Why do coworkers sexually harass me at work?

[Anonymous]

Its not managers. Its my co-workers. I just don't get why they do it. So many do it.

[Marcoss_Paz]

Because they feel like they're the center of the world :/. If they understood how limits are real, and how reality is not a simple projection of our own I (you know, people respond differently to our own acts, that's why we should be careful and not impulsive at all), they would be much, much more respectful. Please, don't let yourself down. Ignorance is 90% of the world. Be aware of it and find a safer work place if it's possible within the moment. If you feel unhappy and insecure, don't waste your time time considering why people mistreat you. The problem is not the target, but the gun. And if you are a gun, everything is a target.

Be safe and happy. Any other thing is madness.

[Zmuetbflsi]

Thank you!❤

[Anonymous]

That happens everywhere in the corporate world. At some work places if you want that raises, promotions and bonuses you gotta sleep with them. My ex girlfriend choose her job over me because she loves her job and she heavily career obligated and now she makes 3x more now then she did when we dated and yes she's friends with all of her co workers, people at HR and her managers. She hardly dates anymore but if she's in the mood then she grabs a co worker or two then party's with them.

[Asker]

So she slept to get ahead is what you're saying? I dont see how that would even work.

[Zmuetbflsi]

But wow at you saying this is normal in corporate world. I am in retail. Yeah. I am not wanting to becoming a whore or slut for a career though. Thing is i am not even that career oriented. Im just trying to survive. But thanks for the info. At least now i can know to expect this nonsense and pre-protect myself next time and anticipate it.

[Opinion Owner]

When i worked at pizza hut during my second year they had a group sex party but I wasn't invited because was too busy taking care of my mom who had stage 4 lung cancer 😭 also at the time the guys around the kitchen at pizza hut were dping / double penetration the girls around the store but they do it during there days off with them

[Zmuetbflsi]

I don't know if i can believe thar. Sounds like a guys fantasy. But what kind of crazy people are they?

[Opinion Owner]

No kindling. My dad found some of his co workers doing 420 in the warehouse and there was a few time he hear someone having sex in the Company Office when they was typos or lower pays on his paycheck.

[Opinion Owner]

Not kidding, joking or making it up!*

[Zmuetbflsi]

Wow, maybe thats what my co-workers secretlywant to do... Group sex or just pass everyone around outside work. This really opened my eyes.

[zoe2187]

Can’t say why they do. But you need to set boundaries. Let them know you won’t be treated that way.

[Asker]

Yeah I don't think I have it in me

[Aassem]

Describe the harassment, so that we can help you, your question is so vague for now, I can only say cuz they are jerks but that won't help you would it?

[Asker]

No thanks. Just google sexual harassment if you cabt figure it out on your own.

[Aassem]

Your question is "Why?" tho. How can I possibly know why they harass you with these little details? And it's weird too cuz you say so many of them do, so I can't imagine how could this be happening.

[Leavesbound]

If you live in the U. S. you have a right not to experience that and you may be able to take legal action. If you can try to record them doing that as evidence.

[Zmuetbflsi]

Thanks. good answer

[The_Maphio]

I call bullshit.
If that was the case instead of asking this on a rather shoddy message board, you should talk to your boss.
Unless, as I stated, it's a whole lot of BS.

[Zmuetbflsi]

Reported.

[Avicenna]

Probably because there is a lack of managerial oversight and no one gets punished for it. That's usually why it occurs.

[Asker]

So true, because where i work the managers are hardly even around!

[Iron_Man]

Because they can get by with it so that’s why they do it to get your reaction report them

[Anonymous]

Do you dress like you are going to the club? Do you wear makeup? Heels?
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Do you display yourself in a manner that is common with females who are trying to get male attention?

[Zmuetbflsi]

Kindly go fuck off sexist puece of shit

[Opinion Owner]

@Zmuetbflsi Typical response to someone holding a female accountable for her actions.