Girlfriend made a joke about my penis, do I have the right to be mad?

[Anonymous]

We were chilling and i told her about pyronise disease. That disease where your dick curves 90 degrees. I have a slightly bent penis and am somewhat self conscious about it. She said "i heard guys with curved dicks jerk off too much, you should stop jerking off" purposely mentioning the flaw i have, she admitted later that she knew its not true and just wanted to joke at me. Im mad because flaws that someone can't change and ESPECIALLY mens dicks u don't make fun of.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Yes. Making a joke at the expense of someone’s condition isn’t a nice thing. Especially when that condition isn’t something that was caused by them. It’s like making a joke about about Parkinson’s or cancer.
You should tell her because I’m sure she’s self conscious about her boob being slightly bigger than the other as most women are. I doubt she would find it funny if you said something about it.

[Anonymous]

I think this comes into play of the fact that you have a small insecurity and of course she should respect your insecurity, but at the same time, I’m sure she loves you and accepts you for the way you are. Maybe she was signaling that you want off too much and she doesn’t like that. Sounds like both of you are young and just have insecurities you need to work out with each other

[SamFromFL]

He would be ok to joke about her being fat right?

[Asker]

@SamFromFL thats partially why im mad

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao oh no a guy resorting to the “being fat joke “ it has nothing to do with how curvy he is, she was referring to him wanking off which could be a bother to her that he does. Like I said it’s insecurities on both sides that need to be talked about and respected.

[SamFromFL]

Lol I could have equally said : your boobs are flat. But I hope she’s got no issues with him wanking off because all guys do that

[Opinion Owner]

Have you looked at this kids age? Um it’s perfectly normal for girls/ boys to have insecurities like this at that age. Again you aren’t equaling anything to anything because she wasn’t trash talking his curviness, she was trash talking her personal insecurity about his wanking.

[Opinion Owner]

Please stop with your “double standard” Spiel

[SamFromFL]

Oh didn’t see he was under 18. I’m not trying to press a double standard, I’m actually being sarcastic. For sure he wouldn’t dare make fun of her body if he ever wants to have sex with her

[Opinion Owner]

You are trying to make my answer sound like it’s a double standard when in reality she may be just hinting her insecurity. I don’t think she was right for poking at his insecurity , but I am just saying sounds like there’s insecurities on both ends that need to be addressed and respected

[SamFromFL]

I apologize

[Asker]

no the masturbation wasn't the intent behind the joke, the intent was to make fun of the curvature of my dick, she said that herself, it seems like a double standard

[Asker]

im 17 turning 18 in like a month

[Opinion Owner]

Well then she’s wrong. I don’t understand why she would make something up like that unless if there’s insecurities of you doing that too often for her liking. She definitely needs to respect you, so hopeful she won’t make fun of you ever again. If she does, then that’s definitely a problem.

[Adam1978]

No it's natural for it to have a tiny bent in one or the other direction. It will always bend upwards and not stick straight out. So a 100% straight penis would be unnatural.

[In_Trance]

A disease? Lol ok... whatever

[SamFromFL]

No, don’t be mad

[g0d_of_GaG]

Well she's still banging you right? If it were me I guess I'd just take it cause at least I'm getting sex