men exist?

The real dom, who have masculine charming personality, not one who thinks being too buff makes him dom or masculine, who is willing to care protect and understand girl, who understands that girls can be delicate and submissive, one who craves that, craves that girl who is opposite of him, and he is so confident in his masculinity that he doesn't mind girl being naive and childlike, not one who thinks tying her in bedroom make him dom but one who knows it’s not about getting power over her, who understand that it’s her who submits with full faith, where she can fully bare herself (not talking physically here) he who accept her with all her insecurities and vulnerabilities, who knows it’s just not what is in bedroom but also out side, ykwim? Not sadist one who gives girl pain but the real man who can take charge and be responsible enough inside and outside bedroom both... Well ufff I can write so many things but I don’t have enough words and well with real dom I won’t have to explain it either right? Real dominant masculine man is just the way he is, he don’t pretend to be anything, he is completely loyal devoted and protects his lady at all manners, as a very feminine mature baby girl I can sense who is real dom and who is fake one, so far literally I am on verge of giving up that he exist ☹️
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  • Phew, first lesson please use paragraphs.

    yes these people exist, they understand not everything is based on sex and is more about protecting and care.

    The question a Dom would ask of a potential sub, would be on experience and understanding of the actual life style she describes.

    more than happy to discuss further on here or via DM.

    I leave it as your choice a Pink Anon.

    • Lol thanks for noticing that mess 🤪 i had wrote everything in paragraphs and also had some photos but because of net problem so many times I had to rewrite and lot more, after posting i too realised all mess but can’t delete neither edit so bear with it 😅 ... well regarding my question the thing is it’s not about any role play or bdsm thing, what I mean is man will be always man and woman will be always woman, both have different strengths and weaknesses, all I see around are boys (I will call them boys because they so immature) who are not at all responsible, they have this mindset that either guy control girl or let her be on her own in the name of independence, ykwim? Being independent woman doesn't mean living on my own without sharing or taking her mans consideration, nowadays boys are like be ur own, I can be my own but then why I need you boy ykwim? ... uff I am very bad at explaining I couldn’t explain everything question too 🤦🏻‍♀️Well never mind 😅

    • Lol I think I get the just of it. It is very close to what lifestyle BDSM is, ignore the movies about bondage and spanking etc. It’s about an emotional bonding where the man looks after and protects the girl, she can be feisty, independent, confident etc but the protection is from the man. I sort of understand what you mean, as I said, you can continue here with shorter messages or DM. But also you can tell the man exactly what you want and how you expect him to behave. It works both ways, the man needs to understand who he protects and comforts and the girl how she wants this.

    • Oh wow you exactly seems to be understanding what I mean... I don’t do DMing here but you pretty much answered my question... so you mean guys like that exist right? Hopefully 🤞🏻... thank you so much for answering^^ your answer is giving me hope 🤞🏻😌

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  • sure. but they are less conspicuous to girls, cause they don't try to impress girls with learned behavior that caters to their interest like players do, who'se only interest is to get laid as fast as possible.

    i think it might me worth a try to pay more attention to guys around you that are not blatantly obvious about their interest right away.

    • Wow that’s a fair point I will definitely keep that advice in my mind thank you for answering ^^

    • you're welcome :) just a little extra information for you: generally speaking, men that decided to be loyal will have very high standards for the women they choose to date. because obviously they're not in it for the quick in and out game. they are considering the value a girl can give to them and if they see them self as able to long term provide the value that their girl of interest wants in her life. it's quite a bit more difficult than just finding a chick to hook up with and never talk to again.

    • Yea I am sure I do expect that because I am also same so 😊🙌🏻🤞🏻

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  • Yes, but it's hard to tie them down because they have so many options

  • Yes I believe there are many, I am to a point in real life one of those guys , but let me try to roleplay it haha, and try to be that person it doesn't work because there's always rules or the way other people see it. I have been on my own since I was 16 and a half I have learned everything the hard way. From 3 years old to 10 years old I used to get beat and I mean beat with a belt. That is not punishment or love. I never knew who my father was until I was 27. Always searching for myself wondering who I was in this world the 33 I knew who I do not want to be I've had to be disciplined on my own I had to find love on my own. Most people become that person who they are treated like I went the opposite way I can teach you how to love I can teach you how to be self-disciplined I can show you and you would melt but that's only in real life if I try to fake it any other way it just doesn't work right

    • You believe there are many? Wow that’s giving me lot of hope and smiles 😊 yea you are so right about mindset, sometimes abusive childhood makes people abusive too, honestly it’s very common nowadays 😣 but mindset like you I appreciate but also sometimes it makes people very vulnerable, I didn’t exactly had abusive childhood, but doing things on my own I just couldn’t do it, I am mature and responsible enough but failing to be independent, maybe because deep down I don’t want to, I am tired, now I want someone to take care of me too, it doesn’t mean I won’t take care of him, but now I wanna be feminine, calm and appreciated for what I am, I dream of that masculine dom (in my question) but guys around me are neither sub neither dom, they are just like be ur own, do ur own, pay ur own don’t expect anything from guy blah blah uff so I feel very pressured and lonely 😓... well thanks for your answer ^^ I wish to find my dom soon 😌🤞🏻 Haha

