Do you think there is chance for a 30 year old woman to lose her virginity someday?

[Anonymous]

So, I'm 30 and still virgin, and just to clarify, I'm not desperate or craving, I just want to have honest opinions about this matter. I'm a Female. I'm not pretty and that's Ok, I have come to accept my unattractiveness. My body is slim, with very small breasts, kind of a tomboyish body type, brunette. Some qualities here and there, intelligent, funny, talkative, musician, comprehensive, not a fool or loser, I actually like myself, but I'm ugly faced and you know, I guess guys don't want to be with an ugly woman. Is there any hope of making love with someone who loves you when you are 30 and still a virgin? Sorry, I just need some opinions. Thank you all.

[Dargil]

Of course it is. You have important qualities: "Some qualities here and there, intelligent, funny, talkative, musician,". As men age, we look for common appeal and common interest. Your physical assets will not be the central focus. My guess is that you have "enough" of everything. Working your way into an authentic "Friends With Benefits" arrangement based on common interest ad a desire for intimacy can work. It is not casual sex. It is a true friendship centered on common interest. If you find a candidate, invite him out for coffee and work toward developing it. And an older guy (35-45) will inform himself on what do do to coach you through virginity and have a fond memory.

[0112358]

Your second last sentence changes everything.

it's extremely easy for a 30 year old skinny virgin to get laid.

"with someone who loves you" - well yes but this is suddenly much more complicated. It's additionally complicated by the fact many men your age expect to have dating and sex first and falling in love second.

[Anonymous]

you could literally walk out the door and get laid if you wanted to, you just need to find the right person it sounds like, i am 33 and still a virgin, i just really want to find the right person, they are hard to find. but finding someone to get laid i have people give me their number even at the market sometimes however its for a hook up that i am not interested in, while i do not judge who does what, thats just not for me. to answer your question of course there is a chance.

[moviedude714]

Saving it for marriage?

[Opinion Owner]

@moviedude714 for someone serious and the right person. i have so much to offer, i work, cook, clean no kids, im looking for someone to offer me communication, loyalty and a commitment, i dont think thats asking for too much but it is very rare to find these days

[ushagomez]

I think there is a 100% chance that given how lovely you are you will find someone with whom to share great pleasure. I know you are not desperate, however I would recommend making sure but you are always on the lookout for someone nice and let you take the opportunityTo have a wonderful relationship with someone as soon as you can.

[loves2learn]

Absolutely there is. I’m sure you are not unattractive. You are being too hard on yourself. After the pandemic go to some music shows, connect with like minded people. You can do this. :)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think there's hope for any virgin of age to find someone they love.

[Hawner]

Yes, you have as many chances as any other girl. Just find the right guy.

[rachel776]

yes of course anyone can have sex at any time in their life

[Newhead]

You have no idea how lucky you are, stay clean and unaffected by demons running around out there.

[Voster20]

Girl what? 😅 most guys won't reject pussy. It's all in your head.

[slatyb]

Of course there's a chance. "I'm not pretty..." Why do you say that?

[Celtero]

Only if you make an effort... If you wait for it to happen to you then probably not.

[Avicenna]

Definitely, but do it with a boyfriend (so you should get a boyfriend).

[LiamSawyer]

You sound very attractive to me.

[RealMarek]

There are always guys around to have sex with. If you want a hook-up, you can get one, but I recommend you find a man who will care about you. With your lack of confidence, it will be difficult. I doubt your face is unattractive. Even if it isn’t your best feature, you are not overweight or have children from previous relationships like a lot of women your age. Be confident. Set up a dating profile and explain what you are looking for. You’ll be fine.

[exitseven]

30 is not too old. After the pandemic is over things will look better. by the way you are not ugly, I can tell, it's my superpower.

[jspl90]

well if you are ugly get a hot body👌👍and you could always go under the knife🤔 but honestly rather than being slightly underaverage in the face the absolute dealbreaker for me is bad teeth

[johnsmithjs]

Probably not, lets be for real, you are 30 and a virgin. You say you are ugly but I have really only ever seen a handful of slim females that are ugly. So if you are truly that ugly that no one wants to have sex with you then you are not just ugly but FUGLY. If you are truly FUGLY then you are FUCKED or in this case not fucked. On the bright side there is always a FUCKING MACHINE you can purchase.

[cjmtherfcker]

Yes. You don't know how valuable that is. You can use it to leverage a better guy than you may think you qaulify for if you play your cards right.
Willing to bet if you try and style yourself in a bit more feminine way, You will start getting more attention

[Danish87]

Just be social and try to find one. Also if you looking only for sex than can look for hook up or may be friends with benefits if you trust one of friend.
If like to talk can message me.

[scott04sa22]

Yes!!

[scott04sa22]

I started having sex at 31

[moviedude714]

Do you regret having waited that long?

[scott04sa22]

Nope

[moviedude714]

Oh, saved it for marriage?

[scott04sa22]

People think your more experienced and more mature in your 30s then 20s.

[moviedude714]

Ya the feelings mix or are varied, people who feel their sex life had a delayed start, a lot of times feel sad and depressed about it

[scott04sa22]

I lost my virginity when I was 18 but after that I couldn't find anybody for quite some time until I was 31 I seen quite a bit of ladies but they weren't the right ones. Also recently when I was out somewhere I was having lunch then someone came up to me and talked with me for a little bit then we exchange numbers but I wasn't interested of her and I wasn't looking or wasn't in the mood for pussy or a month I couldn't cummed in after she left I kept her number but didn't call or text her because wasn't interested in her but earlier the next morning she called me and asked what I was doing. Told her nothing then she came over then we talked then out of the blue she told me she wanted to be fucked in the ass I told her there's is men out there who has bigger cocks and can't get the job done better then me but she wanted someone older, mature with more experiences and she was a anal virgin and I told her I have done anal sex but not with a anal virgin before. The next thing I know I'm relaxing her for like five minutes applying water base lubricants around her anus and on my average size cock then got her butt on her side then for 5 minutes slowly sliding my cock in her anus then my hard lube cock was finally in her ass then I was very slowly fucking her ass for 10min!! She looked so horny as hell then I cummed in her ass and she loved it!

[scott04sa22]

also I was 100% to myself from the entire time seeing her without pretending to be someone else. I wasn't acting cocky, a jerk or being a bad boy but felt confident even though she don't want me to cum in her ass but I still did it and she still like it. Also if a women helped you during sex like helping you guide your penis in her holes or try to put you back on the same page consider that a good sign.

[moviedude714]

So you had sex for the first time in 18 and then you wouldn't have sex again until 31?

[scott04sa22]

Yep first at 18 did it like 5 times then like I said couldn't find anyone and start back up until I was 31. The person F20 I fucked the first 5 times she didn't feel a connection until she met her 50 year old husband and she had 5 kids with him

[moviedude714]

So sounds like you ended up on a dry spell that lasted for over a decade

[scott04sa22]

During those 14 years without sex again there's was far more important things out there to do then sex. Like skydiving, swimming, cosplay events and pokémon conventions.

[moviedude714]

You're not sad or depressed over that long dry spell are you?

[AmeerX]

I know I love a girl and she is single and 29.
I want to marry her even though she thinks she is ugly. I don't think she is ugly

[Jamie05rhs]

You say you're "ugly," but that's a very subjective term.

[Stevefiveo]

Yes, you'll find someone someday. By the way, I'm very good with virgins. I take my time and go slow with them.