While I've heard lots of horror stories from various women - when I was younger I honestly didn't believe them, but over time, I heard enough of them from different women that I had to start believing them - that's just not my own personal experience, and so I can't really relate. I know that such guys exist - who care nothing about the woman's pleasure - but that just doesn't compute for me. A huge amount of my own pleasure comes from HER pleasure, and I enjoy women's entire bodies - I can't do that porn thing where the guy gives her one little kiss, squeezes a tit for 2 seconds, and then the only thing touching is P-to-V. Why only have a 20% experience when you can have a 100% experience? I've never understood why anyone would cheat themselves that way.
(Yes, I realize porn has different priorities than actual sex between two normal people - I'm just making the point that real sex shouldn't be like porn sex.)
I do and always have. For me the best part of sex is how she reacts to an orgasm that I helped her have. Jerking off is easy. I can make myself cum any time and I don't need a woman for that. But there is something truly special knowing I'm the cause of a woman's sexual nirvana. But far more important than that I can't make out with myself and I really enjoy the intimacy of making out with a girl even if it doesn't lead to sex. Then of course there is all the other advantages of being in a relationship with a woman that have nothing to do with sex.
Things are quite different in my experience...
They still want sex..
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Beats me. Reciprocity is the best part about sex.
I wouldn't personally enjoy myself at all if they didn't enjoy me and respond to me in a big way.
If anything, the fact there is another person doing it with me is automatically more important than whatever physical sensation I'm experiencing.
Even if this is a completely casual encounter.
Wherever you are fining these guys, you need to start looking somewhere else!
Cause they're gay. Case closed.
(I mean, the risk of getting MeToo'ed is also there, but not enough to stop men from having sex.)
If you live in a western country, it’s because women in general have become insufferable entitled basic bitches, and many are not comfortable dealing with girls and get rejected and humiliated, also porn has caused massive damage to teenagers and their sexuality
Perhaps due to the fact that guys in your generation grew up with unlimited easy to access porn and your generation was never taught to make guys work for it. You know, early on if the guy is a selfish lover, on e you realize it. Just say, "Stop! This isn't doing anything for me and obviously, you don't know how to please a woman". Or, start sleeping with older men who know women's bodies and how to pleasure them.
Guys do, its a biological fact that we like sex. To believe otherwise would contradict human nature. Could it be that guys dont like having sex with you (you asked anonymously so we can't tell if you're cute or not) ? The only way you'll get a genuine answer is if we see how you look, its a hard truth
This is a first hearing this to be honest I dont know anyone personally thay would masterbait over have sex I have seen a few online but even then its a smaller group then the norm
Maybe I’m not explaining myself the best sorry. It’s more that lots of guys I’ve noticed don’t really care about how the girl feels. As long as he gets his business done he’ll clean up and leave. Sex seems less like a mutual thing I guess.
Oh because most guys that just hookup or have a 1 night stand dont care about the womens side to it because they are just trying to bust there nut why would they try to please her when they don't care about here and would never see her again
When I am with a girl, my first desire is to give her oral sex. I do not want or ask her to blow me and intercourse is way down the road. Once we start undoing clothes, I just want to show her love. I know it's weird, but early sex can ruin a relationship but early cunnilingus can bond it.
Not 'guys', just YOUR guys.
Bear in mind you're dealing with BOYZ your age. They're still boyz.
Not wanting kids (granted fingering/oral is a thing).
maybe lazy or very tired men just want it quick but I prefer to explore her body, study how she reacts to what I'm doing. Investing time and effort in her pleasure results in great rewards for the both of you.
I don't know why you would say that I haven't had sex for over a year and I can tell you I would love having sex with a woman if I could this second I would be it's so much better compared to my hand
I’m aware most guys would rather have sex than masturbate, but I’m saying that lots of guys view women as living flesh lights than partners (“using women’s bodies to masturbate”)
Asker... well most women enjoy the role of being the town pump for Chad Thundercock, so what do you expect?
Is what you're saying that using women's bodies to get off basically
Some men and boys don't like vagina pussie and rather be sexual with their own gender, whether straight or bi-sexual. It all about playing a penis then Vagina pussie. 💞
I prefer marriage
What planet are you finding guys like that on? Certainly not Earth, lol.
Haha I’m pretty sure I’m here on Earth. Just has been the consensus of most of the women I’ve talked to so I just wanted to ask.
Thanks, lol. I think the women you're asking have had bad experiences with men. Are they hanging out in gay bars, lol.
I never heard of this one. I love having sex with a woman. The real thing is always better.
lol i always see all the boys are horny more than girls on every site i don't think you are right
I am pretty sure most guys prefer sex, we just don't always get it.
WTF are you talking about?
You need to pick better guys.
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