  • The issue is man have differnt meanings when they say a dom u have pretty much painted the picture off a man with no flaws Mr perfect if thats what u are after then nobody will live upto that

    • Please don’t judge just based on few words, I couldn’t explain much in so less words, the question only is do guys like that exist anymore, i used word ‘responsible’ who take responsibility of his wrong or right actions and understands that girls can be delicate and submissive and accept her as she is, in return obviously it’s her responsibility too to accept him as he is and that he can be imperfect too but no matter what real man will be always real man and real feminine girl will always be feminine girl,... i don’t know how to explain it 😓

    • But thats another thing what u see as a real man another might see as shit or far from relaistily someone capable of being accountable for themselves sure thats more then within reason but for me the relationship u seem to be describing is one where I'm more off a guardian or parent to my partner then a partnership with them

    • Hmm yea agree, I mixed 2 questions, I shouldn’t have write real man, I meant was real dom, and yes i think that’s what I want a guardian a father figure too, well that’s just my personal preference, but nowadays no boy wanna take even single responsibility of even partnership that’s why In answers too I wrote real man, ... and as I have wrote in question being buff not mean being dom, nowadays everyone wants to roleplay and outside they don’t care, I really think man always wants to protect lady, specially the one he loves but nowadays in this gender neutrality I don’t feel feminine anymore... sorry for mixing that thing up, what you are saying make sense too but yea I am in search of the dom the big man (not physically or age wise) with whom I can feel feminine

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  • Sure, it's up to you to choose.
    What is more troubling is this wall of text about what YOU want and need, but not one single comment on what YOU would bring, what high-value YOU present, nor what you would ever do for YOUR man. It's all navel-centric, which is all too common.

    • Good point, I was going to write much more but neither I had enough words here nor people would have read very big things, my question is only that do “these kind of guys exist” that’s it! Obviously what he expect and all that’s compatibility matter but one who is real dom and feminine me will have one thing in common for sure is that we will be attracted to the way we are opposite, one real dom will sense sub in me, I am not saying one who doesn't like me is not dom, again that’s compatibility, but thing is only dom enough will be compatible with me for sure, and there are rarely if ever like that nowadays 😓

    • Yes, we've raised a whole crop of girlie-men. Way too many of them never had a man in their life to learn what one is, what they're for, and what they're really like. Having a real man is more like keeping a lion or a tiger. Ever see lions fuck?

  • they do exist but likely either are very private about that and/or have been overlooked due to some other criteria such as age, a certain physical look, wealth, timing, etc.

  • Yes.

  • Yes I'm one of them and single im old school gentlemen nice in the streets and naughty in the sheets

  • Yes hmu , I'll show you

  • Ask Don Draper lol

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  • Not to boast, and not to be flirtatious, but we align on many of those qualities (though not quite all of them). And given the abundance of humans and how varied we are, I can only imagine there are plenty of men out there who are fit that criteria perfectly. Though, given the secrecy of BDSM, they unfortunately may not be as easy to find as others.

    • Oh wow answers like yours are making me smile 😊 yea I guess they are rare for sure, I wish I will find my dom match soon 🤞🏻 Haha thank you so much for answering ^^

    • No problem, best of luck. 😁

    • 😊🙌🏻

  • I am loyal but not very dominant or aggressive unless I *know* she wants it.

    I'm a switch but lean on the sub side even though people tend to want my dom side.

    • Actually dom guys have bad reputation of being not so loyal to only one girl but my point is then that’s a fake dom, nothing wrong with being switch but for me compatible will be only dom, haha... by the way thanks for answering^^

  • Yes they do exist. If they are legit they are in high demand from women. So good luck finding one and keeping one.

  • Yes...

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  • yes
    in movies

    • No!! The one I am talking about doesn’t exist in movies either 🤦🏻‍♀️🤪

  • Possibly. I feel like I am this way; but I know that it is hard to be a good judge of one's self. So I am willing to admit that I might be wrong about that. At any rate, whether I am or not; surely there are a handful of men who are like this.

    • Hmmm fair answer 🤔 thank you for answering ^^

    • You're welcome.

  • Yes... Except where are all those worthy of him?

    • Here I am, I am surely proud of myself about this, not to misunderstood with arrogance, I am exactly opposite of the man I mentioned in my question as he should be comfortable in his masculinity, I am fully comfortable in my femininity, and anything else is about individual compatibility... well so ur answer is yes, I really hope so (they do exist) 🤞🏻... thank you for answering^^

  • I'm a nice guy , so they do exist.

  • Yes we exist just really hard now a days to find a girl like that.

  • Are you serious about it

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    • What do you think about guys like me

  • I am one, dominant af and always loyal

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